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Posted: 15 years ago
Eva, thanks for your much awaited post on last couple of episodes. However I am still waiting for your opinion on how the episode ended yesterday (or did I miss it if you have already written?) Just like all other faithful viewers I am also deeply concerned about a possible rift between RaDev, did Radhika feel the pain of hurting Dev with her actions so early in her married life? Dev definitely is trying to keep his vachans given to Shastriji to care, protect and keep his wife happy. The 7th and the last vachan was that husband and wife will live like two best friends, this applies to Radh also. Forget about confiding in your best friend, Radh justified keeping a secret from her husband. I was really upset because, Radh did not express any remorse over hurting Dev at least in private. If she is able to be so firm to tell Dev that she cannot reveal the real reason she went out at night, then she was able to tell Amma, she will not go out alone at night no matter what. It is frustrating to see Radh loosely following her patni dharm. Like I have written in my other post, judging right from wrong, good and bad all takes education and experience, Radh does not have both. She jumps into action to protect her family because it is her duty, hell with the consequences because she entered into action already without analyzing the situation. She has gone against Kanha's laws of nature to protect her family. Quite a contrast to Amma's devilish mind, which schemes, plots, lines up her victims and executes her plan flawlessly. Radh's loyalty towards Vishakha is misplaced, Dev has pointed out this fact to her many times, she is impulsive, extremely naive of course. But at some point she needs to understand her loyalty towards Dev and his family are her top priorities in life. It will happen but by then CB serial will be at its last episode.
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Posted: 15 years ago
Thank you ladies for your comments. I certainly agree with all of you I was just hoping agianst hope that 8th dec will bring some positiveness between Radh Dev as under the circumstances it was not looking very bright..
Yes as i told the 7th Jan episode made me really upset and I was waiting to see how Dev comes to know about it and how he reacts to the fact that once again Radh went out of her way and did not respect his wishes.. But with all of you I agree that this episode brought some more positiveness between RadhDev Inspite of amma's master minded manipulation..
And that was the reason I thought yes the magic is still there between RadhDev and that matter to me the most than Vish getting upset or amma's schemes working superbly and a rift between two sisters.. I did not care much for the wicked smile of amma or Vish popping her eyes bigger than hen's egg in anger or taking vachans to destroy RadhDev relationship..
But yesterday the thing irritated me the most was to promote the character like amma and vish in the storyline the DJ are trying to diminish the character of the lead pair.. Of course in the story line the negative characters are as much necessary with the good ones as without them the story would be too dull.... I can understand that point.. But I just could not digest the fact that in spite of being on the right path of asking her husband before going out.. She was compelled to do exactly the opposite and go agaist her own principles.. It was a very thin line to cross as to follow her principles or save her sister's life and at the same time she was also aware that she is going to come under direct wrath of her husband and he will be displeased for sure.. Once again to save her dear sister's life from the clutches of this wicked person Radh had to put her principle aside and do what is needed to be done for the sake of her sister, her father and ultimately for the family.. Amma's master mind was working all this possibilites and also that this will put Radh in the path of direct wrath of her husband, her father and her sister and also that Vikram guy.. as she called police on him.... She was playing her old tricks again...divide and rule.. Did she take a training under British rule or what?... but well her tricks were partially successful as she could not break the bond between Dev and Radh...
Yes I was glad that they did not show Dev sleeping through the night unaware of what was happening around but was up and searching for Radh in the house.. and when she came back dejected and hurt .. He was standing right there upset and asking for the explanation of her where abouts... Loved that Radh got this confrontation from her husband. That he was aware of her not following his wishes and he told her plainly that he was very much hurt by her actions and that he never thought that she would do somethng like that and Radh had to face the consequence of his displeasure..
Yesterday I could not finish the RadhDev talk so I thought I will put that up .. But that last scene between Radh Dev gave me hope.. that inspite of amma's great plans to kill not only two but four or five birds at the same time she was not able to create a rift between Radh Dev..
