-Jaisa Desh Waisa Bhes-

Again loved the episode.

Umm, i wont say it should always be jaisa desh waisa bhesh, but somewhere yeah. And more than that, its how you adjust to that place, and somewhere i do also feel that once you start living in one place for a while.. you start dressing and behaving like that. People change and people adjust :)

I get what you mean and how it's wrong to change so drastically. I think her wearing her short clothes and stuff is a personal choice though..

I've been born and brought up in Canada, but still ANY time there's an Indian function I jump at the thought of wearing salwars, lenghas and saris, maybe it's just me😳 but there are times when I wish I could go around here dressed like that, but all the constant stares would get annoying, it's not that I'd be ashamed of wearing it, I'd just get tired of ppl staring...

Ruchika however shouldn't have had to lie to her mom, I mean I'm sure her mom would've been okay gradually if she had worn jeans and shirts or something.

Great post tho! 😃

Originally posted by: arss

Umm, i wont say it should always be jaisa desh waisa bhesh, but somewhere yeah. And more than that, its how you adjust to that place, and somewhere i do also feel that once you start living in one place for a while.. you start dressing and behaving like that. People change and people adjust :)

Originally posted by: indiandoll89

I get what you mean and how it's wrong to change so drastically. I think her wearing her short clothes and stuff is a personal choice though..

I've been born and brought up in Canada, but still ANY time there's an Indian function I jump at the thought of wearing salwars, lenghas and saris, maybe it's just me😳 but there are times when I wish I could go around here dressed like that, but all the constant stares would get annoying, it's not that I'd be ashamed of wearing it, I'd just get tired of ppl staring...

Ruchika however shouldn't have had to lie to her mom, I mean I'm sure her mom would've been okay gradually if she had worn jeans and shirts or something.

Great post tho! 😃

@Aish: I agree, because we've seen Ruchika with the Tulsi plant, which shows that she's still got some of those orthodox beliefs and she holds her religion and all that close to her heart. So we can't say that just on the basis of what she wears she's not Indian or traditional 😳

Originally posted by: aish_punk

well i think she might have changed since a city can change a person, and she'll have to adjust with the place!..so its her personal wish..just because she does'nt wear salwar kameez does'nt mean she's not an indian or not traditional..

but being from lucknow, maybe if she had 1 or 2 suits..it would be pretty normal..otherwise its pretty weird..she does'nt own anything..because jeans n all do'nt fit all occassions..

Originally posted by: indiandoll89

@Aish: I agree, because we've seen Ruchika with the Tulsi plant, which shows that she's still got some of those orthodox beliefs and she holds her religion and all that close to her heart. So we can't say that just on the basis of what she wears she's not Indian or traditional 😳

to some extent "jaisa desh vaisa bhesh "is correct.but sometimesw u have to go against people to to do what yo want.bcs the society is not always right.