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I've been getting a lot of feedback from the film industry on my columns. People are telling me they enjoy the read and really appreciate my thoughts. Flattered, obviously, I was also a little surprised. You see, we filmy types tend to live in a bit of a bubble, and while we have no problem gazing into the make up mirrors when the occasion arises, we very rarely look closer at the reflection staring back at us. So for the fabulous film industry and their support of my weekly social commentary, I give back to you now, what you really want to know about; yourself.
Presenting, the top 10 celebrity observations that really need to change.
1. Flashy Fashion. Girls and boys, if you're going to get paid to show up to events, or want to get photographed at parties, please get a stylist. You're a celebrity and a stylist should be stuck to your left hip just as your trainer clings onto your right. Ill-fitting gowns aren't just unflattering, but frankly will make us ill. Remember that just because you're walking a red carpet doesn't mean you have to wear one. Go easy on the velvet and never step out in polyester. The camera flashes may pop, but the weasel in the room will be you.
2. Busy B. Back to back shoots, endorsements, events, meetings, narrations. You can't possibly be that busy, and conjuring up a fake hectic schedule doesn't add anything to your value as a star. Taking the summer off, being work free for a while and recharging is cool to do, not to mention essential for our sanity. There's a whole world outside of our studios. Go live in it a little more!
3. Critical Criticism. Whether you agree with the body of critics who govern the review and ratings of our films, you can't negate the fact that their vote does count for a very large percentage of cinegoers. You also can't negate the fact that they have an understanding of film, even if they may not have understood your film. Also remember that the best way to accept criticism is with a pinch of salt and a large dollop of grace, even if it breaks your heart a bit.
4. Bitter on Twitter. Being blas about social networking sites is uncool and not being on social networking sites does not make you cool. Think you're too cool for 140 characters? It takes a lot of confidence to put your thoughts out there on a public forum and it takes even more courage to be able to defend your point.
5. Charity rarity. Sadly, charity isn't for everyone, but if you do give, then stand behind your cause. Don't support a cause unless you don't absolutely feel it, know it, and feel an urge to track it. Don't protect the tigers if you don't want to, but if you're going to back something, then make sure you have your spine in tact.
6. Tawdry Awards. Most of us have shelves adorned with awards from some organization or the other (even the really obscure ones.) Winning feels good. Winning feels even better when you get a call a few days prior to the show to confirm your presence, because, you know, you're going home with an award. You're rolling your eyes as you read this, but you know I'll see you front row at the next one. This double standard has to stop. If you don't like the format and 'integrity' of our awards, then don't show up. Aamir Khan should be awarded for holding his ground and sticking to his stance. He spoke out about the state of awards in our country, and he's never been seen at one since.
7. Relationship Rut. I'll never quite understand why almost everyone is in denial of his or her relationships. If you're lucky in love, why hide it? If you're trying to protect your career, then remember that the audience really doesn't care. Be professional and your personal life will go on unchecked.
8. Public Enemy. Denying your publicist is a grave mistake. I have one and I'm proud of her. Your publicist, if you let them, will protect your trusted relationships and will help to strengthen the fragile ones. Your publicist, if you have a good one, will know every little piece of industry news and will find a way to keep you connected with what is good for you and your career. Your publicist, if you allow them, will imagine an image for you that you wouldn't have in your wildest dreams have any confidence to create yourself. Your publicist is your fairy godmother. Your publicist is the only reason your name is known to the public. Isn't it about time you made their names known too?
9. Blunderdog. Every dog has his day, but do we really have to give undue attention to the 'underdog'? An underdog is someone who is consistent in his or her talent, and surprising in their choices, not just someone with a sad story that speaks of a lot of struggle. We've all struggled, in our own ways. Let's root for everyone; it takes all breeds to make this town bite.
10. Political Incorrectness. I think we've seen that we can't be gagged and tied and left to whimper apologies. We define our own freedom, and it begins with freedom of speech. If you didn't like these comments, I'm sorry, but don't read them. If you do, then thank you, you just proved you have the skin to survive this industry.
Presenting, the top 10 celebrity observations that really need to change.
1. Flashy Fashion. Girls and boys, if you're going to get paid to show up to events, or want to get photographed at parties, please get a stylist. You're a celebrity and a stylist should be stuck to your left hip just as your trainer clings onto your right. Ill-fitting gowns aren't just unflattering, but frankly will make us ill. Remember that just because you're walking a red carpet doesn't mean you have to wear one. Go easy on the velvet and never step out in polyester. The camera flashes may pop, but the weasel in the room will be you.
2. Busy B. Back to back shoots, endorsements, events, meetings, narrations. You can't possibly be that busy, and conjuring up a fake hectic schedule doesn't add anything to your value as a star. Taking the summer off, being work free for a while and recharging is cool to do, not to mention essential for our sanity. There's a whole world outside of our studios. Go live in it a little more!
3. Critical Criticism. Whether you agree with the body of critics who govern the review and ratings of our films, you can't negate the fact that their vote does count for a very large percentage of cinegoers. You also can't negate the fact that they have an understanding of film, even if they may not have understood your film. Also remember that the best way to accept criticism is with a pinch of salt and a large dollop of grace, even if it breaks your heart a bit.
4. Bitter on Twitter. Being blas about social networking sites is uncool and not being on social networking sites does not make you cool. Think you're too cool for 140 characters? It takes a lot of confidence to put your thoughts out there on a public forum and it takes even more courage to be able to defend your point.
5. Charity rarity. Sadly, charity isn't for everyone, but if you do give, then stand behind your cause. Don't support a cause unless you don't absolutely feel it, know it, and feel an urge to track it. Don't protect the tigers if you don't want to, but if you're going to back something, then make sure you have your spine in tact.
6. Tawdry Awards. Most of us have shelves adorned with awards from some organization or the other (even the really obscure ones.) Winning feels good. Winning feels even better when you get a call a few days prior to the show to confirm your presence, because, you know, you're going home with an award. You're rolling your eyes as you read this, but you know I'll see you front row at the next one. This double standard has to stop. If you don't like the format and 'integrity' of our awards, then don't show up. Aamir Khan should be awarded for holding his ground and sticking to his stance. He spoke out about the state of awards in our country, and he's never been seen at one since.
7. Relationship Rut. I'll never quite understand why almost everyone is in denial of his or her relationships. If you're lucky in love, why hide it? If you're trying to protect your career, then remember that the audience really doesn't care. Be professional and your personal life will go on unchecked.
8. Public Enemy. Denying your publicist is a grave mistake. I have one and I'm proud of her. Your publicist, if you let them, will protect your trusted relationships and will help to strengthen the fragile ones. Your publicist, if you have a good one, will know every little piece of industry news and will find a way to keep you connected with what is good for you and your career. Your publicist, if you allow them, will imagine an image for you that you wouldn't have in your wildest dreams have any confidence to create yourself. Your publicist is your fairy godmother. Your publicist is the only reason your name is known to the public. Isn't it about time you made their names known too?
9. Blunderdog. Every dog has his day, but do we really have to give undue attention to the 'underdog'? An underdog is someone who is consistent in his or her talent, and surprising in their choices, not just someone with a sad story that speaks of a lot of struggle. We've all struggled, in our own ways. Let's root for everyone; it takes all breeds to make this town bite.
10. Political Incorrectness. I think we've seen that we can't be gagged and tied and left to whimper apologies. We define our own freedom, and it begins with freedom of speech. If you didn't like these comments, I'm sorry, but don't read them. If you do, then thank you, you just proved you have the skin to survive this industry.
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