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Posted: 15 years ago
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Although i certainly dont approve of how he behaved, and do think it was a bit irrational and also childish -- I also think that Abhi's behavior was completely a normal reaction. The fact is he loves Simmi, and for the first time, after acknowledging, he's seeing the reality of the situation, their age, society's pressures etc. His behavior was actually his way of asking her to deny the truth and say that -- no it doesnt matter -- I love you. Thats all he wanted, I think. Some reassurance that what they're feeling is JUST as valid as al the arguments supporting Nakul and her parents.... A case of hurting the people we love the most, because we dont know who else to strike out at... inexcusable, but human.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapaddict

Although i certainly dont approve of how he behaved, and do think it was a bit irrational and also childish -- I also think that Abhi's behavior was completely a normal reaction. The fact is he loves Simmi, and for the first time, after acknowledging, he's seeing the reality of the situation, their age, society's pressures etc. His behavior was actually his way of asking her to deny the truth and say that -- no it doesnt matter -- I love you. Thats all he wanted, I think. Some reassurance that what they're feeling is JUST as valid as al the arguments supporting Nakul and her parents.... A case of hurting the people we love the most, because we dont know who else to strike out at... inexcusable, but human.



Yes, exactly!
soapaddict, you exactly put in here what I wanted to say too.

Agreed, Abhi said something very mean to Simi but he is just acting like any other person in that situation and circumstances would act.
No, he is not doing it on purpose to push Simi to Nakul.
But he is definitely doing it on purpose to get some comfort from Simi. He is just "fishing" for comfort/reassurance from her by pushing her through his mean words.

He felt, Simi is not giving him or their problem enough attention, he doesn't yet know that it is not Nakul that is Simi's problem but it is Neetu.

He is just feeling insecure as Laila has been saying in her various posts, he is feeling that he is a weaker person in comparison to Nakul.

I strongly feel, its too early to say that writers have messed up Abhi's character. Simi just blurted out Neetu's name in the park. Looks like Abhi might have understood that he did hurt Simi and Simi is thinking about Neetu and not Nakul (he might have put the 2 scenes together, [Simi and Neetu discussing something serious in her room] ) and might have wanted to apologise to Simi and those 18miss calls. Now he is here in her house, need to see what he has to say...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: belledejour

Is Abhi being repulsive on purpose to push Simi towards Nakul?

because of his notions of apne pyar ki qurbani for her
becasue otherwise "they" really lost track of his character!
he shouldve gotten a slap in the face in the park.. but then when was Simi so gutsy!

No, he's become a pathetic moron. It's totally out of character, but Simi got what she deserved in the end.
He's smitten or as we say "whopped" by Simi, who frankly speaking is a 30 year old frumpy woman who has demonstrated nothing that would appeal to a 22 year old guy. Abhi's totally screwed up in the head. Yep, he wants to hurt her because he gives a damn that she, Simi, might not like him. As for Simi, does she like him? She's done nothing in the past two weeks to show that she gives a toss. She's more worried that people will see her with Abhi while someone is talking about her rishta. DING DING DING (bell ringing). She's more concerned about her frigging rishta with this guy. She herself actually gives him (Abhi) the idea that she is looking at this as a potential option. I mean why does she give a toss if this rishta was put at risk???
So Abhi hit back at her. No, he didn't deserve a slap, he deserved a swift kick up the rear for giving a damn about someone who really does not care for him in the same way.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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After watching last night's episode i feel that abhi is insecure because of nakul and the fact he is ( so called ) d perfect guy for simi .

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

No, he's become a pathetic moron. It's totally out of character, but Simi got what she deserved in the end.
He's smitten or as we say "whopped" by Simi, who frankly speaking is a 30 year old frumpy woman who has demonstrated nothing that would appeal to a 22 year old guy. Abhi's totally screwed up in the head. Yep, he wants to hurt her because he gives a damn that she, Simi, might not like him. As for Simi, does she like him? She's done nothing in the past two weeks to show that she gives a toss. She's more worried that people will see her with Abhi while someone is talking about her rishta. DING DING DING (bell ringing). She's more concerned about her frigging rishta with this guy. She herself actually gives him (Abhi) the idea that she is looking at this as a potential option. I mean why does she give a toss if this rishta was put at risk???
So Abhi hit back at her. No, he didn't deserve a slap, he deserved a swift kick up the rear for giving a damn about someone who really does not care for him in the same way.

I Agree.........i don't want to see Abhi as this pining lover who behaves like a Devdas and goes all out to woo a 30 yr old woman.......
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Abhi is doing what any other young guy would do... Simi doesn't realize what Abhi is feeling and how people are reacting towards his age, so he fired it back at Simi saying that she looks like a mom. I think he wants Simi to prove him wrong and behave like a normal 29/30 year old woman... Gosh she has to be more mature tan just crying it all out and leaving.. >< I know it hurts but Simi, Abhi is facing 1000x more pain than you are by the Rishta thing... It seems like Simi doesn't even care if she lose Abhi...Abhi is always the one saying "You're mine...I cannot lose you" ... Where is the crazily in love Simi ?? ... This really makes me feel bad/mad/sad =[
Oh one more thing!! They should really STAY AWAY from the Playground ... It brings bad luck to them! .. Ever noticed, they always end up having a fight in that location! Very unlucky place for them x3
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i know abhi behaved bad today..tht anuj ki mom waala joke was really terrible..bt ever thought frm where did tht come????there must be some reason behind it..and tht is the constant baccha baccha of simi...she always calls him baccha..and tells him to stop acting like one...today too when he was so sad & depressed bcoz of nakul..she again brought the bachpana topic in front of him which made him more depressed as he felt tht Nakul is more matured or he is more suitable for her and even simi thinks tht nakul is more sensible and matured...it hurt him badly..and thts the reason i suppose he used those bitter words to show simi how much it hurts if someones constantly reminds u of the age sespecially when they r in such a relationship where there r going to be probs in the future bcoz of this age factor..and now when abhi is in such a sensitive phase making him feel the age gap definitely hits him badly...thought thts nt the intention of simi...

bt whtever reason i mentioned above doesnt give abhi a right to hurt simi so badly...and i knw he will soon realise tht & apologize... 😊
Edited by Tas - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: .-Wish-.

<FONT color=#ff33cc>Abhi is doing what any other young guy would do... Simi doesn't realize what Abhi is feeling and how people are reacting towards his age, so he fired it back at Simi saying that she looks like a mom. I think he wants Simi to prove him wrong and behave like a normal 29/30 year old woman... Gosh she has to be more mature tan just crying it all out and leaving.. >< I know it hurts but Simi, Abhi is facing 1000x more pain than you are by the Rishta thing... It seems like Simi doesn't even care if she lose Abhi...Abhi is always the one saying "You're mine...I cannot lose you" ... Where is the crazily in love Simi ?? ... This really makes me feel bad/mad/sad =[</FONT>

<FONT color=#ff33cc>Oh one more thing!! They should really STAY AWAY from the Playground ... It brings bad luck to them! .. Ever noticed, they always end up having a fight in that location! Very unlucky place for them x3</FONT>


totally agree with u..simi shld understand how abhi is feeling right now bcoz of the way she is behaving with him abt the age factor..even if she is joking it hurts him..and she shld understand tht coz age is a sensitive factor in their relationship especially now when NAKUL the gr8 has come.. 😭
i hope simi gets rid of this neetu tension soon ansd starts concentrating on abhi..

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