Husband Wife - True Soulmates - Page 6

Originally posted by: a little faith

Aww Sabah you could never be a bull, you are a blooming flower sharing its wonderful fragnance with us😳. I still would say the same that everyone would be just as enlightened as me.Sorry, I had to stop myself from laughing!. You are too kind. However I would not change you as this is what makes you so special. I guess I will just grin and bear the compliments!😆😳😆

Aww I so agree about the sunset that was so beautifully put👏. Sabah when I look at the sunset, I just feel so close to life, especially the view at the beach is aesthetic. It is much more beautiful than any diamonds or anything. Viewing it with a companion makes it even more wonderful. 😳Exactly! In your opinion should we spend more time in finding that special companion or should we spend more time in developing ourselves?

As Mayank once said to Nupur, true love is so very rare, it is a blessing to find it.

Furthermore say, we do find our Mayanks in this life, we our hearts are corrupted, would we even recognize them? What if we reduced them, made them less through our oppression and negative influence?

I see many people spending all their free time, seeking 'that special one' without much success, because unfortunately no one has taken the time to become that special one.

When I view it a lone I feel life is so beautiful and I am here for a purpose but when we have a companion then we have a partner to hold on to during this journey of life. It makes everything much more meaningful and I know if I ever would give up or fall down, that companion would help me in getting up and I would help him or her. A companion could be anyone, even any close friend, someone who can rely on us wholeheartedly and whom we can rely on.😳Butterfly, that was beautiful. You have touched upon a very important aspect. Modern day couples tend to not trust the other. They only ever rely, trust their own judgment. Never bugding, never relenting and rarely even listening.

The manner in which Nupur wholeheartedly trusts Mayank, sometimes above herself, not only shows her level of courage and faith, but her love and respect of Mayank.

Is this what we lack? Are we unable to trust our partners because we do not respect them? no one is perfect, not even Mayank, but Nupur still respects and trusts his judgment. So why do we fail?

I agree about opinions and thats the best part about them, they keep on changing due to people at times, at times events, circumstances. I guess this is a part of life which surely has been very beautifully depicted in MN's relationship. 😃 The moment you think you know everything, life has a way of humbling you. Like Mayank, who thought he could survive without love...

The prime example being how they judged each other when they met but then they had different opinions about what they feel about the other person, that conversation at the beach is one of the most heartfelt conversation between the two, they didn't speak much nor were too serious, but they were just themselves, no pretentions, no attitude, just them and their simple conversation which left me touched and made me fall in love with these two characters even more deeply.😳Beautifully expressed. 👏
I agree remember we spoke about M and how he had kept a wall around him, i guess we discussed this in the initial steps of Guide to Parenting by Shilpa Sharma and how Shipla aunty would encourage him to go and be friends with Nupur as she didn't want M to isolate himself. She wanted him to live and to be open and not hide himself away from the world. That was beautifully said Sabah.😃 It is the generosity of Shilpa Aunty that after raising an exceptional son, she wants to share his light with the world.
Mayank learned this trait well. If you remember during the exam track, he made notes for his fellow college members. This struck me hard! Mayank was the type of good character who wants to succeed but not at the cost of neglecting those around him. He takes care of himself and his 'community'. which brings us back full circle to self development vs sharing enlightenment.

Nupur too never failed to share her happiness. She was happy with finding love, but her happiness was completed when she could openly share it with her sister too. Remember at the pool party, when she is enamoured by Mayank, looking for Gunjan, she says that she wishes that Gunjan too finds her own 'Mayank' someone who would look out for her, understand her like Mayank supports and looked after her.

In MN we have excellent role models. I do no say this glibly, but rather wholeheartedly!

I agree discussing experiences has many advantages, many a times we hear about someone's mistake(s) and we might be like oh we would never do that but we never know what the future holds for us.
Wow thats an amazing study indeed👏, I have also seen so many people like the orphange I work for, its a really small place with children from very poor backgrounds but when i look at them and see how they are always smiling, filled with so much energy and love. I see another piece of this butterfly puzzle falls in place. You are such a sweetheart!
These children hardly get food three times or even two times a day, minimal number of toys 😭but still they are always so happy. I call them sunshines, little sunshines. I just thought of this movie "Little Ms sunshine" and its beautiful message. The little girl doesn't win in the competition she went for, but participates and bends the rules, but most importantly stays happy with her performance even though she doesn't win, her spirit always makes me so proud of her.😳Exactly, just like MN they don't 'grade' each others results, but rather each other's efforts. this is a value, I try to instill in everyone. We are not in control of consequences but rather the means. Mayank, is striving, within his principals to make Nupur happy. He isn't hoping upon lotteries, neither planning bank raids. Nupur sees this and rewards his efforts, she is already happy, even though the results are far past the horizon.

