This really defeats my understanding - Page 4

Originally posted by: bee5

yes, thats right! People sometimes just give up thinking it is their destiny.
I have a solution for such people - do what you should do, speak out and then blame it on the Destiny saying yeah, it was in my destiny to open my mouth.
yes, I agree that admitting is the 1st major step. Atleast they are absolved of the guilt they feel. I would definitely appreciate it.
Though there is the destiny part which control our thinking, one still has to think that their thinking is in their control. When things don't work as expected, then one can give up their hands, but atleast take the 1st step.

I shudder thinking how come Simi is so cool .. she was almost about to get married to RB and now is going the same path towards Nakul. During RB, she was doing a favour on Anuj, but, now she is doing it for whom?
How does this girl sleep at night?

She is doing it for Anita (and Anuj) again. This women is hooked on inflicting pain on herself. She's got some serious issues. She must really hate herself. Sometimes Bee, we might not be able to control people and events outside of ourself, but one thing we can work on controlling is how we react and respond. And if we cannot even do that properly, at least be aware of how we are responding/reacting to it.

We need to be selfish and think abt ourselves !! At some point of time no bdy will be around you since everyone thinks abt themselves you are all alone then what do you do
Simi will loose her self confidence if she keeps falling into Anita's Jhaal