Rakhi - what to do with her!!!!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Just watching Nov 17 episode. Why is Rakhi trying to make Elesh also turn against Sakshi? Just beacuse she can't stand the girl?
Agreed that Sakshi is not anything great and needs to be taught a lesson especially her way of arguing and talking back about everything but then unlike the younger kids she has heard lots about Rakhi Sawant and so does not expect Rakhi to teach her lessons on bharatiya sanskriti and what you should tell parents especially after Rakhi on national TV calls herself an orphan when her mother definiotely is alive and has openly lived with her boyfriend. i think Sakshi expected her to be a more chilled out person.
And i don't think she was propositioning Elesh to be her BF or anything but saying that like you I also want to experience having atleast one BF. In her insecurity, I admit like a normal woman Rakhi is dissecting every single line and tone and word and giving her own interpretation to it. Please Rakhi. Somewhere I do like Rakhi as she is so much like a typical normal woamn in her feelings and emotions but she is just so wrapped within herself when anything seems to go wrong.
I know.. i am rambling.. Like I said I am so confused with her. It is not that I dont like her or that I am a big fan of hers. But she brings up a protective feeling as well as irritated feeling at the same time in me. What do you all think?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree with u she made elesh feel like it was his fault because he didnt understand her how the hell would he?he probably found it normal when Sakshi said 'wtf?' because some people abroad do use it like casually and perhaps some indian teens in the major cities try to be like them thinking its cool etc.......its only until Rakhi's eyeballs popped out of her sockets that Elesh said dont use that type of language......and im sick and tired of Rakhi thinking just because our parents have moved abroad and we are raised in countries like America and England we are different ....its not that our parents dont teach us about indian culture etc...we do know and learn...we're not any different to u so dont be soo insecure...

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Posted: 16 years ago
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uff I hate this girl sakshi really... 1)She has no Manners
2)No respect
3)itni batameez (I want to enjoy in front of parents)
4)she is the reason why rakhi is upset with elesh
5) she herself can't do anything (cooking,household) and blames rakhi why she didn't came to adventure sports..
6)I can't wait to see the real parents of this girl,If i would be her mom/dad I would be soo ashamed.
WHy is rakhi upset with elesh???I know the reason is sakshi but elesh didn't say anything to her...I think the reason was that he went to adventure sports but rakhi herself told her this....
I really like rakhi now...she is performing so well her role of a mother and she can argument very good....I don't know if she is acting but the way she handles difficult situations really impresses me....The director of this shows know that she can handle such teenager thats why he gave rakhi and elesh the task of party...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree and I feel we carry more culture with us thatn Rakhi atleast...... My father is a retired legal professional in the US, I come from a very professional family in the US, but there was a rule in the house, we step inside the house we speak punjabi..... both my parents are professionals... i am a doctor myself, my sister is a doctor, brother going to law school, we are brought up in the US, but between us (even between bro-sis) we speak Punjabi, i can cook all indian dishes, I was more interested in marrying a professional guy from India which I did, I go to gurdwara, me, my sis do gidha and bhagra, involved in all community activities, wear indian clothes when we go out to parties and all.......
how can rakhi just ASSUME that kids brought up in the US are rotten and not like indian kids...... what is she talking about..... My now husband (then BF) was in Indian army and was posted in Mumbai for few months. So I went from the US to visit him there as I always wanted to go to Mumbai..... we went out for a drive in the evening and it was about 11 PM, he was going back to the hotel to drop me off, I saw all these INDIAN girls in shortest clothes ever, each one of them had a cigarette and a beer in their hands, standing outside a club, everyone was with a guy (could be a genuine relationship).... all of them seemed to be spoiled brats, coming out of mercedes or Hondas (Honda Accord is an expensive car in india)...... and my husband (now) told me that these kids dont return home till like 4 or 5AM, then they sleep till 3 or 4 in the afternoon and then get ready and leave home for next night.....
my bhabi is a doctor in patiala and she tells us all the time how these young girls come to her for abortions, or IUD insertions (one way of contraception) to avoid pregnancy and when questioned they reveal that they are into the flesh selling business, they fly out to big cities in the mornings and come back in the evening flights, they have relations with all these businessmen who pay them 10-15 thousands per night and their flight etc is paid off......and their parents are not aware of all this.............
Above, I surely see a difference in Indian and american raised kids......
If just having an interracial marriage or relationship is considered a bad up-bringing then we here abroad rather be considered bad then being what is considered good in some parts of India these days.......
I am just shocked that Rakhi who should be the last person to brag about culture and sanskars is always trying to put Elesh down because he is an Indian raised outside India....... but its Rakhi again....so there is no purpose of getting angry for what she says.... she is brainless anyways..........
Edited by JattiTude - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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After watching today's episode, I am so disappointed and upset with Rakhi....Honestly, I was never a fan of Rakhi, ever since Nach Baliye days, her walk out and nautakanki was too much for me to handle....But After I started watching PPAW, I thought she did exceeding well on jobs...She did all the tasks given to her with perfect dedication and sincerity....So Eventually, my opinion about her changed....But Today what she did with Elesh is not acceptable.