I agree with MN it is all about giving each other happiness, its no more about competing with each other its for each other.😊

God bless you Sabah. He already has, by giving me you...😳

Aww Sabah that was sooo sweet, God has blessed me too 😳by giving me you and such amazing friends here. You are a shining star whose radiance just keeps on increasing and increasing and i hope it always does, Amen to that!

Umm we should spend time in being that special one for others😳, i have always learnt one thing from life, so what if people don't love you or the way you want, we should continue loving, as loving unconditionally is a way to love, remembering Divz's words, this she said a long time ago. It sure is so true!

I agree about many modern day couples, its really sad but then there are alot of couples who love selflessly and never let their heart get corrupted Sabah, but I would say it has become a rare situation to find such love. Love truly is a blessing and finding true love is certainly rare and very special.😃

Wow👏 that was so well observed and said, Nupur does trust Mayank, she deep down knows that M would never betray her for anything but she does run counter to her insecurities but fights with them, questions things just doesn't sit ideally and cry over anything. I agree M is not perfect but in her little world, she deems M to be perfect for her and all the things he does, she knows that he would always want the best for her and them indeed, he would think of her and them above himself.😳

I agree about M's earlier opinion but they changed when N came in his life and he realised that he couldn't live without her. Like on the stage where her confessed, he said that he would wait forever for her.😳

Aww Shilpa aunty is just amazing and this is what M made exceptionally giving as well. I remember that he made notes for everyone as well and when he shared with everyone, he had no arrogance on his face at all! Quoting you"Mayank was the type of good character who wants to succeed but not at the cost of neglecting those around him. He takes care of himself and his 'community'. which brings us back full circle to self development vs sharing enlightenment." 👏 👏 👏

Nupur is such a gem indeed, once my history teacher taught me that kind is one who wants the same for others as he or she so badly wants for themselves and this is what Nupur did. 😃

I agree in MN we have excellent role models. I agree we are only in control of the means and the rest is not in our control so why worry and fret. That worry solves no problems for us, we should just give in our best shot and learn how to get up if we fall.

Love you always,

Senny.

Lovely Post Preeti! Guess I'm v.late but still felt compelled to post.

I enjoyed reading everyone's thoughts - and they brought forward so many different facets of MN as a couple - that it makes me love MN even more - though wonder if that's even possible - given the fact I write so much about them already!!

It is so true - that MN have become soul mates. Not every husband and wife couple can be considered soulmates - and blessed are those soulmates who actually become life partners. So yes as Mayank and Nupur have reminded each other on various occasions - theirs is not a love which is found easy - and they're lucky to be not only husband and wife but also soulmates.

I am reminded of the story of the "Gift of the Magi" where both gave up their most prized possessions for each other. Both Nupur and Mayank want to make each other's dreams come true. Nupur - is prepared to give up her all and just make Mayank's dreams come true - and infact make his dreams her own. While Mayank on the other hand - he wants to achieve his goals and be successful - not for himself but for Nupur!! And their love for each other shone through the whole epi - which has made the epi one of the most wonderful we've seen in a while!!

I absolutely loved the aashirwaad scene - where Nups touches Mayank's feet and Mayank unknowingly blesses her. Nups is shown to be a wonderful combination of all that is modern and traditional. I love that about her - like a modern woman she wants to search for her identity - make her own place in the world - but just like any traditional wife be there for her husband - and also be a support for her husband. She's today's woman - a rare blend of new and old!!

I loved the pooja scene too - and how she takes the Aarti to Mayu - but then doesn't tell him that she was worried about him :) She was of course v.v.worried - any wife would be if her husband has not been home the whole night and she has no clue to his whereabouts! And loved the way she turned to ask Mayu if he wanted to know where she was going - and Mayank just looks at her and says No. She's trying to be as trusting as possible - overcoming all her insecurities and fears - to convey to her husband that yes she trusts him!!

And finally loved that monologue of Mayank's where he wants to make all Nupur's dreams come true!! All his goals and aspirations have a new meaning now - they are all focused towards achieving all that his wife has dreamt about :) What else can a wife ask for!!

All said - it was a wonderful epi - with some gems as scenes!