I feel like crying....!!!!

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malika

@_symphony

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 15 years ago

guys what do i say...i am left out of words...why all this????😭 😭
😭 ok first of all forgetting abt who is right and who is wrong...the foremost thing is that its SO SO SO DAMN painful to see sajan like this guys...😭😭😭!!! shittt shittt shittt whats happening with our sajan....i feel like going somewhere n crying 😭!!!sam insulted so badly...thrown out and then locked in store room😭???? what the hell!!! and u know guys it feels even worse when u know that a person who has realised his mistake is being punished....!! as it is so rightly said "No punishment is as big as self repentence"...!!
sam was hurt...he was angry...he was pained...yet even under such an emotional pressure...he explains to himself that he has to maintain his cool...obviously he knows how sensitive gunjan is...but what he gets is this ill treatment???? 🤢 😭
u know earlier i found myself having a lil beleif that...oki sam was somewhat wrong when he thought that gunjan is doing all this for her career n not for his sake...but the way he realised his mistake...and rather even politely requested the gaurds to let him go in....and yet he was hurted n rebuked...cant tell u what i felt...just CANT explain!!!! ....it was like😡 🤢 😭 😲...i was...i was in anger...tears...frustration...pain...And...and everything all at the same time!!!!!!!!...why..why only sam always???
and then coming to gunjan...guys in my view i totally respect her view that a girl needs to have her own identity...and obviously she has full right to work n go to that extra mile for her own individuality...but the precap???i dont get it at all.When sam shows his outburst 2 gunjan in front of neil...gunjan is hurt...in my view most probably bcoz he said their personal things...which he shud have told only to her...in front of neil...but then my point is that he always tries that yaar...since so much of time he is trying to talk to her but she has no time 2 listen 2 him...and rather in some way or the other...he is always forced to behave like this!!!
all in all what i can say guys is that its so so painful to see sam suffering like this for no reason...and gunjan...she is right completely As a women..as an individual...and as a human being..but as SAMRAT'S CHASHMISH...she is lacking somewhere...coz chashmish never needs samrat's words to understand his pain...she needs no explaination to understand his anger....AND the biggest thing guys...CHASHMISH never needs to be told that.."when samrat needs her support...or when he needs her words of love the most.."..she always knows it within herself...n here is actually where for the first time gunjan is lacking...she is reinventing "GUNJAN"...and in doing so she unintentionally though but is neglecting "CHASHMISH".She needs to understand that...she can make her own identitiy as "gunjan bhushan"...but that in no way is related to her identity as sam's glrfrnd...coz when we r in love whatever identity we make in the world as individuals..the strength...the love...the motivation to attain that earthly identity comes from just n just ONE heavenly identity and that is a SOUL's identity of being identical to another SOUL...she needs to understand taht sam is not her identity...but her shadow...who always remains with her..even if she doesnt want...caring for her from the back....so that she walks..she flies on her own but if she is to fall he catches her being just behind her.
putting it simply...Gunjan needs to understand that being sam's gf doesnt mean she is not having any other identity but rather sam's love that is a soulmates'love is the basic inspiration to make our new identities!!!!

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Lipsa

@-Lipsa-

Inactive

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

Actually, to see some what from Gunjan's perspective, I feel that she is right in her own way. See, she tries to connect her life with the Herione's life as the dialougues seem familiar to her and somewhat related to herself. She doubts if she has a identity and can not only be classified as Samrat's gf. She wants to be free and stand on her own toes for the first time in her life.

And of course Sarmat is not wrong either, As you said, He is completely right in his own way. He is right to be angry with Gunjan as she in her ambition to find herself is ignoring being "sams Chashmish" .. he feels that she no longer gives him the attention he used to get as only her film is important to her.

So you see, i think, both are right But they fail to just understand each other and they just need a way to communitcate, maybe have a nice chat or something. Of course, they are completely different from each other and when one tries to find herself, the other one loses himself.

Edited by -Lipsa- - 15 years ago

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@thejazzgal

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+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

agre!!

seriously i feel like crying for samrat...

and also feeeelll bad for nupur...

poor samrat..

its gunjan's mistake here..

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sonu

@MagicLantern

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

samrat always stood up for gunjan & i feel its gunjan's turn to stand up for samrat's dignity . she could have walked out with samrat today sorted out things & then returned.i really hated the way gujan reacted today .gunjan dissapointed me today

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362035

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Posted: 15 years ago

hii yashii awesoooooooome post as usual dear........
loved ur each and every line to the core.............
even i loved this particular line 'waqt hi do logon ko milaata hai aur waqt hi do logon ko alag karta hai'.............
today gunjan is thinking like maya that now she has found her real identity through this film...........but before this she was addressed as sam's gf...........waise sach bhi hai ek ladki pehle pitaah ke naam se jaani jaati hai aur phir uske [patih ke naam se.....woh khud ki asli pehchaan phir bhi dhoondti rehti hai ki woh kaun hai?
and gunjan's thought is going the same way............so she is right in her place........she wants to have her own individual identity now and that is gunjan bhushan not only chashmish.....that's it........

regarding sam's perspective he is also right on his own place after leading asuperficial life he has found his true love and soulmate in his chashmish and due to this film he is losing his chashmish he thinks that gunjan has overtaken his chashmish and yes it has and these circumstances are creating distance between them it is affecting their relationship and the fear inside samrat is gradually taking the shape of anger on which he has no control bco'z for him his whole world revolves around his chashmish but now gunjan's priorities are gradually changing due to which his life is taking a major u turn.......which is becoming really hard for him to accept.......yes he is being possessive and aggressive but only for his chashmish bco'z now he can't afford to loose her at any cost........

only discussing the matter and his inside fear with chashmish calmly can solve this prob. and can save their beautiful relationship that is a good communication between sajan........

i just hope that the cv's sought out this prob. with care......i want that the cv;s should show a proper balance between personal and proffessional life..........one should not be affected by the other........
this would be a good lesson for those who face the same prob.
As always MJHT does teaches us a lesson at the end of every track......and i also want this track to have a positive ending with my SAJAN together for always.......humesha humesha ke liye......

thanx yashii for this lovely post..........

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sonu

@MagicLantern

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Posted: 15 years ago

Somewhere I feel circumstances are responsible for sam's erratic behavior I guess anybody in his place wouldn't have reacted differently. He was provoked to do the things he did he's always been a very encouraging boyfriend. I can't understand gunjan's behavior coz doesn't she know samrat was provoked to do all this. Till date she has seen issues from samrat's pov also now why can't she see things from his pov. Her behavior today was a huge disappointment. gunjan is not wrong in choosing her career but that can't be done keeping your boyfriend's dignity at stake.

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Sanchita

@sanchita1410

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

The situation is such worst. When sammy was insulted I felt like hitting the man. Neither sammy nor Gunjan is wrong. It's the situation which is wrong.

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wickedangel

@wickedangel

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

I am going to join you yashi😭😭😭😭😭😭....all I can say is that tomo's episode is going to be just like valentine day's episode😭😭....but I hope the CVs are not planning anything drastic like what they did after that episode😭😭😭

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Mahi

@Mahiii

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

you are right yashi... it makes me to cry seeing our beloved sajan like this... but i donno why but i am with sam... this time for the first time gunjan seems somewhere wrong to me... she is being careless in samrat's case... she is being insensitive...