Does a relationship like Sam-Gun really exist?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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This kind of topic might have been discussed hundreds of time over here before. But i have got my own point of view and i request mods to pls not close this topic unless i get just one satisfied reply be it on page 1.

I am not doubting that something like Sam-Gun might not be existing n wht we see on tv is all fictional and fantasy. But i literally wud like to ask, specially to SaJanians that do a Gunjan and Samrat exist in real world.

I m neither talking about their love. Love comes much later. After their friendship of one year was LOVE. But how their friendship developed is what i ask.

Gunjan is like a still lake. She has a calming effect because of her contemplative nature. Even though the elder Nupur thinks that bachchi, as she calls her fondly, thinks too much.She has her own sweet charm. She is shy and reclusive. A studious girl who always came home from school and did her homework before she ate her food. Likes to live a simple non-complicated life. Gunjan was very close to her mother. She oftens misses her and talks to her picture. She doesn't share her feelings about mother with her father or elder sister. Though being a simple and calm character she ends up being with the hottest boy in the college - Samrat.

This is a small introduction given for Gunjan. Gunjan who is shy, introvert and a person who is always buried in her books. She ends up meeting a guy like Samrat, who is famous and popular. Who is a rockstar! In short their relationship is said "Opposite Attracts". But why do these opposites attract? It is mainly becos of their curiosity for each other. That is exactly what my question is.

Do such a type of guy really exist who is curious to know a lonely, shy and introvert simpleton? Or it is only a story tht looks good on screen and to dream about.

Then if we proceed towards their friendship, it is one of a kind. Totally fits the saying "a friend in need is a friend indeed."

And all this strong base, makes up a stronger relationship above and ahead - their LOVE!
As discussed before SaJan = Love, Trust, Bond and Understanding. Anything missing makes SaJan incomplete.

So please answer me... and share ur views.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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SG relationship is like a fairytale.............the kinds u see in mills and boons romance novels...............
its hard to find such a thing in real life......... "sigh"
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well i'd say nice topic!
i think there are people like SaJan, but not a couple, if u get what i mean.
the whole idea of opposite attracts is very commonly used in TV serials..but there are hardly any cases like that in real life..atleast thats what i have seen..
SaJan friendship is quite believable..since people make friends with different kinds of people, not just people who are like them!..thats a fact..but for falling in love,i think we need people who understand us..n there have been cases where Sam didn't understnad Gunjan..n vice-versa..
what is shown on TV shows that they're true love et all..n many people may think that opposite attracts, but atleast i don't.
thats just my view :)
thnx 4 d pm
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I dont think any relationship like samrat and gunjan can develope just in one year but yes its exist, the friends who are together since childhood and shared every thing they can be like samrat and gunjan but just in 1 year its little bit difficult.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nice topic dear.

I think that friends like this exist being opposites As you can see if one friend is a always getting angry type and the other is calm and quiet, Obviously there wont be any long fights as the calm will always remain calm and not end up to a big fight between the two.

But this whole "opposites attract" is used in TV serials. because if it was entirely true a good person would fall in love with a bad person. Of course there may be some cases of this sort fo couple but very rare as I know. Although, At first he was not curious to know her, he got to know her because she was DIA's cousin and he tried to make her go back to Morena but instead started falling for her once he got to know her. So if theres a reason, friendship can be there but love I dont know!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey dear superb post you know i think this kind of friendship can exist but love i hardly think abt it as such a understanding, love , support for each other no ego in their relationship, mutual faith and trust is really very hard to find in only one couple , if anyone come across with this kind of couple i would love to meet them for sure 😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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na yaar i dont think thi really can happen in real life.. may be.. but i doubt.....
seriously no one like sajan ever.....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think characters are slightly unreal so the relationship itself is unreal for me.

I am yet to see a relationship like this in real life, may be its a nice example for the people to follow, like we read romances and other perfect examples.

I married my best friend, yet I dont connect to this relationship cos i find it too unreal.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aish_punk

well i'd say nice topic!

i think there are people like SaJan, but not a couple, if u get what i mean.
the whole idea of opposite attracts is very commonly used in TV serials..but there are hardly any cases like that in real life..atleast thats what i have seen..
SaJan friendship is quite believable..since people make friends with different kinds of people, not just people who are like them!..thats a fact..but for falling in love,i think we need people who understand us..n there have been cases where Sam didn't understnad Gunjan..n vice-versa..
what is shown on TV shows that they're true love et all..n many people may think that opposite attracts, but atleast i don't.
thats just my view :)
thnx 4 d pm

dear a leaving example is me and my hubby .... its just that our story started after our arrange marriage ... we are 2 completely opposite people and thats the reason i am so so much attached to SAJAN... and find to really exist..
i agree with you that for loving we need to understand one another... and accept the person with all his qualities ..... and ones this understanding trust come together you get a beautiful story like the sajans......
i would like say that they sometimes insipre me in my difficult times ....
Edited by aarthi.ramani - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yah Sajan s story is one of the best love story that I have heard &Read &seen before!I like this couple soo much.This is very rare love story &rare charaters &Sajan are very uniq couple.I request creatives please dont try to destroy the pure character of Sajan in up comming Babay track.
Edited by P.Srinivas - 15 years ago

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