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Posted: 15 years ago
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Dear Friends,

I think i am the only one whose ideas differ from others at the moment regarding Armaan. I do not blame Armaan. I totally understand his feelings and understand why he is being so dumb.
You see Armaan actually is dumb struck at the moment with such a big shock. Please put yourself into Armaans shoes and then analyze the situation. You see it's a drama that is why we are saying why isnt he trusting bharti etc b/c we are used to of watching such coincidences that two people have same face or they die at one point in time but return with a good justification. But you see in normal life if a person is getting married to a woman and his own brother comes and says that this women is his wife and shows all the paper proof then what will he do. Also there are so many other people in his family who say that this women is their daughter-n-law, so you see so many witnesses. Also dont forget what Bharti has been doing in the past, meddling with Gundas-Vasuli due to match fixing (although not her fault) but still his daughter got caught up due to all this. In our society, women involved in all such matters are not considered to be respectable. Then the contract issue where everybody thought that Bharti has spent a night with that man (dont remember his name) but still Armaan believed her. Then she insulted payal in front of all but managed to soothe Armaan. Then at first she said she is Bhaskar's cousin, then his wife, then Armaan gets to know she is not his wife too and in the end she says she is Bhaskar. C'mon guys try to be sensible, it is just a drama thats why we are sdiing with Bharti but in real life if all this happens to you then everybody will blame you for trusting such a women.
So you see when so much has already been done in past then a man does get shaky if he is shown so many proofs. Also you see no one knows her for more than 5 months and that is exactly the same time period when Ok's wife disappeared. And in this case unlike others not only the face is same but the name is also the same. Any sensible person will suspect bharti in such a scenario and will get dumbstruck. Also it is very heart breaking to know that the girl whom you love is your Bhabhi. I mean bhabhi is a very respectable relation.
Armaan is not saying anything against the injustice being done to Bharti b/c at the moment he himself is under shock and watching all the tamasha. But soon he will stand up against all this. He is a very nice guy in person and will never stand all this nonsense.
And there is no point in saying that Armaan gave over Bharti to Ok b/c whether he told Ok or not, Ok would have found her. How long could she stay at Armaan's house or hide somewhere else. And Ok has all the legal papers to take her with him. At the moment he had all the right to take his wife forcefully with him and to stop her marriage b/c a women can not marry a man if her husband is alive and if she has not taken divorce also. The only sensible thing that can be done is that Bharti applies for a divorce. She can say that she does not love her husband or is mistreated and want a divorce.
So in my view Armaan should not be blamed. Although I think Payal should be blamed a little. She knows the whole story from top to bottom. Why didnt she speak up at that time and why isnt she telling the truth to Bhaskar's family now. She can tell his mom that do you remember Bharti told u such a story b4 also but you fainted so she covered it up etc But still you see the truth is so hilarious that nobody will believe. Also it is more difficult to convince them as they had seen bharti with Bhaskar (KK), they will say if she is Bhaskar then who was that person........so in my view dont be so hard with Armaan.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sorry eleniel83, I don't agree with you. The reason Armaan loves Bharti is because she is very different then a normal girl. I would have expected him taking Bharti aside and clarify the OK's marriage issue. We all know those documents could be fake too…or it may be two people with similar faces. There are many ways to find if this is OK's Bharti or not……So instead of clarifying the situation, he wanted Bharti to marry OK. He knows Bharti loves him and Bharti trusts him a lot. He knows his family members are "junglees" and would made her life hell.

I would blame Armaan for not standing up for his love and being dumb so easily without finding the real reason. Look at OK, he is everything possible to get his wife back, even though his way of doing his completely wrong.

Payal, yes she should get a big slap too. She did nothing to save Bharti.

Bharti shoudl not marry Armaan in future.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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For the nth time, it's not about what crap was going on in Armaan's head, it's about the fact that he let injustice happen infront of his eyes! Omkar physically forced Bharti into that marriage, any person should stop such an atrocious act from unfolding before their eyes.

Armaan is shaken, puzzled, confused, horrified etc etc etc. I understand that. What I don't understand is why he believed his mentally deranged brother after all these years, when he himself admitted that his family doesn't exist for him. Even if there is legal proof of the fact that Bharti is Omkar's wife, not even the law can force a woman to live with her husband if she doesn't want to. Alot of couples live seperately for a long time, and get divorce when they're ready.
Basically what I infer from his reaction is that he'd doubt Bharti everytime a lunatic comes and shoves a legal paper into his face and say, 'Hey that woman is my long lost wife, she's gotta come and stay with my crazy family for the rest of the eternity'.
And dang! Armaan is all shattered and broken, and he doesn't even listen to Bharti's side of story before mentally convincing himself that she is his brother's wife. He has been a silent observer throughout this whole tamasha. It only proves that his love for Bharti is not unconditional, it is always open to external forces that can come and stagger it's strength.
Let's face it - Bharti is not an easy person to love. People love giving flak to a person like her. She has her flaws, and I assume Armaan knew this before he apparently 'fell in love' with her. She almost gave in to his love, but what did he do ? Abandoned her when she needed him the most. Why should she love Armaan ? Why should she trust him ? Why should she believe in him ?
I'm sorry to say, but Armaan's reaction was not justified at all. I don't respect his character anymore, unless he gets a spine and redeems himself.
*Edit: I forgot to mention, you make it sound as if Bharti is an 'unrespectable' woman. Fine, she's been in major shit in the past. Fine, she's been blamed of all sorts of stupid things, but how is that her fault? Like I mentioned, Bharti is not an easy person to love, and when you knowingly accept her, then you accept her with all her shit, problems, flaws and mistakes. He shouldn't have offered 'love' in the first place if he had to abandon her halfway through.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Dear Neetz,

I really liked your views. You are right when somebody loves someone then they should love him/her with all the flaws etc. I think you misunderstood me, I didnt said that Bharti was an not a respectable women, I said that in our society if somebody is found involved in such issues then people suspect them, and it doubles if it is a women. And I also made the same point that Bharti can take police's help and tell them that she does not want to live with her husband or her husband mistreats her. Well I think we should stop discussing it anymore as it is just a drama and we should wait and watch what will happen in the serial.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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im not really getting ur point yaar.. but in some points i agree.... but... i also agree wht neetz n other girls as well.. love karo TO POORA KARO!! beinteha karo!!!! he shuld stand beside her all the time.. dukh sukh wht so ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this was not right wht he did... but at the other side... also wht can he do?? mafia brother! but still HE COULD jsut do sumthin!! ab chahe maar hi kyun na parti! he coudltn just stand ther man!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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iam not blamming him iam sad for him poor Ammy
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: eleniel83

Dear Neetz,

I really liked your views. You are right when somebody loves someone then they should love him/her with all the flaws etc. I think you misunderstood me, I didnt said that Bharti was an not a respectable women, I said that in our society if somebody is found involved in such issues then people suspect them, and it doubles if it is a women.

Yeah, that's very true. But that should not hold true for Armaan, because he's not just 'one of them', he's the man who claims to love Bharti, knowing that she's different.
Edited by -Neetz- - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Actually, we blame the Creative heads of the show 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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VERY TRUE :)

Originally posted by: sweetytweetypoo

<font size="3">[B]Actually, we blame the Creative heads of the show [LOL]<br>[/B]</font>

Edited by eleniel83 - 15 years ago

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