So here is my views on last scene..
Looking at her husband's righteous displeasure.. Feeling totally helpless Radh comes around him and stands before him.. Looking up at his face she so softly and not arguing too much or pleading her case unnecessarily and try to justify her actions.. but only in one sentcence she presents her case to him.. Her voice full of apology says what ever I did was for the sake of the family.. Dev already understood the fact after giving her the piece of his mind... He already knew in his heart that how sorry Radh is when he looked back at her sad face.. but he still kept the pretense of his displeasure.. He wanted her to come to him and tell him that she was sorry for this..... So when Radh came around with such a sad face and dread in her heart that her husband is so mad at her he would not listen to her pleas .... One look at her face full of sadnes and this aplology was enough for Dev to break the ice of his displeasure and now He just could not help but smile a little.. saying yes I know Radhika that whatever you must have done must have been for the sake of of the family and not for your self.. Radh started to hope a little.. a slow smile is started to lurk on her face reflecting the smile on his face..
( I am totally going to avoide what amma is telling to Vish in direct contrast to what Dev and Radh are telling each other... I will come back to it later as not to break what is being said between Dev and Radh..)
After the ice of Dev's displeasure was broken... There is little ease between this two.. After her apology and after telling her that he knows that she would have done this only for the sake of her family.. His tone is still little serious.. He tells Radh that you always think about the happiness of others.. than he turns to Radh with a smile and says but now there is some one who wants to see you happy and who cares for you.. With a tender smile on his face he holds Radh's arms and makes her sit on the bed and sits near her.. He looks in to her eyes and says Radhika we are not two separate person.. and holding her hand lovingly in his two palms he says that we have become one.. Radh still has not come out of her guilty feeling she looks at her husband's grand gesture of holding her hands in his two palms as if telling her that he has already forgiven her misdeeds..
Holding her hand Dev so sweetly tells her that what ever i will do, will affect you and what ever you will do will affect me (Radh looks at his face if he was still mad but he was not) Dev just naturally tells her that I cannot even think about the possiblity that you might have to hide something from me.. (Radh keeps on listening him.. ) Dev than says is our love that weak (that you have to hide something from me..) That brings quick response from Radh.. she says oh no.. our love is above all these things.. we understand each other even without a word of explanation.... Our trust and faith on each other is the essence of our love.. this kind of talks cannot bring any rift between us.. anyway i promise you that when the time is ripe I will tell you everything.. Dev says ok and let it go at that.. He says that Radhika we are going to start our new life together with the intentions that our love is never going to be less for each other and no body can break the bond we share.. They sit there in comfortable silence looking at each other and holding each others hand and once agian secure in each other's love and trust..
Once agian Dev proved that where Radh is concern and where his trust and his faith on his wife is concern nothing touches him... In spite of Radh's actions which upset him or which hurt his feelings but his love and his trust and his faith on her never wavered.. he continully stood by her side.. showered her with his unconditional love and overwhelmed her by his total understanding giving her assurance that his love and his trust for her is intact and never going to diminish in any circumstances. But at the same time I loved the fact that he was not blind in his attitude toward her but told her exactly how he felt and how her actions hurt him and that he never thought that this circumstances would be ever in his life.. but inspite of all that his love for her was unaffected and He stood as a firm rock against the storm of life taking her by his side in the protection of his love without keeping any grudges in his heart.
In normal circumstances.. any husband would be so angry for not obeying his direct orders and going away in the middle of night like this would have put so much doubts in his head and on top of that Radhia plainly refused to tell him anything and the added poison from amma.. would have just blew them apart .. Any normal person would be so infurated if his wife tells him plainly that she cannot tell him where did she go.. It would bring just all the arguments and ugliness in the relationship...but Dev just took all those normal circumstances and dealt with them and threw them away behind his back and what matter to him the most was the love they shared.. the relationship they shared.. the bond they shared..and the faith and trust they shared.. His heart told him that Radh would never do anything selfishly and that if she has done something to displease him it must have been too important for the sake of the family.. He never allowed a drop of cloud enter in his head or heart against his trust in her.. He trusted her and that's that.. any of her actions coming agianst his wishes did not waver that trust.. and that was so magnificent to watch.. that was so beutifully portrayed by them..
