Where do you think the beauty of a woman lies ?

Is it her beauty in the eyes of the beholder or the beauty of her eyes ?

Originally posted by: shaktheback

Is it her beauty in the eyes of the beholder or the beauty of her eyes ?<br><br><br>

Her beauty in the eyes of the beholder,but beauty also lies in the eyes of the beholder.
Maybe what appears beautiful to me is not for person beside me and vice versa.
Perception varries.

I think perception is only a way of hiding reality to be true.

If someone is special in this world, or beautiful, no matter how much you like or dislike the person, they'd still be special. If someone is not, then if you still find him or her, that's perception. Many people would say everyone is special, that's perception. There are truly really few special people in this world, that's reality.

Similarly, beautiful is also perception. What is maroon for someone, may be dark red for someone else, and both may mean exactly the same thing for a further third person. All I want to show is: beautiful is beautiful. Finding it or not, or in varying amounts, doesn't really show whether it IS, it shows whether someone FINDS it so or not.

Counter-attacking that bit though, beauty also isn't where our eyesight stops, living with someone after 30 years, than understanding how wonderful the person is, is ALSO beauty. For that, the eyes are so not enough. We all know that for sure!

Thus, I'd say neither. I would rather say beauty lies in feeling so. Once you feel you're beautiful, in whichever way, in how much of it, you really are, and that would become integrated. And then, it is said, only beautiful people recognize others like them anyway. 😉

A thing of beauty is a joy forever.

But no matter how beautiful an object if we are mentally not at peace then all these will not have much value. So in order to appreciate the beauty we too muct have a beautiful mind.

😆 For eg. if we give a piece of diamond to a monkey it will probably bite it and then get angry and hurl it back at us. (warning to young buoys: please do not give your mum's diamonds to a monkey)😆

Originally posted by: Summer3

A thing of beauty is a joy forever.

But no matter how beautiful an object if we are mentally not at peace then all these will not have much value. So in order to appreciate the beauty we too muct have a beautiful mind. 😆

For eg. if we give a piece of diamond to a monkey it will probably bite it and then get angry and hurl it back at us. (warning to young buoys: please do not give your mum's diamonds to a monkey)😆

Summer ji, you always speak with experience.
Have you ever praised a beautiful woman ?

If a woman is not close but just a public figure, then the Fs are important, Face and Figure.

If she is your girlfriend or wife then the Cs are important Character, charm, composure, confidence, cooking etc. (some say also cash n credit cards )

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Originally posted by: shaktheback

Summer ji, you always speak with experience.
Have you ever praised a beautiful woman ?

i firmly b liv that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. I may find a particular dress beautiful whereas someone else may find it obnoxious! A person in a bad frame of mind usually finds fault with everything but a serene mind finds even an ordinary blade of grass as a thing of great beauty !

i firmly b liv that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. I may find a particular dress beautiful whereas someone else may find it obnoxious! A person in a bad frame of mind usually finds fault with everything but a serene mind finds even an ordinary blade of grass as a thing of great beauty !

why are all topics regarding women , from fat girls to slim girls to dark girls to fair girls to tall girls to short girls to beautiful girls to talented girls to working girls to dating girls...where are topics on guyz??!!
Geez, is this entire world women orientated? are we really that special and important that we have topic dedicated to us everyday? where are any topics on guyz here???!!!

Edit...the only thing discussed on IF is women and sex, do we really have nothing more spicy to discuss?

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