As to asking elesh his bank balance, I too feel she need not have washed all their dirty linen in public like that but frankly I feel the only reason that guy appeared on the swayamvar (for that matter all the guys who appeared on that show) were there for publicity. I doubt Elesh was ever serious about marrying Rakhi or for that matter Rakhi serious about marrying Elesh. Someone had mentioned that Elesh was in financial troubles back in Toronto in the swayamvar thread. dont know how far it is true but if it is, I guess the guy could have wanted to piggy back ride on her popularity/notoriety. Anyway I am sure both got their fair share of publicity -making up in a show and breaking up in another. How more popular can you get? So to me there seems no victim here.