On the other hand Radh knew that she has crossed the line.. Her actions went agaist her patni dharma and on top of that she has brought hurt to the man she loved with all her being.. but unable to expose her sister, unable to give him the real reasons she kept quite and did not make any excuses for her behavior.. In this I am not saying that I agree with Radh's actions.. but I can just give her a little space considering that it was her sister's life against her principle and she choose to save her life.. As she would not have been happy at the later stage of life knowing, because she did not take any action at that night all these disgrace and trouble came on her foster family.. that she could have avoided it by being courageous and meet that person.. and she would have never forgiven herself.... So considering all these possibilities and taking all this upon herself she went outside to have a talk with this person unaware of amma's manipulation.. but as her motives were unselfish and as her heart is pure.. she came out of this very delicate situation only by her husband's unconditional love. She was forgiven and even came more closer to him and their love went up another height and another level... and all this was only possible because her husband's love for her..
Here in the other room.. Amma is on her mission to add snake's venom in Vish's mind.. Vish gets more and more angry at Radh and takes Vachan to put the same rift between Radh and Dev which has been created by Radh between her and Vikram.. Any way I was least interested to see Amma's wicked smile and Vish's angry Vachans..
They are teaming up again to come up agaist RadhDev.. Previously when RadhDev were apart and they could not come between them and they tried so keep them separate and snatched Radh's right to be called Dev's wife.. but nothing worked and we spent a whole year till they became one by the blessings of her babuji/Ma and by the love and dedication of her Dev and by the blessings of her Kanha.. at last she got the right to be called his wife and put the sindoor of his name in her mang... and now when they are together as husband and wife... whatever this duo with that wicked trio at PB and now added one more character in Vikram will team up agaist them.. So now for anther year let's sit back and watch how everyone tries to keep them separate and still how they stick to each other.. Fun to watch hmmm... let's see how much patient do we have to take this in... As RadhDev are one I will watch as other nonsense does not bother me much.. but I will not be able to tolerate any rift or misunderstanding between RadhDev... That's a big NO NO for me..
Hope you will enjoy it.. All of you have a Great Week end...
Edited by evasumi - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
some more on Radh's ventrue:
Personally I was really upset with Radhika that she did not listen to her husband that in spite of knowing that her patni dharma does not allow her to go against his decision.. she did what was the best under the circumstances..
It made me thinking that if she listened to her husband in everything without any of her thougt life.... she would be totally replica of her mother Devki.. who wants to do something different but bows down to her husband's commands and does not do anything when something is needed to be done and that also creates so many complicated situations for all... In those circumstances we want Devki to do something.. but she does not do and that is her nature.. but here is Radhika she knows what are her principles and what she is suppose to follow but she takes the decision for the honor of the family and to save family member's life risking her own.... and all her life she has done that.. and that is her nature.. And I think Dev is totally aware of that nature as he was the witness of those many incidents time and time again and everytime the unselfish act of Radh amazed him.. saying in his heart wow what a girl...
Practically he never would agree with those. And he never would have wanted her to take those risk with her life.. It just totally baffles him and makes him upset that she does not think about herself... Personally I am all for Dev's practical thinking.. but at the same time I am happy that Dev is there for Radh's unpractical behavior but as Dev said today that Radh's action affects him and in light of that Radh needs to be more practical and share with him what's been troubling her and what are her concerns and fears and do not keep him in dark for anythng. As Dev told her... is our love so weak that you are compelled to hide things from me? and that should take root in Radh..
