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Posted: 16 years ago
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Usually boys are shying away from getting married or commiting to the relationship especially young boys like abhi. and girls are after them to get married and settle down. Just like Nitu after vicky.
Simi is 30 years old and should be thinking about getting married and begging abhi to do so as her biological clock is ticking she should be considering to have a family.
But it is shown totally oppositel here where a 22 year old boy runs after a 30 year old woman and he is out of depesparation wants to get married to a much older woman, How odd, illogical and undigestable.I stress the word marriage here..
Abhi is rich handsome kind loving person any girl will love to have him as a life partner and so his family is right why is he shown wasting his time going after much older middle class woman who does not give him a time of a day,
Creatives plz give us a break and give abhi some dignity and simi some sense. This is not working at all. what ever you are feeding us or throwing at us is all nonsense.
You better straighten out your story. You can drag we don't care. But at least show Simi in right light caring as much or more than abhi does,
Plz don't insult a word love showing simi using him and showing abhi like a 2 bit paltu of simi who wags his tail running around simi. It is just too absurd and disgusting😡😡👎🏼
. Give a guy some dignity,, self respect love, care and affection he truly deserves.😲
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I say that it has begun Simi just begun to show his side selfish and disgusting, I bet it will mean to push for Abhi forgot to ask her hand on one side but it is not so stupid he will understand that Anita is behind it, it has beautiful prove his love in Simi him promise that he will always be there for her but not with the emotional blackmail of her mother always happens to make him doubt it will be really
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

Usually boys are shying away from getting married or commiting to the relationship especially young boys like abhi. and girls are after them to get married and settle down. Just like Nitu after vicky.

Simi is 30 years old and should be thinking about getting married and begging abhi to do so as her biological clock is ticking she should be considering to have a family.
But it is shown totally oppositel here where a 22 year old boy runs after a 30 year old woman and he is out of depesparation wants to get married to a much older woman, How odd, illogical and undigestable.
Abhi is rich handsome kind loving person any girl will love to have him as a life partner and so his family is right why is he shown wasting his time going after much older middle class woman who does not give him a time of a day,
Creatives plz give us a break and give abhi some dignity and simi some sense. This is not working at all. what ever you are feeding us or throwing at us is all nonsense.
You better straighten out your story. You can drag we don't care. But at least show Simi in right light caring as much or more than abhi does,
Plz don't insult a word love showing simi using him and showing abhi like a 2 bit paltu of simi who wags his tail running around simi. It is justing absurd and disgusting😡😡👎🏼
. Give a guy some dignity,, self respect love, care and affection he truly deserves.😲

Ramas, I have no problem with a story that wants to show an age gap, but give me some reason as a viewer as to why the 22 year old son of a corepatti would like to marry a 30 year old woman who has been rejected multiple times. We are all asking the same thing when we watch the show. Here is a guy with a heart of gold who is doing so much for her. He can get many beautiful women. What is so appealing in Simi that he wants to stay with her. In the beginning I really liked Simi's character, she was so insecure of her looks and herself, but now I feel the writers have really forgotten what made Simi so endearing to us and given us a completely different heroine. If they continue to show Abhi anymore like a 2 bit paltu as you right, I just don't think I can stomach this show.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

Ramas, I have no problem with a story that wants to show an age gap, but give me some reason as a viewer as to why the 22 year old son of a corepatti would like to marry a 30 year old woman who has been rejected multiple times. We are all asking the same thing when we watch the show. Here is a guy with a heart of gold who is doing so much for her. He can get many beautiful women. What is so appealing in Simi that he wants to stay with her. In the beginning I really liked Simi's character, she was so insecure of her looks and herself, but now I feel the writers have really forgotten what made Simi so endearing to us and given us a completely different heroine. If they continue to show Abhi anymore like a 2 bit paltu as you right, I just don't think I can stomach this show.

Laila I don't have any problem with abhi simi's marraige. It is the way it is shown in serial that Ms. live for her family always dragging abhi into her problems. She is always irritated and crying around him. When some one is in love she is smiling seeing her love. A girl in simi's situation will be delighted when she is being proposed. But what she does she cries out of sadness and accepts as she is being forced.😲.
Has she ever shown happy when abhi is around her afte abhi said I love you to her?. May be once or twice.
Why does she have to carry bags around her and make him sad always?
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Love is giving and taking. So why show simi always taking from abhi. and make poor guy run after him when ever she calls him to make him sad.?
Simi is really a baccha in this relationship who is always shedding tears. It is perfectly all right she can cry and share her problems with him. But then she also needs to share his happiness and show him happiness in return.
She cuts him off so many time abruptly.
I am just not buying this story tehy better change it .
Show simi older woman like and not some teen age throwing tantrums.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pattinson6

I say that it has begun Simi just begun to show his side selfish and disgusting, I bet it will mean to push for Abhi forgot to ask her hand on one side but it is not so stupid he will understand that Anita is behind it, it has beautiful prove his love in Simi him promise that he will always be there for her but not with the emotional blackmail of her mother always happens to make him doubt it will be really

i hope abhi understand he iw wasting his time and tell Simi point blank she is with him or not and he needs her attention as much as she needs him tali do hath se bajati hai. meaning you calp with 2 hands. i will love you but will not be around to take such attitude from you.
Edited by ramas - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Ramas, I totally agree. I just posted this on another thread as well: She calls him crying all the time and asks him to take her away from this house and her problems. And then the poor guy buys a ring and professes his love again and she has a bit of a blank look on her face. When he says "mere pyaar ka huk mat chheeno", my heart just melted. Poor guy.... all he wants to do is make her happy and take all her problems away. But nothing in her actions showed that she loves him and wants to be with him! And she didn't even tell him how beautiful the ring is and how did he get it and how much she appreciates him!

I wish that Simi could give Abhi the same happiness or attempt to give him some happiness the way he does for her all the time. Relationships can't be one-sided and poor Abhi is fighting for his love on his own.


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