Thinking of blaming someone 'Sadhna hain na' - Page 4

Alekh should not be forgiven i think ragini can be forgiven as she is not that imporatant for me but a mummy's boy Alekh is not even a human to be forgiven Sadhna should go away or should cut her wrists if she is so desperate to lead the rest of her life with a ruthless mam's boy he will say sorry and then again will start following her mother and torturing Sadhna i guess a weak character like Sadhna should kill herself

But my question why she take it, will she ever stand up for herself

Alekh can't see how much he has hurt Sadhana and didnt support her where as he is creating so much fuss after seeing the divorce papers clearly shows that he is not mature enough to understand everything and can be easily misguided. His conversations with Ragini or Ranveer only shows that he is trying his level best to prove himself as an elder son and brother of the family. A husband-wife relationship is unique ...there should be not only love but trust, understanding and compromise...this is something he doesn't understand yet.

Originally posted by: vishmewell

Kyon ki woh, nannah sa pyara sa bacha hai abhi bhi...😆

He needs serious help. Aalekh ko dekhke mujhe sach mein dukh hota hai. I don't think he knows theres a word called compromise in the dictionary. mai bhi naa.. kya leke baith gayi... Aalekh never had schooling...😆

Even in the real world, it is difficult for some men not to have emotional dependency with their moms even under normal circumstances. They may love their wife, doesn't matter. Phir bhi Aalekh was abnormal most part of his life. His rationale is clouded. Even though he is an adult, he has this child like behavior. Na bolnepar ruth jaana, Na bolnepar gussa aana... chillana... you think this is adult matured behavior? Adults make their ow decisions. When did Aalekh make any decision? He needs support system big time, and now... but unfortunately his own mother is misleading him to her own advantage and to bolster her ego.

Aalekh ke saat bhi anyay hua hai, dhoka hua hai Sadhana ki tharaf se aur khud ki maa ki tharaf se bhi... Sadhana ko divorce papers sign karna hi nahi chahiye tha...

My heart goes out to Aalekh just as much as to Sadhana. Woh bhi tho akeleme rotha hai...

PLEAAASE koyi Aalekh ki madad karo... any ideas folks?

Alekh needs to understand Sadhana's worth and see Vasu's true colors. He will change for better.

Originally posted by: reguser

The blame game is mainly because Sadhna doesnt have any one. She doesnt have parental support, no pathi's support (before and now both) and no her own siblings. Though Sharmaji is like her real father, he also can not always fight with his wife, daughter, son and daughter in law all the time for Sadhna. And same goes with Ranvir also. If Sadhna has her real parents alive, and a brother/sister who can voice against the injustice done to her or a husband who shuts the mouth of people who points finger at Sadhna then Vasu/Kaushi will not even dare to speak anything against her.

Very true. I agree 101%.

Originally posted by: reguser

The blame game is mainly because Sadhna doesnt have any one. She doesnt have parental support, no pathi's support (before and now both) and no her own siblings. Though Sharmaji is like her real father, he also can not always fight with his wife, daughter, son and daughter in law all the time for Sadhna. And same goes with Ranvir also. If Sadhna has her real parents alive, and a brother/sister who can voice against the injustice done to her or a husband who shuts the mouth of people who points finger at Sadhna then Vasu/Kaushi will not even dare to speak anything against her.

True dear friend ... true ... 😒