Written Update~16th March~Hum tumse pyar karte hai - Page 6

@ Ritika
Thanks ya.... yes, Abeer is lucky Leher actually likes him. I would have given that laal laal gaal only! The only time a man will agree to a woman's wish is at this courting stage... abhi se he won't listen means, not much hope later😆

Originally posted by: tvrasika

Thanks Sam, Eks, Kim....

I understand the Sudha-Abeer scene better now. Well, that's a bit mature of Abeer if he has realised that he can love Leher, and yet not have a future...

This haq thing... yes, in the Indian context, parents do feel that way, but that is also why there are so many conflicts. It is time our TV serials started addressing that issue- for how long can a woman have haq over her children? Looks like Booda still has haq over TN! So Sudha will have haq over Abeer all her life... and Leher will have to wait for her son? In reality, a woman retains haq if she is dominating like Booda, gets a soft-spoken bahu like Sudha and son like TN! It's not about haq, it is about a person's (woman's) ability to exercise it! Shuklain destroyed Madhav's life using her haq! Am sure Sudha won't do that... but someday, I hope we hear an alternative version of this haq business from Sudha!

Thanks Hina for the update. 😊

So just saw the episode, I must say GK was fab in all the 3 important scenes, Abheer-Lehar, Abheer-Amma, and Abheer-TN.

So I know Abheer was removing his frustration on Lehar, as she is in constant denial about her feelings. He knows that she loves him and he understands the reason why she is saying a no, as said by him in his conscious state, then why is he forcing her to say a yes, this I do not understand. Why cant he give her some time. He has just acknowledged his feelings for her, why does he expect her to say yes right away. Why is he behaving oblivious to M-R case. He should have understood that she needs time right now, M-R and her father's hurt is too fresh in her mind.

But I loved what he said about how hurt he was mentally when she left him. Thats so true. The way Lehar ignored him was way too hurtful. She refused to behave civil with him. She telling him nothing can happen between them was fine and mature, but banging the window on his face and not letting him put color on her face when he did that to her parents, that was not right. So yes, I am glad that Abheer told him how hurt he felt when she ignored him. Thats a different thing that she was more hurt than him by ignoring him.

Abheer telling his mother that there was nothing between them and nothing can happen in the future, well he was just reiterating what Lehar told him, and I could understand why he said this to his mother. This is an extremely early stage for Abheer to tell Sudha how he feels for Lehar. His love for her and Lehar's denial, or you can say, their relationship, is not yet at such a stage where parents, be it Sudha even, can know what they feel for each other. This is way too early. I was just shocked that creatives thought it was fine for Sudha to hear their conversation (between what part of conversation she heard, this I did not understand well, I am assuming the latter half). Therefore, he saying nothing is in-between them made sense, as all this is way too early. But once Lehar acknowledges her feelings in front of Abheer, and then Sudha sees them (I hope in the future, Abheer tells about Lehar to her properly rather than she catching them red-handed like today), then his reply wont be the same as today. Yes Abheer loves her, and always will, but he too has realized there is no future together, specially if Lehar is saying a no. This is good. Let their bond grow to a stage that they both realize that there can be a future despite all the tension, that their bond is special, very special.

I am getting sick and tired of seeing Lehar cry constantly. This is not the Lehar I wanted to see. Yes I know the situation demands that she cries, but I am getting tired of it. Cant remember the last time she smiled, Antakshari time, probably. Gosh that was way back. Creatives need to do something about her, make her stop crying.

TN looked so handsome when he got up from sleep. 😳 LOL, when does he not look handsome. But his bol is always kadvi. I hate it when TN calls Abheer nikamma, it sounds really bad from a well-educated man. He is pressuring Abheer by imposing his hopes/dreams/demands on him. Right now Abheer might be able to take all this, but what will happen if he ever falters or once his relationship with Lehar is confirmed/strong.....father-son relationship can break all due to father's fault for not understanding his son one but. He wants Abheer to always suceed. He just cant take his failure, even once. This is not right. Its only when Abheer falls can he get up, he can learn. TN neither trust nor understands Abheer. He expects his son to understand him perfectly without him understanding his son at all. Now this is not fair.

Today's episode shows how Abheer cannot have Lehar and his parents on the same side...both happy. He gave up hopes on Lehar and made his parents happy/satsified. When he gave his feelings for Lehar a priority, he made his parents sad by his actions. How he will balance these 2 sides, and get them on one side (if this can ever happen), is what will be exciting to see. Sudha, sooner or later might start accepting Lehar, but with TN, how will Abheer handle him, god only knows.

So over all it was a nice episode. I am glad now Abheer will concentrate on his studies, he really needs to. His ignorance towards Lehar, which by the way wont last for too long, will force Lehar to tell him the truth about her feelings, the same way Lehar's ignorance towards him forced him to do so. Well we all know Abheer cant remain mad at Lehar for too long. The moment Omi starts harassing Lehar, he will come to her rescue. He still loves her, he just think that its of no use till Lehar does not agree to it too. Hopefully, Bittan will tell Abheer how much hurt Lehar is feeling by hurting him that she constantly keeps on crying. Abheer just needs to give her some time.

