Life of profit and Loss ?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Is it that today , all our life is about profit and loss ?

When people look for partners for life, ur financial contribution has a major influence on ur possibility to get 'selected'.? No matter if its a men or women, they tend to see oh is my future secure ? ofcourse in financial matter.. do they give thought if they will have a peaceful and happy life ?

Even when people look for gf or bf, they don't look for if the person will understand them, all it is that how they wil be benefitted by the relation.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kanuk

Is it that today , all our life is about profit and loss ?

When people look for partners for life, ur financial contribution has a major influence on ur possibility to get 'selected'.? No matter if its a men or women, they tend to see oh is my future secure ? ofcourse in financial matter.. do they give thought if they will have a peaceful and happy life ?

Even when people look for gf or bf, they don't look for if the person will understand them, all it is that how they wil be benefitted by the relation.




Yeah duh, today its all about monies and security.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kanuk

Is it that today , all our life is about profit and loss ?

When people look for partners for life, ur financial contribution has a major influence on ur possibility to get 'selected'.? No matter if its a men or women, they tend to see oh is my future secure ? ofcourse in financial matter.. do they give thought if they will have a peaceful and happy life ?

Even when people look for gf or bf, they don't look for if the person will understand them, all it is that how they wil be benefitted by the relation.




Profit comes first. 😛 Why jump into loss?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bartz



Profit comes first. 😛 Why jump into loss?

I am at a loss for words.😆
Basically there is a price tag on everything. Even with Gods they complain how much time and money they spent to request for God's grace.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Living with enough money is a war and only few people can do it with dignity.
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Originally posted by: techuser007

Living with enough money is a war and only few people can do it with dignity.

Well if things are difficult I think we should ask God for some help.
some people take a different and extreme stand on such matters and will not ask anyone for help, not even God ( they believe in accepting whatever comes their way only).
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kanuk

Is it that today , all our life is about profit and loss ?

When people look for partners for life, ur financial contribution has a major influence on ur possibility to get 'selected'.? No matter if its a men or women, they tend to see oh is my future secure ? ofcourse in financial matter.. do they give thought if they will have a peaceful and happy life ?

Even when people look for gf or bf, they don't look for if the person will understand them, all it is that how they wil be benefitted by the relation.




yup its the Money hai toh honey hai policy in todays world 😆 .......mostly girls trap rich guys then it doesn't matter whether the guys is dumbos.......how ill they be benefited...easy man........end of the day their make up ..... clothes jewelery need to be sponsored by some one right ...?

one of my relative was a shy guy and never got any good proposal cause he lived in a apartment....and some time back his they got some big money selling of some inherited property and brought a bungalow and now their house is flooding of proposals....see....where is this world heading only God knows some time it makes me wonder has love lost its charm...........?

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yup its the Money hai toh honey hai policy in todays world 😆 .......mostly girls trap rich guys then it doesn't matter whether the guys is dumbos.......how ill they be benefited...easy man........end of the day their make up ..... clothes jewelery need to be sponsored by some one right ...?

one of my relative was a shy guy and never got any good proposal cause he lived in a apartment....and some time back his they got some big money selling of some inherited property and brought a bungalow and now their house is flooding of proposals....see....where is this world heading only God knows some time it makes me wonder has love lost its charm...........?

Mera khayal mein aap ki relative upper level ka apartment mein raheti thi. So he was not so visible.
But I thought the girls have to pay dowry, so his value goes up higher.
Personally dowry should be abolished.
In Chinese customs the man has to buy presents for the gal's side. Not easy either.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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</div>Mera khayal meinaap ki relativeupper level ka apartment mein raheti thi. So he was not so visible.
<div>But I thought the girls have to pay dowry, so his value goes up higher.

Personally dowry should be abolished.

In Chinese customs the man has to buy presents for the gal's side. Not easy either.



well Summer ji mere relative flat first floor pe tha...it was very much visible........ 😆

Yaa i agree dowry should be abolished instead il say FORCED dowry should be abolished.....but then its like an investment you see....the more educated the boy the more dowry .....some times girls parents them self buys the Groom....so that they can control the boy 😆

now that makes me wonder is Dowry the reason why people dont want to marry and prefer to Live in instead ...?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: luv_guru



well Summer ji mere relative flat first floor pe tha...it was very much visible........ 😆

Yaa i agree dowry should be abolished instead il say FORCED dowry should be abolished.....but then its like an investment you see....the more educated the boy the more dowry .....some times girls parents them self buys the Groom....so that they can control the boy 😆

now that makes me wonder is Dowry the reason why people dont want to marry and prefer to Live in instead ...?

Your relative must be suspicious of all wedding proposals now.😆
But good for him, congrats.
You maybe right as not everyone can afford dowries.
Wedding dinners and presents etc can cost a bomb and there are several issues involved.
I wish they could adopt the concept of a simple wedding like in the west.
some have dinners and celebrations for weeks and months.

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