I understand that Rakhi is upset with Sakshi and I agree completely that Sakshi is a total brat, even the usage of "WTF" was totally inappropriate esp in front of her "onscreen parents" , but this doesn't justify Rakhi dumping Elesh and especially on the grounds of him being from a different culture.

I live in the US with my husband and I celebrate every single festival with great efforts. I cook for him everyday and don't give him stale or frozen food!!!! So all this big deal about Elesh being from a different culture is crazy. And after watching the show, I can say that she insisted on sending Elesh, so she can stay alone and then she blames him for leaving her alone!!!????!!!

I will not comment about Rakhi's past or her culture...she is what she is, but she should refrain from making Elesh look like the bad person....She almost makes it sound like Elesh is bad and has no idea about respecting his wife/beau as he is from Canada!

Elesh was very true and whole heartedly committed to Rakhi, she was very lucky to have someone like him, knowing "Rakhi's item girl" past, he was still interested in being with her, How many man are that broad-minded today??? Also, Most men who want to be with her are the ones who are there for her money, But Elesh was very genuine and I feel bad for Elesh but I feel worse for Rakhi as she is totally killing her beautiful future with Elesh with her own hands....

If she is not happy with him, she is free to leave him, but she should stop making him sound like the "bad guy" just because he is from a different culture or background..She should be mature and responsible enough to own up some of the break-up....It is almost like she wants her image to be as good as before, so she is targeting Elesh, based on his background to justify her decision to leave him.....I am really sad for Elesh....Poor Guy, He is so nice and simple!!! Still can't forget the way he took care of Siya and the way he got her from Juhi's house when Madam was busy yelling at the producers!


Edited by svesum - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Actually I am loving this whole teen stage. The adults that I know, who are originally from India or still live in India, always go on and on about how Indian children (from India) are so well mannered and nice and respectful and blah blah blah, and how us NRI children are spoilt and have no culture and that we are stupid and so forth. Well HAH, and another HAH, HERE ARE YOUR SO CALLED INDIAN KIDS. We NRIs are so much more better and respectful then them. I can not tell you guys the joy I felt when I saw this on TV with my family, I seriously went "Oh so this is how Indian kids behave. Ok so I should be like them. Got it will do." I wish I could show you the look on their faces, they were speechless.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Rakhi is not very well educated,her world view stems frm whatever she see on tv and fils.
And Lets be honest NRIs are stereotyped in most of our movies.
she also might feel that she may not be able to pull her weight in this relationship.Elesh is much more educated ,is classy and is almost from another world.I don't think he is with Rakhi because he genuinely adores her or loves her though he seems to be trying and she knows that.
well its upto her who she wants to be with...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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What these teenagers are doing is not the indian culture they are following the west, they want total liberty,which if given to them they take it for granted.
When parents or anyone refers to ppl in US they don't mean the indians living there, they mean the pure Americans,whose culture we are trying to follow.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I totally aggree with and am proud of JattiTude
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree with all you of, rakhi really made my angry. I was starting to get some respect for her but now alli gotta is that she is a hypocrite!

swanyvar- i want a guys that open
today- elesh is open and i want a traditional guy

she should jsut tell elesh publicity stunt is over and lets break up. why disrepect him. i think we all can see the truth, remeber druing hte pooja, elesh knew all the words

rakhi knew nothing

elesh>>>>>rakhi

elesh is brought up very well, you can tell and i am disgusted that rakhi is doing this.

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