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Posted: 16 years ago
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WELL WRITTEN LATA~~~~👍🏼
Its interesting to read different views here........and iamindian though i too belong the old school of thoughts and also can understand where your posts are coming from......and yes its easier said than done.......but we need to move with time......personally though i would not dare to take such a step but have seen lots of celebrity weddings did well inspite of the age factor....Nargis-Sunil Dutt, Sachin-Anjali are a case in point here.........and also these serials the thrill aspect is what keeps us glued to it..........i surely would not want to see the same mundane things that we do in our daily life...cooking, swabbing, laundry etc.....we need to relieve our tensions and just relax while watching such shows.....
Yeah,I know Aishwarya is elder to Abhishek but only 2 yrs elder n you know what,Celebrities lives are totally different from normal people's life,let alone MIDDLE CLASS FAMILIES!Though Aishwarya Rai is 2 yrs elder to Abhishek,she's IS AISHWARYA RAI..... Would Abhishek's mother have agreed to this marriage if it was some Aam Ladki??I am not sure🤔 So,in that case Miss World getting married to Junior B makes more sense but here Here Simmi's way older than Abhi.... would Abhi's parents Be Happy to introduce a bride 8 yrs elder then Abhi to their relatives n Friends??😕 Wouldn't people ask that Abhi Did not get a Better match.?? CLEARLY... Abhi-Simmi DONOT look Good together like Aishwarya-Abhishek or Sachin Anjali..... Abhi's friend was Somewhat Right in Calling Simmi Anuj's Mom😆
may be due to HUGE age difference like Abhimanyu-Simran in Astitva Ek Prem Kahani..... there the parents were FAR SIGHTED enough to be disgusted by that EXTREMELY MISMATCHED MARRIAGE n IT DID NOT LAST actually,proving the parents were right!!
And If the BORING Factor has to be considered Would one choose a Boring-Normal-Peaceful life or a life full of everyday's thrills full of challenges that eventually leads to tension n fights if the mismatched couple cannot adjust??Why does a couple need THRILL anyways after they have children n after they have a settled mature life??Our Middle Class lifestyle is VERY DIFFERENT(It Called be called Boring- But I call it more Stabler) than Celebrity lives where people not only marry Much younger spouses but also Live together without getting Married..... that SOUNDS TO BE MUCH MORRRRRRRRRRRRE THRILLING But someone's life in not a News-Piece that It NEEDS TO HAVE THRILLER-MASALA in it!!😲
Creatives will show whatever is in their Script to make the show more Interesting BUT these Posts are about HOW PRACTICAL they are..... again I repeat,these types of relations Do Not Survive,no matter how THRILLING they appear in the beginning.... LIfe's Not about thrills,it's about stability.
Edited by iamindian - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: bee5

ramas,
You are right, Simi needs to fight her own battle and she cannot let down Abhi.
But look at her circumstances... Father is robbed of all this money, Sister is in a preg mess, Mother is day-in day-out worried about her marriage, brother is a jerk and so is his wife, she is in love with a guy where the society doesn't accept such a relation, Nakul is virtually standing at the door, What is the girl supposed to do?
Fight her own battle, but with whom? Her father? The society? How?

I really pity Simi. The other day I watching the feeding each other (Simbhi) scene on TV, she comes there to him with the food and she sees him with a smile on her face and then immediately she is reminded of Neetu's problem and the smile vanishes in thin air and gives way to a terrified and forceful smile.
Poor girl she can't even show her love to him! We all are sitting here complaining we don't get to see Abhi and Simi romance. Its not her fault. She wants to deal with all the problems. Slowly and steadily she wants to straighten out all the issue, but she is swamped with problems galore at a supersonic speed. How is she supposed to handle them all? I really feel bad for her.😭

its not Simi, I am getting cold feet thinking about all the issues...

simi is in worst situation I agree but what about abhi.Can;t see handle both. Abhi loves her more than anything and expect the love back from her. He provides her moral support and all he can. Simi under this circumstances has choice to say no to nakul rather than giving nakul and her on family false hope, It is so true in this situation. She can say since anuj has left she does not want to marry for now and take care of the family in his place. This is the perfect opportunity for her to refuse Naku's rishta. Why would you get cold feet. To tell u the truth some of us are in worst situation then simi yet think of our lpoved ones first and make sure tey don;t get hurt who tries to keep us happy and support her whenever we need them. Simi should not forget abhi loves her very much and how insecure he feels abotu her at the moment and giv ehim all the support he provides her..
Edited by ramas - 16 years ago

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