Samrat, Nupur's insecurities & SaNu

Note: This post isn't abt GunUr thou has ref to d track hence I m not posting it in d GunUr thread as its abt SaNu & their issues at d moment

Last night was pretty much a very high power drama filled episode when MayUr walk in on SaJan in a moment that's wrongly constructed

From what we have been seeing on for d past few days was almost all out last night as an angry Nupur vented her thoughts abt Sam to him openly

Frankly I joined this show as a SaJanian & am I to the core but over time also became a SaYank & SaNu loyalist too 😳 & hence it failed me to see a pair I like so much go down this path rattling my brains with what's wrong with Nupur?

Loads of post, arguments & theories on IF said its right/ wrong in their opinions abt Nupur but none cleared d confusion truly

Even I couldn't put a finger on it but something bugged me abt what's d whole point of Nups changing but last night's 2 words abt Gunjan by Mayank ' abt giving her space & knowing she's grown up along with d precap where nups says why is gunjan going away from me hit me bang on

So ppl here's my 2 cents worth of analysis hope I make sense & pls don't feel I m bashing anyone 😳

We already know nups is goin thru a hard time dealing with her dad's animosity & is more so disturbed with Gunjan favoring him more & know why she feels so but why Sam comes into d pic is so

At this point a very fragile Nupur just wants to cling onto whatever family she has as thou mayu is her love & hubby too now he cant take over as family right at least not so soon, when they even haven't been married 4 a week barely

Her dad wont accept her back plus he compares her to Gunjan 😲' a Taboo- no elder sibling thou loving d younger one can take it from their parent that the younger is right, better & not u so that hurts BIG TIME

Next she's hurt even Gunji doesn't support her as much thou it's not true as Gunji is at a crossroad here with both roads being right for her in their own ways so she' neutral not in any camp but Nups doesn't feel so yet Gunji is all she has now in d name of family & hence thou angry at her she cant let her go

Here now she wants to cling onto her at the most but she feels distance erupting between em too namely Samrat, 😕yes, she feels threatened in a way by his growing presence in Gunjan's life & his right over her which she sees as control thinking he's taking the Gunjan she knows away from her😔

In d game when Gunjan says she'll do what Sam says nups is visibly angry & when she does is sad & angry she feels her Gunjan is disappearing & this new gal is a stranger she can't identify hence her possessiveness is going at an all time high making her so drastic & insecure

Hence last night she says to Sam to leave Gunjan

she doesn't wanna share her sis with even him at d moment nups always knew Sam is imp to Gunjan but it just hit her how much exactly

like mayu says Nups needs 2 give gunjan some space as she's grown up but now she cant do it not when she needs Gunjan d most in her life she cant see it happening plus yes to her Gunji still hasn't grown up as much thou she knows she isn't a kid anymore too

that SaJan are in love is what nups always knew but somehow she never had in her wildest freaking dreams thought a guy will change her naive shy sis so much that she'll be open 2 even PDA really shockin her

so yes she didn't see that their love will enter d physical arena too, thou it's only natural but hey u cant imagine ur younger sis like that can u? not at all esp when she's like Gunjan

so here what's d matter is rather than accepting her sis is in love it's more imp that Nups shd see that her sis is in a relationship & not only in love with a guy & madly at that too, rem there's a diff to love someone & to be in a relationship

so yes nups needs to start accepting SaJan' relationship more than their love as only then will she be Ok with their physical intimacy or even PDA which even she does

& d only way for it to happen is for her to know her importance in Gunjan's life which she feels is at stake here too cause of Sam , here is think SaNu's friendship can play a big role too

I think if Sam can make her see he isn't taking away her sis nor with d goof up with gifts that has caused her to doubt his intentions in her present state of mind that he'll never hurt or disgrace gunjan as he knows as you sow so shall u reap this issue can be solved

Sam can make nups realize even he too has a younger sis & is aware of her fears & in fact shares em too will Nups see d clear side of SaJan' relationship & Sam😃

At d moment I feel all she needs is a punching bag a vent which Sam has involuntarily become as she can cry to mayu talk to gunji miss her dad but in none of em can she find a vent someone who she can take her anger out on & hence comes Sam, a guy she feels who isn't as imp 2 her as her dad, gunji or Mayu but still fails to see is really spl to her in his own way in her life 😳

SaNu are great friends & sometimes u end up hurtin ppl imp 2 u on purpose or at times unintentionally as is happening here

Sam has been with her thru thick & thin helped MayUr a lot too & is still doing but yet she's today not ready to accept him being jealous ( sorry cant think of a better word) of d fact that now like her dad always loved Gunjan more ( as per her) Gunjan whom she always loved d most & who loved her back equally today loves Samrat more than her & hence the anger on him is making her say those thing abt Sam & react the way she's doin

Funnily this reminds me of an episode of FRIENDS where Ross explodes over his senior over a sandwich yellin MY Sandwich🤣 🤣🤣 as d guy ate a part & threw the rest of it which Ross felt was d only good thing in his life at the time,😆( as his second divorce with Emily was on d way😆😆) somehow making us wonder this is how much desperate ppl can get in times of crisis & need when they feel all cornered & alone

Phew !! sorry 4 d long post hope I made sense 😳😳😳

one more thing....why nupur is concrnd abt gunj....samrat kissed her in frnt of evryone which any normal prsn cannot digest....ek ladki ki reputatn ka sawal ban jata hei....nupur nvr cossed the limit in frnt of evryone....so she is jst concnd not jelus

Originally posted by: aashizin

hey aahana sweetheart mindblowing analysisation loved it yar you r absolutaly right totally agree with you 👏

Originally posted by: princessyashika

wohoooooooooooooo brilliant fantabulous explaination aahana u desreve a mindblowing applause for this jaan..👏 👏👏...well our thoughts always cross the same roads...haha...coz i totally agree with each n every word u said.This is the biggest reason i dont indulge into controversial topics these days...coz i too think that all of them sammy.nupz and gunjan r right at their own places....as it is said...ppl r not wrong...circumstances r. And this is so right nupz may be rude but she just doesn't want gunjan to go thru the same pain she went thru....courtesy their bauji's
and bui's outdated nature...if gunur's dad wud have been like mayu's mom..the situation wud have been much different.In my view this problem and nupur's insecurity can be solved if sajan confess their love in front of bauji.We all know bauji wud have agreed to mayur if he wud have come 2 know abt mayu in a different way.If sajan priorily only confess that they r in serious commitment.....not only nupur's insecurities will be solved but even sajan's relationship will not be treated with a wrong pov.well i have written a sanu scene on the same...as dolly asked....will be posting sooon...pls do read everyone and aahana pls do read...it will be so lovely 2 have ur feedback.

Originally posted by: tanushee

nupur is not threatnd by samrat presence.....she is only concerned abt gunjan...as smrat reputation ws of playboy n she is cncrned tht gunjn dosnt get hrt...nupur is not jelus or ovrreactng.....nupr is hrt tht why gunjn has dbl stndrd ...she can do anything n cn be rt but nupur ds smthng is wrong....the whole concept is wrtn by cv's so dont bash any actr......

Originally posted by: tanushee

one more thing....why nupur is concrnd abt gunj....samrat kissed her in frnt of evryone which any normal prsn cannot digest....ek ladki ki reputatn ka sawal ban jata hei....nupur nvr cossed the limit in frnt of evryone....so she is jst concnd not jelus