When chips are down

When the chips are down there are lot of ppl and dogs hiding waiting for a chance to stab you in the back or bite you in your back side, this is what I have noticed today from a lot of threads and post from so many ppl who have never posted on this forum and waiting for a chance just to criticize Amey Date with new ID's.

I had started a thread about 2 galas back regarding Karunyas performance and had to hear a lot of flak from all the Karu fans which I took it gracefully without abusing or getting into arguments with anyone on this forum.

To post with your own ID and criticizing someone and take everything in your strides needs balls which I believe a lot of these newbie's don't have be it he or she. It takes a lot of balls also to choose a song of Daler Mahendi which is so different from all the other singers in the industry I don't think anyone else would have ever imagined themselves singing his songs I know a lot of you would disagree but please look deep inside yourself even before you comment on this.

Firstly try and imagine yourself singing the same song and you will find you are trying to imitate daler because there is so much arrogance in this song a feel good song about your homeland needs a lot of arrogance and for the first time I ever liked Dalers song.

I think credit must be given where it is supposed o be given instead of hiding behind false ID's I could have made this forum a war zone by posting a lot of anti threads but does not really solve anything a good singer is a good singer not bickering by any of us on this forum is going to get anyone in or out.

My humble request to all the posters on this forum is to stay out of arguments and abusing with the members or this forum will be a war zone everyone going to the others fan club and abusing everyone out there including their fav contestant which is not a good sign.

I know a dogs tail will never become straight even if you keep in a tube forever but I think I can try and hope.

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Moderator's Note:
Remember that when you came to this forum you were a newbie too and a very offensive one. Take criticism in it's stride and give sensible arguments to support your views. Each newbie today will become a senior member tomorrow. The posts you were referring to had both newbies and some seniors behaving the same way. Learn to respect each member's opinion first.



In what way was I offensive please remind me this? You can go back and take a look at my post again and then make the assessments.

The post which lovlina was making was fine about regional bias and maharashtrian hate threads till I had to give it to her, that time all that was not offensive. That time lovlina made 4 different ID's and was let of the hook.

People abusing others on this forum are not offensive, making multiple IDs is not offensive, calling Karunya gay was not offensive. Yes me and my wife have 2 different ID's on this forum so that means if there are 10 people in a family only 1 is supposed to go online, as soon as I pointed out about the multiple ID thingy I was told about 2 ID's from my IP and given a warning bar 2 people can't have different opinions.

Please don't even get me started on a lot of post on this forum that are offensive and are neglected for reasons only the mods know.

Yes I was a newbie and I spoke my heart out but I never hide behind multiple ID's and I'm always there to take criticism from all corners. Even for my favorite contestant I never said or mentioned any where in my post about Amey singing. I have been watching from morning all the tamasha that has been going on the forum and the free hand given to these people to do as they feel so I have all the right to comment as I please on newbie's or old posters it is not aimed at any one person, I could have taken names.

I know my limits and I stick to it I give respect to people where it is due not for some people who just want to incite fights. If you feel that I plague this forum please go ahead and ban me but do not expect me to sit in the background and watch the fun.

I expect my warning bar to go up, but that is not going to dither me from posting what I feel.