So finally, with Abheer backing off, AbHer relationship is back to square one. Lets see how it progresses now, hopefully Lehar will take the first step. Before Omi's tension comes in, I want Lehar to pursue Abheer a bit and give him some importance....in short, some light AbHer scenes. 😊 After all, Lehar has to heal Abheer's "andhrooni" hurt too. 😊 😉

One thing that is currently disturbing me is that the creatives are playing new songs (Tu Jaane Na) in the background. When they play new songs, add unnecessary drama, speed things up (confession), heroine crying cats and dogs, all this makes me think in which direction are the creatives heading to. I loved it when they played old songs, so are they running out of old songs now. By the way, I love Tu Jaane Na, but for this serial, I wished they stuck to apt old songs. After all, it is this old world charm that attracted us to this show in the first place.

Ok, so I just read some of the comments here, not all yet. LOL 😛

Even I did not understand Abheer-Sudha conv fully, just understood part of it. And Sudha's underreaction, I am assuming she did not hear the part in which Abheer proclaimed his love for Lehar. Creatives were not clear, we have to assume.

TN over-reacting, I agree. He does not understand his son, he does not even try to understand him...he just gives his judgments. He may be a good lawyer, but he can never be a good judge. But knowing his background, his thinking process, his ego, his right over everyone's life, his over-reaction is normal.

@ Bubble, I agree, thank god we have an extremely handsome looking man to play the role of TN thats why we are a bit soft towards his character. LOL.

@Anu, regarding Lehar crying, I am beyond sick and tired now. And plus, Yami's crying looks a bit fake to me, I dont know why.

And yes, I agree with you guys, Abheer's serious behavior wont last for too long....after all he is our raunak singh yaar. 😊

Lehar's duppata getting stuck in Omi's watch, not liking it one bit. Its way too filmy. Regarding Omi's track, lets see how it goes. Abheer will surely protect Lehar, but then, I dont want Abheer to go behind her again or give her bhao. This time, he should just protect her and go away. Let Lehar come behind him for sometime. Ladka thoda roota hua hain, dekhte hain ladki kaise usko manati hain. 😉 Abheer, you just concentrate on your studies.

Lastly, I just loved it how Abheer said that irrespective of Lehar ignoring him, being angry at him, not talking to him....basically torturing him, he always loved her, still loves her, and will forever love her. I hope he sticks to this sentence FOREVER. 😍 I wonder after hearing this, how did she stop herself from melting in front of him.....I would have hugged him, infact I am sure any girl would have. LOL

@ Anvi, read all comments, nice analysis....
Sudha and Abeer's conversation was not well understood because I guess the CVs themselves did not know what they want to imply😆. I mean yesterday's precap was just a gimmick to attract the viewer. They want the viewer to be intrigued with the promos and the precaps so that the viewers stick to watching the show, otherwise there was no need for Sudha to know at this point when technically AbHer love story has not even started yet.
So, I am guessing they just rushed this part , giving the viewer the impression that Sudha caught the final part of the AbHer conversation. Even If it's just that bit her reaction was somewhat under-reacted as said by many others here. I guess that is Sudha's nature, she doesn't make a fuss of everything.
They are ending the show each night in a way that the viewer ponders over it.
Regarding the old world charm , I totally agree they should stick to the old songs to retain the charm. I should say when 'tu jaane na' was played for Abeer, it seemed very realistic but for Leher not so much. Yes, Yami needs to emote the 'crying act' a little more believably. Maybe she is not used to so much crying in real life, as any other average gal of her age😆..so it's hard to portray such a character, but that should not be an excuse, as said by Gaayu she does need to improve this aspect of her acting.No offense meant. Her display of the 'girl next door' image was totally believable and commendable.

@ Anvi
Loved your analysis!

What is 'andhrooni'?

The interesting part of YPNHK is not how Abeer and Leher will fall in love, but, like you said, how Abeer is able to convince his parents and get Leher as well. That seems impossible right now, so to me, that's the key plot of this story.

@Kim, I agree, Yami is a brilliant actress, its just her crying part. But who wants to see the heroine crying so much anyways. Instead of improving her crying, I just hope creatives cut down on her crying scenes. 😊 This would be so much better. Initially, she use to cry subtly, with few drops of tears coming out of her eyes. These days, the most common expression of hers is crying CONTINUOUSLY. I am so not liking it.

And as Hina wrote earlier about the competition between Lehar and Sudha, with Boodha being the judge, 😆, I am sure Lehar will beat Sudha any day. Sudha still crys subtly, its only her eyes that get all watery, not like Lehar's where her tears are all over her face. Bahut ho gaya yeh rona dhona .

@ Gaayu, today Abheer said "andhrooni," while telling lehar that she can only see his physical pain, but what about his "andhrooni" pain that she has caused by leaving him and ignoring him. Andhrooni means inside, meaning mind...mental pain. Atleast this is how I understood. Hindi experts in this forum can confirm this. 😊

@Eks I loved your idea about Abheer being the usual Raunak Singh with his friends, and I guess, with Chutki too, but being all snobby with Lehar, showing attitude to her, ignoring her. This will definitely force the confession out of Lehar. 😃 For a change, making her taste her own medicine.

thnx 4 d update hina

@ Anvi - Loved your analysis of the episode!