simi getting cold feet while abhi fights 2 fronts

Originally posted by: femmedivine

]i have a funny feeling that simi is going to do the whole sacrificial bit...she already feels that her relationship with abhi is inappropriate etc.. and might snub abhi in the process...nakul..i have a feeling is going to be the big wild card here..he is either gonna get these two together or add a whole lotta angst to the entire situation...which would then result in prolonged ekta kapoor type episodes[/FONT] 🤢
abhi is gutsy..earnest..and a bit naive..but what he is is sincere and earnest..how does he handle this is the to be or not to be of the moment..
simi is one who has never believed in herself..abhi is one who has never been short of self-belief ( brings back memories of lamhe..pallavi woh hai jisne tumse kabhi pyaar nahi kiya..aur pooja woh hai etc..)
that is the equation.. the unknown here is the nakul factor..lets c how the creatives handle this...[/B][/COLOR]

Originally posted by: iamindian

I am glad at last Simmi though of her relation to be Unsuitable with Abhi..... that was a PRACTICAL thought.... I was wondering how she,being an Eldest Daughter she can do something that the Society can point out to her parents as This type of relation is not accepted in indian Society.....WHAT WOULD MOST OF U HAD DONE IF ABHI WAS YOUR SON/BROTHER.. and you had dreams of getting a suitable bride for him..?? SORRY TO SAY BUT SIMMI is NOT A GOOD MATCH FOR ABHI..... She is a Good match For Nakul Singh...

sUch MISMATCHED marriages Do Not last... Astitva Ek prem kahani is a Very Practical story about such a couple.....it's good to consider ALL angles before getting married rather than being Swept away by Mills N boons romance{Which I' m surprised How can Simmi dream at this age since I was quite Practical n Matured at Simmi's age to think whatever was in best intrest of my future n my family and what would make my parents happy N my parents were right enough to look for a perfect match for me!! }.

ThThese types of MISMATCH marriages don't last.... ASTITVA eK prem Kahani is a very Practical story about this type of couple.....

Originally posted by: iamindian

I am glad at last Simmi though of her relation to be Unsuitable with Abhi..... that was a PRACTICAL thought.... I was wondering how she,being an Eldest Daughter she can do something that the Society can point out to her parents as This type of relation is not accepted in indian Society.....WHAT WOULD MOST OF U HAD DONE IF ABHI WAS YOUR SON/BROTHER..
Well I will help to have the woman he wants even if it is against society's love should not have any barrier
and you had dreams of getting a suitable bride for him..?? SORRY TO SAY BUT SIMMI is NOT A GOOD MATCH FOR ABHI..... She is a Good match For Nakul Singh...
Nakhul can I say can be more holy light for her age but would such happy? If I were the parents of Simi regardless of the failure before I think of her happiness nothing else that knows what is really Nakhul he might be right as he claims but said this should be wary Water sleeper (he may be violent it is too Orthodoxe for Simi she becomes a prisoner)

sUch MISMATCHED marriages Do Not last... Astitva Ek prem kahani is a Very Practical story about such a couple.....it's good to consider ALL angles before getting married rather than being Swept away by Mills N boons romance{Which I' m surprised How can Simmi dream at this age since I was quite Practical n Matured at Simmi's age to think whatever was in best intrest of my future n my family and what would make my parents happy N my parents were right enough to look for a perfect match for me!! }.

Originally posted by: lotus1963

You sound very practical. But I don't agree with your statement about Simi being a good match for Nakul Singh. It will be such a boring and mundane relationship.

I believe that one should look for more than just compromises in one's life and according to me this does not automatically imply that one is being selfish. I believe that it is high time we broadened our visions and gave people a chance to be happy without passing value judgments. Simi feels good in Abhi's presence. He makes her feel good. He feels good in her presence. Nakul does nothing to Simi and feels nothing for her. I believe that parents should be happy in the happiness of their children. And what has age got to do with all this at the end of the day?? If simi and abhi are on the same wavelength it should be fine no?

They are lucky to be in love and lucky to be able to be truly themselves with each other without having to put up a front. I believe that minds should match and that age has absolutely nothing to do with it.

Yes Nakul will be right for her statuswise, age wise, but how boring her life would be. There are no vibes between them and she is already in love.

Originally posted by: Pattinson6

I totally agree with you, then congratulations you said exactly what I think

Originally posted by: bee5

ramas,
You are right, Simi needs to fight her own battle and she cannot let down Abhi.
But look at her circumstances... Father is robbed of all this money, Sister is in a preg mess, Mother is day-in day-out worried about her marriage, brother is a jerk and so is his wife, she is in love with a guy where the society doesn't accept such a relation, Nakul is virtually standing at the door, What is the girl supposed to do?
Fight her own battle, but with whom? Her father? The society? How?

I really pity Simi. The other day I watching the feeding each other (Simbhi) scene on TV, she comes there to him with the food and she sees him with a smile on her face and then immediately she is reminded of Neetu's problem and the smile vanishes in thin air and gives way to a terrified and forceful smile.
Poor girl she can't even show her love to him! We all are sitting here complaining we don't get to see Abhi and Simi romance. Its not her fault. She wants to deal with all the problems. Slowly and steadily she wants to straighten out all the issue, but she is swamped with problems galore at a supersonic speed. How is she supposed to handle them all? I really feel bad for her.😭

its not Simi, I am getting cold feet thinking about all the issues...