why did guruji asked simi to marry before anuj? - Page 3

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Posted: 15 years ago
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in normal circumstancesin our society the eldest of the family gets married first then the 2nd one and in that order.......maybe due to that Guruji made that statement or maybe saw some hindrance in Anita's married life..........and also noticed how Manjuji looks at Simia nd sheds tears during the wedding as any Mother would want her eldest daughter to get married before her younger son...but in this case the son is so blind and selfish that he did not bother about others........offcourse when Abhi was not in the picture..that is for us the audience everything seemed to be ok...but now with Abhi's entry we don't mind Simi remaining single as long as Abhi and she get married .......maybe the story will also unfold that way...as neetu will also get married before simi....

coming to Guruji....now that hesether playing cupid i don't mind what he says as long as he helps in bringing simi and abhi together
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey i dnt knw if i am right or wrong..bt untill now i believed guruji had said tht anita and anuj shld get married within some days..i think a week or so..dnt remember exactly..and simi's dad thought tht it was foolish to do it so early jst bcoz some guruji said it..and basically he was more angry coz simi was elder..so he wanted her to get married first...and simi's marriage date was scheduled for later....so if anuj had to get married within a week simi's marriage wld have to be preponed..thts y rajendra sethi was angry..bt simi agreed to get married first..
so i dnt think guruji had layed any condition tht simi shld get married..he had laid condition for anuj and anita's date for marriage..
i thought so..bt i dnt knw if i am right...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yes I agree that the eldest of the family must marry first but if Simi Manjuji how could accept that her daughter spends her life with RB knowing what he does. Whatever I'd be glad to cancel my marriage married no matter what people say I just noticed in the Sethi family there quite a selfish person in some sense a family we are supposed to support each other no matter what people think of us.
I will explain my views on the selfish individual:
Manjuji: She wants all her daughters married (basically she wants to get rid of them) No matter what it costs it is more concerned with is that people think that the feelings of his children (Like That his children?) I am not a mother worthy to name No matter what people think think will not let his daughter marry a man like RB knowing that his daughter will never be happy.
Arnuj: The only son among 4 girls is not hard he wanted to take his father's shop and work in a bank why? (It was already going out with Anita he knows it will not help him he needs a lot of money by what Anita is from a wealthy family) he pushed his sister was married in the guilt-ridden and spent his own needs before everyone.
Neetu: I would say that it is really selfish in what I've never really seen interest in his family in a sense she is in her bubble she lives for her.
Simi: It is not selfish self is sacrificed from the desires of all the world before his own but soon decide to listen to his heart I would not in all instead of making it ra the currency of their room all.
Mili: Not at all selfish she helps all the world as far as possible and I love her character she will be a real problem for Anita and will create a gap between it and Arnuj.
RS: What about the father he is the man as straight as I saw no matter what happens he saved his daughter by a vile man I am proud to say anything.

To come to my conclusion only three people in the family is not selfish.
To return to the point of Guruji yes Simi had married by the first is the eldest but meanwhile is Abhi entered the game and he begins to have feelings for her why he always appeared at Simi had to go do something ( See RB to say that the wife and the car's Abhi said something that gave courage to tell the truth Father, for the appointment you saw the paper and give it to Simi Such Abhi were ready
at all to stop the marriage, on the roof he saw that he was really losing Simi and he said something that still give the courage to see his father's party.)

The Guruji KNEW that Abhi and Simi should finish among all if there were not all obstacles would they bring? I see no scenario in which Simi and Abhi is found and closer without its problems.
Again this is my long view.

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