Same thing happening in Bangladesh.
Once upon a time women had little rights, and often in such cases they almost always lost.
In order to rectify their past failure to safeguard the rights of women, the government introduced legislations that dealt harshly with perpertrators of crimes against women. Especially in a marital setting.
But in their zeal to right the wrongs they have now shifted the balance of power in favour of the women in such a way that ultimately families, in-laws husbands have lost all standing.
Whilst the need to have such legislations and laws still exists, it has enabled the less scrupulous in society to use this law to create misunderstandings between family members for their own greed.
In-laws and husbands have been falsely accused of abusing their DIL's and wives and in some cases falsely imrisoned too.
Most of the time, the women don't even report a 'complaint'. It is enough to threaten to do so, and husbands and in-laws have no choice but to bend over backwards and accomodate their demands.
I have such a dilemma in my extended family. A wife who effectively taunts ans abuses her in-laws, but the husband is powerless to do anything as she makes hints and suggestions of what could happen if she reported them (lies about them! 😡)
Women like Goldie, and there are plenty of them in real life, do a great disservice to those who are genuinely abused and tortured.
Edited by Rakhie_08 - 16 years ago