Sisterly Love? - Page 3

Look I've been frantically trying to support Gunjan and her actions because I'm very fond of SG...but now its to the point that its RIDICULOUS.

This girl is incapable of thinking of anything besides SAMRAT.

Unless it gets her in trouble....in which case, she won't even stand up for Samrat.

No explain the logic behind that... please.

Originally posted by: Mosammad

Look I've been frantically trying to support Gunjan and her actions because I'm very fond of SG...but now its to the point that its RIDICULOUS.<br><br>This girl is incapable of thinking of anything besides SAMRAT.<br><br>Unless it gets her in trouble....in which case, she won't even stand up for Samrat.<br><br>No explain the logic behind that... please.<br>

😆 ok picture this..U are guilty..or rather think you were caught with a guy...by someone from yer family...which is deemed ultra inappropriate...by yer family..which ofcourse is rather natural...I dont see how you would stand up for the other person if U are INVOLVED in it...more than bui rite now gunjan is guilty of thinking that because of her her father had to hear all this..and is ready to do anything to redeem her dad of the embarassment..In thi scenario if she stood up for sam and fought with her Family..Then the same people would call her insensitive and self centered for valuing a guy's emotion more than her families...coz at the end of the day she knows that their concerns and insecurities are justified..irrespective of the tone..as with all guardians..my folks are rather irrational about some stuff from my POV...but I dont STAND UP for my rights...coz there's a sound reason for their objections...its called growing up... 😃 😃 😃

I wouldn't say that Gunjan doesnt care because from what I've understood about her character, she doesn't express her feelings...even when it's needed.

Originally posted by: sonali.19281

😆 ok picture this..U are guilty..or rather think you were caught with a guy...by someone from yer family...which is deemed ultra inappropriate...by yer family..which ofcourse is rather natural...I dont see how you would stand up for the other person if U are INVOLVED in it...more than bui rite now gunjan is guilty of thinking that because of her her father had to hear all this..and is ready to do anything to redeem her dad of the embarassment..In thi scenario if she stood up for sam and fought with her Family..Then the same people would call her insensitive and self centered for valuing a guy's emotion more than her families...coz at the end of the day she knows that their concerns and insecurities are justified..irrespective of the tone..as with all guardians..my folks are rather irrational about some stuff from my POV...but I dont STAND UP for my rights...coz there's a sound reason for their objections...its called growing up... 😃 😃 😃

And how to you plan on justifying the numerous times Gunjan completely FAILS to understand Nupur. Which is initially what this topic is about.

i get all your points and they are all great so i am still stuck on what side to choose! oh well, thxs for replying everybody and helping me out!

Originally posted by: Mosammad

And how to you plan on justifying the numerous times Gunjan completely FAILS to understand Nupur. Which is initially what this topic is about.

I agree with Sonali on this part ...

Musammad, not talking about other times - just the present -

1. Nupur told Gunjan that she (Nupur) was very happy because Mayank had also told her he loved her, so as far as Gunjan knows. Nupur's love life is smooth
2. Nupur told gang that Mayank and she have broken up but don't tell Gunjan this
3. Gunjan comes to know that not only does Bui know about Babloo being Mayank, but Mayank has left for Bombay suddenly

4. Gunjan asks Nupur - AGAIN - why didn't you tell me Mayank left and Nupur tells her - AGAIN - I was so happy about what Mayank told me that I forgot

5. Even if Gunjan finds it fishy that Nupur is so depressed in spite of Mayank and Nupur being together - well, Gunjan is in the same boat, isn't she? She and Samrat are together but he's being kicked out - and so there's a very valid reason (in Gunjan's mind) for Nupur being upset - that Bui found out about Mayank and that he left so suddenly. Gunjan has the same reason to be upset - I don't see Nupur running to console her that Sam's leaving after you guys just got together - you must be heart broken.

WE know that Nupur isn't doing that because she's shattered about Mayank - but Gunjan DOESN'T!!!!!
So how is Gunjan being any more "selfish" than Nupur at the present moment?!!!

NOTE - I AM NOT SAYING THAT NUPUR IS BEING SELFISH - NOT AT ALL!!!

K guys no reason to get angry i just wanted to know whether or not nupur was going with the gang to mumbai. Just relax everybody and take a deep breath!