Heartbreaks - how do you deal with them?

Do you watch movies? Do you eat chocolates? Do you go out for a break?

Originally posted by: shalini1323

Do you watch movies? Do you eat chocolates? Do you go out for a break?

How do you deal with a heartbreak? I am talking about genuine hearbreaks here..

Here's a story. A friend of mine liked this guy. They are good friends.They went partying. She was a little tipsy. And then as he was dropping her back home, he actually kissed her that night and they sort of got a little cosy.. quite alot.. AND it was her first kiss. first hug. first everything..

Next day, when I met her, she was glowing.. She was happy.

The day after i met her ..the guy called her up and told her to not get things so serious. According to him, whatever that took place the other night, was REALLY not big of a deal and to him, nothing happened at all. And that it's best for both of them to forget it.

My friend is shattered. She feels stupid, ashamed and guilty. She is a very sweet girl. Quite naive infact. To her, the world is a fairytale.. and she was even thinking as far as getting married and all that. She can't even question the guy because watever happened was with her consent. She has become really quiet these days.

I've tried EVERYTHING from taking her out to a movie, talking it out with her, letting her be for sometime, gifting her things, bringing her fav food... but she's just not the same.. And I don't know how to help her.

I don't intend to make this debate a personal one.. but I am really concerned..

How do you guys deal with a heartbreak?

Is first love really THAT difficult to forget - is she overreacting?

Do you talk to your parents about heartbreaks?

And most importantly, what do you do if your heart is broken by a good friend of yours?

Originally posted by: P1nk

I dunno, i think i would commit suicide. 🤡