Would u marry someone like suryakamal?

I want some genuine answers ...pls...if in real life would u marry someone like suryakamal(SK) ...I find preetis mothers behaviour very strange...she agreed for the marriage even without seeing his house or his family members...I agree SK is a gem of a person but preeti has to live with not just SK but also with others...u see his mom its enough to know that ur life would be hell there. preeti was born in a well off family how do they expect her to stay is SK house??? it looks like preetis family is just not concerned. SK is very good at heart and he loves preeti very much but does she deserve him who is just 12th pass whereas she is well educated....can u be happpy just becos the person is nice...u still need some basic things and u have expectatons!!! It looks very unrealistic...but the creatives have to really convince me hard to show preeti happy with SK...

sounds mean.but NO!
he's nice but I cold never live my whole life like that.

Well obviously when two people get married its not just about them because its actually two families coming together so you do have to look at the family background of the person you are marrying and what kind of people you will be living with.

HOWEVER marriage isn't just about the family for the person getting married. If the guy is a really great guy like Suryakamal he has an amazing personality and so much depth of character, someone who is responsible and mature and thoughtful to those around him, someone who will give more than 100% to make his marriage work then honestly despite the fact that he isnt that well off or that his family isnt that great I would still marry him.

Money: As for the money thing, money comes and goes a poor man can become rich just as a rich man can become poor so that isnt very important I don't think.

Education: If a man is mature and sensible, he knows how to look after his family and understands how relationships need to be looked after to keep them strong and good then the fact that he isnt a doctor or an engineer or been to university doesnt matter either. He is educated in the more important things of life. Thats what matters. After all you may have a degree but how will that degree teach you how you should treat and look after a wife and family?

House/Environment: Same as money. You can start off in a one bedroom flat but that can change. One day you may have a bigger house or vice versa. As long as the man has a decent place for you to stay, he can keep a roof over your head and be able to provide for you then thats fine. Anything extra is a luxury and marriage is a lifetime. You can save up for bigger better things together and that will bring you closer.

Looks: This is of course opinion. What is Goodlooking to one person may not be to another. For instance I personally think Suryakamal is quite gorgeous but Preeti doesn't. Obviously there should be some kind of attraction between two people who are getting married but even if there isn't, that spark can grow in time when you start to know each other because attraction isnt just about the physical. Personality is a huge factor in attractiveness. If a person is goodlooking and has a horrible personality that spark that was there originally will die because there is nothing there to keep it going. Thats why even though someone may not be drop dead gorgeous can become just as attractive if they have a great personality. The personality cultivates the spark and it grows.
Because after all Looks are fleeting they do not last. Personality however lasts forever.
And you love someone for who they are not what they look like.

All in all I would marry Suryakamal taking everything into account and Snehlata understood all of the above and thats why she chose Suryakamal for Preeti over Rishi.

When I was asked about my rishtah I also took all of the above into account and at the end of the day all a woman is really looking for is a man who will love her and care for her and respect her. Thats the most important thing to have. If you have a Life Partner who you know will stand by you in Good times and Bad times then everything will become easy for you.

Its just like they say "Marry the one who will love you."

Just because you do not love someone doesnt mean that love can not grow between you.

Aisha xxx😉

Originally posted by: moheema

sounds mean.but NO!
he's nice but I cold never live my whole life like that.

Exactly my sentiments! (:

thanks for the responses girls..just wanted to find out ur opinions😃

@thornewood...appreciate ur thoughts👏 and glad to see someone with ur feelings...I agree that looks doesnt matter...in that way preeti is still very immature but I cant see how they will progress SK ...becos I for one cannot live without progress..I am ready to work on that ..I wont say that u should marry womeone like rishi for that SK's status would be quite OK...but where does he lead from here..OK anyhow I am ready to see how the creatives go from here.

In this show SK is more handsome than Rishi anyday. So placement of actors is off trying to prove a point.

Originally posted by: 2009Rule

In this show SK is more handsome than Rishi anyday. So placement of actors is off trying to prove a point.

Heck ya I would marry SK. Sure.

Also to say looks don't matter much is crazy. Is that why many men/women want to see pics beforehand to say yes or no. Come on this day and with this society looks plays a part highly in marriage. Unlike the old time ways where you're arranged without seeing your bride/hubby until the wedding night. Reality looks is a major factor "depending on the person" which makes it a majority. And too MANY FAMILIES look at all factors before arranged not just speaking to the "individual" themselves alone. SK came alone to the celebrations without any family members.

How can Sneha make a decision based on the man himself without looking at everthing when it concerns her only daughter??? That confuses me. And too the reality of NO WAY would a Rich family opt rushed forced their daughter into marriage to a Poor Man, No Way....This is Not Real. Rich family might do that to a distant family member or someone they hated within the family to a poor man but not this family...Altogether confusing.

yes exactly this si wht I meant..its crazy and out of reality how everything was fixed without any meetings and talkings..it was so quick...

Thing is, he's awesome, and one would love to have him as someone to spend the rest of your life with.

in my opinion, No. He is good and nice thats one factor.

But major reason girl looks for marriage is her security. I am not saying he should be hitting every man around who looks at you. But he should supportive and should have guts to stand by you and protect you when needed. If he cant defend her in front of his mother and cant support her whats use then?? Who is playing husband's part then? Its him or her?

Being good is also not good. Atleast a guy should have capability to tackle and understand people around him. If he cant do that then he is biggest fool who will use him as they want. What he will do that time? Sicking support from his wife?

a guy like rishi is nice on paper not in real life.