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Guyz,
I'm leaving IF and i know dat this doesn't matter to many ppl. I didn't made many friends over here. Its not dat i'm not a friendly person but somehow i've realized dat this forum is quite full of ppl who've extreme emotions n many of them don't knw how 2 handle their emotions.
I also found some ppl who always tried to balance out n neutralize d FIGHTS n FAVORITISM going on in the forum like pricessyashika, aahana86 n DiyaS(those whom i remember). But now i've actually decided 2 quit coz i can see a hell lot of favoritism n critism 4 some characters.
Coming 2 d topic of my post "Gunji ki izzat pe kechar uchchla", 4 those who can't understand Urdu "Gunji's image has been totally scratched". After all this, i always knew dat every single person at d forum will still favor Samrat n won't see how Gunji's respect has been torn into pieces by dat article.
If every1 of u think logically instead of becoming emotional, "Hav u ever thought abt d consequences of watever came printed i dat article abt gunji". she'll definitely b targetted by ppl as d INFIDLE character who destroyed d lives of 2 men namely Samrat n Neil. Nobody will blame these 2 men as this is how society behaves bt Gunjan will certainly be blamed 4 everything. Tell me wat happens when we hear some buzz like this in real life. 95% its d girl who's being blamed whether she's innocent or not. Same will happen here.
Watever has been said abt Gunjan in dat article, ppl will believe dat n when she'll go back home, ppl will RIDICULE n TAUNT hr 4 hr bad character. Nobody will ask d reporter, Samrat or Neil anything. It ws Neil's film, started n ended. Ppl will 4get abt it after some time n he'll start a new life. D Reporter, i already hate him. Samrat he'll keep on claiming his love 4 Gunjan n won't understand Gunjan's problem but it'll be Gunjan who's going 2 suffer d most bcoz of this news.
"Today ppl read d article.
2morrow they'll TAUNT hr, RIDICULE hr 4 bad character.
Nxt time they'll be hating hr 4 bad character.
She'll be in d news 4 some time 4 bad Repo.
The news might reach 2 hr Bauji n Bui.
They'll be devastated n shocked. They may come Mumbai 2 take back their daughter 2 Morena.
they'll try 2 get hr married wid a gud man ASAp.
Ppl will reject hr 4 hr bad repo. Hr life would b miserable.
Wat do u think nw dat Samrat did the right thing by scratching his own beloved GF's character 4 every1. I don't think so.
If he loves hr this doesn't mean dat he shud b dng stupid stuff like this. Telling abt his personal stuff 2 total strangers. How can't he simply not trust hr. If he himself always asks hr 2 trust him why doesn't he trust hr also besides d fact dat Gunji hs also pronounced hr love 4 him in front of every1 soooooooo many times throught action n through words. How can he then say dat she's not understanding him when he himself is not trying 2 understand hr. Even dat truck driver 4m whom he took lift 2 come here ws unable 2 make him understand d true nature of love.
All of u please remember, "To love somebody doesn't mean dat u shud always b afraid 2 lose dat person n 4 dat u always want him or hr around u under ur sight. If u love somebody whole heartedly, u never try 2 bind dat person wid u bcoz he/she is already bound 2 u coz of ur TRUST n FAITH in dat person". This is called true love. When u don't need dat person physically wid u coz u knw dat even if she/he isn't there wid u at d moment stll she/he is concerned abt u all d time.
LIFE ISN'T A BED OF ROSES. Dat's wat Samrat needs 2 understand n learn. If his parents hav done wrong 2 him he shudn't b applying d same criteria 2 his other relations. He's fearful of losing Gunjan coz he lost his parents, right. Totally agree. But he needs 2 trust hr. If she hs said COUNTLESS times dat she'll never ever b leaving him then, its nt Gunjan who hs 2 prove something 2 him or understand him bt its Samrat who needs 2 learn 2 trust hr. How can he learn?
How do we learn 2 trust our family, friends n relatives? How do a newly married woman trusts hr husband whose 99.9% times a stranger? How do a child trusts hr/his mother? The answers 2 all these questions is "By d concern of other ppl we see 2wards us. When they take care n love us, we start trusting them n this trust grows stronger when we see those ppl actually caring 4 us bt d same trust gets shattered if those same ppl r not there in d time of our needs". So, guyz, this is wat TRUST is all abt. This is wat Samrat needs 2 do. Act upon d truck driver's advice if he understood it which i knw he didn't. If he'll stll fear of losing Gunjan just coz his parents left him then it means dat he doesn't trust hr completely. And if he can't trust hr, then he can't trust any1.
D fear of losing ur loved one just coz u love hr is a totally immature reason. He's not trying 2 understand dat coz of his mistake Gunji's life is at stake. u'll give me d reason dat he ws worried abt hr coz of Neil n dat's why he tld d reporter everything. Fine? Bt don't u remember d letter given 2 him by Diya 4m Gunjan in which Gunji tld him 2 Trust hr n wait 4 hr. Bt unfortunately he didn't pay heed 2 those lines. why he didn't trusted Gunji at dat time n went straight ahead 2 Neil tlling his friends dat "if i'll not meet hr 2day, i'll lose hr 4ever". Is this wat u call Trusting n loving ur partner whole heartedly? If he had trusted hr , he shud hav taken into account dat his Chashmich asked him 2 wait 4 hr. Bt no.........................
Gunji spoke quite harshly 2 sam y'day. I think she ws right. Sam needed dat dose n he stll needs another one.
I REALLY PRAY DAT PPL N MEDIA WILL RIDICULE GUNJI 2 SUCH AN EXTENT DAT THEN, SAMRAT MIGHT REALIZE HIS MISTAKE.
Even if then he doesn't realize his mistakes, then, i'll feel really sorry 4 him.
Frankly, I don't hate Samrat's character, bt u guyz constant favors 2wards r turning me against him. U ppl r constantly favoring him even when he's totally wrong wid d excuse dat he lost his parents n has lived his whole life widout them. In real life, ppl who hav suffered such catastrophe's ether grow out of their depression or at least try 2 grow out. Bt if some body doesn't n will get sympathies coz of dat depression then, dat person never actually comes of of such depression even if somebody like Gunjan try their level best.
Thank u CV's 4 making Gunjan guilty in d upcoming episodes. I'm 100% sure dat she'll b shown guilty after knowing Neil's truth.
Sorry 2 all Samrat fans. Again, i wsn't against him bt u made me so.
4 my buddy's at IF. If u like 2 b my friend after all this do PM me. I'll only b checking my inbox 4m now onwards n will b totally silent reader at d forums.
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