Anuj's abandoing Sethis, who is respnonsible?

Anuj was dependent on his mom and sis and did what ever they asked him to.. Anuj now followswhat ever anita says agrees and does including stealing the money/ Who is repsosnisble for his behavior? Anita?

its always the easiest to Blame the mother... as I am sure she has always been strick with the girls as they have to go to another house but pampered the boys...

He lacks Confidence..... I personally do not see Anuj as a bAD SEED( I Know what really BAD seeds are!) but WHAT HE NEEDS IS A LITTLE PRAISE.....that would've boosted his confidence... Agreed ,he hasn't done anything really to get praised but don't the parents praise children just because parents want children to feel loved n feel proud of themselves>??

Originally posted by: sray76

its always the easiest to Blame the mother... as I am sure she has always been strick with the girls as they have to go to another house but pampered the boys...

but some boys are just like this... specially in an env where it is women dominated... they always look for mother, sister or wife to do things

and if the wife turns to be good everything works out but if she is bad then thats it it is a pain for the mother and the sisters....

but sometimes time heals and mother and sister have to let go and let him figure it out....

exactly that is my point. should anuj be raised just like his 3 sisters then sethis would not have this problem.

Originally posted by: iamindian

He lacks Confidence..... I personally do not see Anuj as a bAD SEED( I Know what really BAD seeds are!) but WHAT HE NEEDS IS A LITTLE PRAISE.....that would've boosted his confidence... Agreed ,he hasn't done anything really to get praised but don't the parents praise children just because parents want children to feel loved n feel proud of themselves>??

Actually I remember,During a wedding{Forgot the exact Episode} when Rajinder was worried where can he get money from,it was Anuj who had offered money!! Parents sometimes NEED TO BE LESS CRITICAL n MORE PRAISING all the little things that children do to get more POSITIVE THINGS FROM THEIR CHILDREN !😲 Instead Rajinder just looks for an opportunity to taunt Anuj n berate him!!😕

Even when Anuj went to help his Father with his Garment Shop,Rajinder was taunting Anuj.. Obviously that's not how a loving Father behaves!! You ridicule a child,you bring up a weak Frustrated character!! And if it can be said that RAJINDER WAS JUST JOKING... Oh Come'on..He doesn't JOKE WITH SIMMI calling her Fat?! So why Anuj??

And if Rajinder has been saying " ANUJ is NALAYAK" so why be sad now? He's LIVED UPTO RAJINDER's EXPECTATIONS....huh..??

There's problem in Anuj's upbringing.... he needed more love n support from his Father.... Father-Son bond is totally missing .... ManjuJi might be critical of her daughters(That's also not right!!) but when you Ridicule a Son,his confidence is shattered more I guess as there's obvious diffterence in the upbringing of Boys n Girls!! After all,Parenting is not an easy task at all!!

I do agree rjinder is not a perfect father and most critcal of anuj as he has lots ot expenctaions form him. and yes he did offer his dad money. But now he knows family is in dire need of money os insetad of helping he steals the last money they have left for emergency. That doe snot make him look god anyway. But he comes out like most selfish uncaring son and brother. Anuj is not a bad seed I agree. But he isn't good either.

Originally posted by: Pattinson6

Well we see that the girls had the full attention of their father while their mother was giving full attention to Arnuj as simple as that. 😕

Certainly the attitude is unforgivable Arnuj but RS is not blamed for that. They had a child but does not his character nor his feelings (I have not had the same education as you but for all the world) I saw people that we had a decent education to name and become a bad seed after then it was not to blame anyone except the person who committed the error in this case is Arnuj even though her father always humiliated or other he must not forget that his father he asked forgiveness and could say everything he has on the heart once and for all I am sorry but it can cons important that RS does not support

I get it girls get same treatment from manju like anuj got for RS. But girls reallyc are for their parents. But anuj is selfish and the reason he is because he has gotten everything and always pamered by manju despite him being wrong. So he hs not learned to think about others,

Anuj abandoning Sethis, it is Anuj who is responsible.
Anuj stealing fathers money, only Anuj is responsible.

Whatever others say, Anuj has his brains, he can think, so he is solely responsible for his actions.

I feel Anuj is respinsible for the present situation. But so many times parents who have to look after 4 kids do get a little astray .. Here children can give some help !! Anuj can alwas say dad I want ti talk ti you !! Who knows RS is annoyed with him since he decided to work i a bank instead of helping in his shop !! Even when he was taking care of the store he did'nt feel comfortable and he ( RS) wanted to close the store himself ..

There is a lot of mis communication between Anuj and RS.. Any parent would love to sit and talk to their children and father =son talk can be done in a very friendl way but it lacked in Anuj and RS and Anuj fibally wanted to listen to his wife and steal the money and go his way no even thinking abt the family