When involving in situation like this when Radh might have to get exposed publicaly she always needs to think per his point of view too.. His honor is also at stake and she simply cannot take decision alone being his wife now.. Previously she was not answerable to anyone whatever decision she took she herself took the consequences but now being his wife she is not going to face anything alone. His reputation and honor also gets affected and that needs to come as a high priority in her thinking process.
I just plainly did no like her actions that she being the wife of Dev Raj Purohit has venture out at the middle of the night to meet a dangerous man. She was exposed to the man Dev and Purohits hated. She was exposed to logde's gatekeeper... she was exposed to Police.... What more can bring disgrace to her husband's name than that.. oh gosh if it was Delhi... That cat eye Mrinalini would have just eat her alive and her MIL would lose no chances to kick her out ... No Radhika dear you do not need that on your husband's life.. You do not want your mother in law think that you are Dev's weakness.. Dadima will definitely hurt too.. Yes Radh you need to be more aware of who you are now.. You are married and a Rajpurohitine and the respect and honor of your husband is your highest priority... You need to open up more and more to your husband and not do anything without his knowlegde.... You need to be aware that there are so many external forces against you and your husband that you need to be more under his umbrella all the time and secure in his love against the storm of the life..
Edited by evasumi - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
Oh Eva..Thanks for the clear analysis of radh dev's charactor...My God! I still can't digest the bad feeling for Radh after leaving room,while her husband is sleeping..No excuse for her action...but reading ur analysis ,may be i am with u.Those 2 episodes were worst than all burn track for me..i don't even want to see the Radev monemts any more..Because it was that bitter...I hope her charactor wont bring any negative reputation to Dev..If the creatives are even thinking about it,i quit,it will be very bitter and nothing can soothen it..So i am still waiting..and also when they r showing Radev scene ,they r breaking it with amma and vish charactor..so to rewind and watch again is not possible..Creatives may be thinking they are successful in their mission by creating amma and vish' s charactor..I don't have any feeling towards them..Not a pin point..I think there is some issue with this forum now a days..and that is keeping me away from the thought..trying to watch other movies (3 idiots) to pass time..before it was only Radev but now mind started rehabing itself ,mainly because of last 2 episodes...
Thanks for the positive analysis..and as u say it is big No No if the creatives go this way...
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Posted: 15 years ago

Eva,

This was precisely my point. I was happy when they showed that Radhika took stand against Amma in the beginning and said that she wouldn't go outside without her husband's permission. But, then she went inside and told a total lie to his face about going to Nandu's house. He was so much into her and wanted to spend time with her, but she was worried about Vishaka all the time. Vishaka had run away from home several times, lived with other guys (Purab) and still Radhika did not even talk to her. Vishaka is an adult and can take care of herself. Vishaka didn't even bother to ask her how she was feeling. Afterall, Radhika got burnt saving Vishaka.
What was upsetting to many viewers is that even after she finds out Vikram is the guy Vishaka is involved with, she doesn't share it with Dev. Dev clearly told her that her actions affect him now that she is married to him. She knows that Vikram came to their reception uninvited and was thrown out by Dev. She knows that Dev believes that Vikram is doing some scheme against him. Also, there was police and still she doesn't bother to share it with Dev. As you mentioned, she is Mrs. RP now and actions have consequences to the family name. Even Dadi would be angry if she knows that Radhika is going out alone to meet a dangerous and unknown guy. Radhika also knows the consequences of going out alone late in the night (producer's incident) and still she doesn't share it with Dev. Then, she is spouting words like "Patni Dharam" every few minutes. They have turned her character into an hypocrite where she does what she pleases and then apologizes to Dev knowing fully well that his immense faith and love for her would make him forgive her. She is taking advantage of his nature to serve her worthless family. She knows Amma's wicked nature and still listens to her rather than her husband.
