Is this what marriage does to you?? - Page 12

i have to agree with KANK on this, the only basis of marriage should be love.....i mean there's nothing wrong with arranged marriages if the couple can learn to understand and love each other.....but marriage based on compromise is not right

marriage should be about acceptance, understanding, and most importantly love. if you don't love your spouse, you always feel distant....plus its not good for the kids....no kid wants to grow up in a house where the parents dont love each other....

Excellent post. Wonderfully challenged the intitution of marriage where love isn't an element. Love can develop after marriage, But, isn't it easy if you were not in love before. Especially if it is ardent love such as the one Armaan and Ridzzy shared. Love this post

wow 116 commments in one day! u r on a role! awsome post!

I totally agree with u hun!

its like the second she got married.. Armaans actions became wrong.. before she was getting married, she knew Armaan left her but she understood why! she was still crazy about him! because she knew the reason why he left her and it was because of his imense love for Ridhima! but as soon as she gets married everything Armaan has done is wrong! i dont understand that logic! just because she decided to get married Armaans to blame? how can u even think of moving on with some other guy when u know the love of ur life is out there suffering alone because he wanted u to be happy! he left all his friends and family just so u can lead a happy life.. Armaan could have died for all she knew! instead of asking Armaan are u ok.. she says his coming back is dukh for her?

the girl is beyond me

aur yeh kaisi shaadi? na pyar hai na kuch! If Ridhima didnt love Armaan then his presence shouldnt make any difference to her! him being in sanjeevani should bother her! shes being selfish again by letting him leave! shes making him ruin his career and go away agian just so she can move on with sid!

Originally posted by: JulieArmaan

I totally agree with u hun!

its like the second she got married.. Armaans actions became wrong.. before she was getting married, she knew Armaan left her but she understood why! she was still crazy about him! because she knew the reason why he left her and it was because of his imense love for Ridhima! but as soon as she gets married everything Armaan has done is wrong! i dont understand that logic! just because she decided to get married Armaans to blame? how can u even think of moving on with some other guy when u know the love of ur life is out there suffering alone because he wanted u to be happy! he left all his friends and family just so u can lead a happy life.. Armaan could have died for all she knew! instead of asking Armaan are u ok.. she says his coming back is dukh for her?

the girl is beyond me

aur yeh kaisi shaadi? na pyar hai na kuch! If Ridhima didnt love Armaan then his presence shouldnt make any difference to her! him being in sanjeevani should bother her! shes being selfish again by letting him leave! shes making him ruin his career and go away agian just so she can move on with sid!

Well thought out reply and an honest one.Lets hope we see a Riddhima who justifies and makes up for her past actions :)