My retake here would be Radhika's realization about her mistake especially after her conversation with Dev and her confession of the full truth. The story line can still have twists, but these twists would be more logical and consistent with characters' growth. Here, they suddenly make Vishaka's character positive for no reason and then fully negative for another lame reason. Amma goes unpunished by everyone including Gods. Radhika would rather be true to the evil people than the good people They are destroying Radhika's strong character (shown early in the show) to prop up Vishaka and Amma. This is making this serial the same type of crappy serials we have seen before.
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Posted: 15 years ago
Devika/Why3
Yes totally agree with you with your analysis..
Hope they will bring that initial Radh back who did everything and suffered everything to keep her patni Dharma..
Yes Why3 i do agree that she was exposed to Vikram and police she needs to tell that to her husband.. She gave him vachan that she will tell him when the time is ripe but that was not enough..
I am not sure where the DJs are going with this... concealing yet another thing from Dev..
I am hoping against hope that after the marriage this was the third time Dev was not pleased with her actions.. Hope Radh keeps that in her head and not displeased her husband anymore..
Do not know what Vish is up to.. and what kind of more manipulation Amma can bring.. but hope that Dev and Radh stays together and nothing comes in between them..
But looking back,,, All the time some one try to come between them their bond became stronger and this time it would be more stronger. And specially I do not want Radh to put herself in any precarious position like yesterday and that what Dev told her she will keep that in her heart and respects her husband in her deeds.
I hope that this ends here and now she is on her way to PB.. that she will be the perfect CB and perfect Rajpurohitine and be the strength of Dev as Dadima said..
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Posted: 15 years ago
Hi Eva,
Enjoyed reading your ananlysis of the episode and your take on Radhs behaviour today.
Sometime back I had asked you about Vish's contribution in Radhs life, you had come up with the explanation beautifully then. Your ananlysis of amma's aim to damage Radhika is more than her love for Vish was proved once again today. I was thinking the fire accident could have been avoided if Vish had expressed her love interest before. But you were spot on, when you explained that amma was intent on spoiling Radhs life and nothing else.
Hats of to your deep perspective and analysis. Thanks once again.
Radha
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Posted: 15 years ago
Hey Radha,
Yes I remember that. few days back I was going through my documents and I saw Radha.. I thought this must be something I wrote about Radhika but it was the question to your answer.. :)
Glad that you like the reviews.. Yea amma's main goal is to destroy Radhika's life but the more she tries the more she is defeated.. She has deprived Radhik of everything all her life but to her utter disgust and dismay she got the best of everything in her life.. A gorgeous well educated and wealthy husband. A well repected sasural and the best position as a Rajpurohitine..
What could infurated her more that her real poti got the sin in her life and a bad reputation but the one she hated got the cream of the life and best position as Rajpurohitine.. All her scheming did not work against Radh..
Still she is scheming and plotting but what ever she does is going to backfire on her.. Lets see how DJs deal with all these on Monday..
But I do think that as Radhika's status has changed from simple, orphan, dejected Vrindavan girl to respected Mrs Dev Raj Purohit a Bahu of the respected family and a true Rajpurohitine.. She should behave as such and learn to be more dignified and well suited Rajpurohitine and always protect her husband's honor and name.. Her top most priority should be her husband and his honor..
Edited by evasumi - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
All of us are looking forward to a change in Rads character. It will take awhile. We are willing to give her the time to grow, but in the bargain she must not act ina way that the damage is well and truly done. Hope she wakes up fast. Dev has already given a piece of his mind, the other person whom Radhika will adhere to, will be Dadima. At the end of it we do not want any danger to Radev relationship.
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Yes Radha, so truly said.. At the end of the day we want RadhDev to be united.... As Dev and Radh promised to day that nothing will come in between them.. Once Radh is at PB under the care of Dadima.. it wil be great for to groom and grow under awesome Dadima who knows Dev much more than his mom.. and Dadima also loves both them dearly.. Yes that will be the best school Radh can get..
Let's hope for the best..
Edited by evasumi - 15 years ago

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