Everything for a good husband....

Is a woman created only for her husband?

Originally posted by: MRS BANI WALIA

Is a woman created only for her husband?

In our society when a girl child is born we all say that she is actually an outsider.Her husband's home is her real home.If the child is black the elders in the family become sad because they think she will not get a good husband.But if she is fair then everybody thank god and have a sigh of releiif since they can find a good husband for her.

Mothers taught their girls to cook,pint,sew.Because all this things are key to get a goood husband.

Even whena girl gets high marks,people praise her and say she will get a good guy.

Is the life of a girl only for her husband.Why can't she study,cook,paint only for her bright future.Why everything in a girls life is related to her husband?

Originally posted by: Believe

^OH Mrs BANI WALIA .....are you a Freedom fighter?!😉 but u still using...(hope its ur) Husband name in ur id.....😃rlx...Yes I am.MRS BANI WALIA is the name of a famous television character.I will never marry.

back to topic:

I think its part of motherly qualities of a woman...One women teach another women these things...not by men.....then you blaming husband's for these attitudes!!?...wife is only a new edition of the mother........ Thy are expecting everything from the wife that they expected from the mother...😃basicaly unconditional love😊

I know lots of women who are free and doing their won bussiness,jobs and managing family life in this world....😊I think a fear-oriented husband/wife is always calculating, planning, arranging, safeguarding. His whole life is lost in this way....But in real life if husband is afraid of the wife, the wife is afraid of the husband. Lovers are always afraid. Then it is not love. Then it is just an arrangement of two fearful persons depending on each other,😊 fighting, exploiting, manipulating, controlling, dominating, possessing -- bt I believe it is not love.😊if real love is there nobody believe/think like that way....if you put lots of conditions in life...nobody can live n enjoy the life....😊.....I think when you say that the other is wrong, the other starts feeling that you are wrong. Relationship is destroyed on this rock, and then people become closed. If you say somebody is wrong, somebody starts protecting, safeguarding. Then closure happens😊

In married life...those who think like this plz just try to find out that.......... somewhere, something must be wrong in you, and drop that wrongness. It is going to be difficult because it is going to be against the ego. 😊

Nothing is wrong with me.I am just asking why everyone considers a woman to be an object of his husband.The girls also want to find their father's inside their husbands.

Originally posted by: MRS BANI WALIA

[?!😉...Yes I am.MRS BANI WALIA is the name of a famous television character.---sorry i dont know that its famous and i dont know that its tv character name....but i think its good id😛😉 I will never marry.---- gr8 keep it up....marriage is not importent in life.....😃its out of fashion...😊😉

Nothing is wrong with me.--lol ok....I am just asking why everyone considers a woman to be an object of his husband.--hello hello....rlx & read it again...am not talking about u plzz😊

The girls also want to find their father's inside their husbands.

Originally posted by: souro

Here comes another male bashing session.

Woman is made to please herself. Man is made to please himself. Marriage and family and procreation are merely side conveniences so that we may indulge in delusions of playing god and create life and continue our race.

Chill Mrs. Bani Walia. Wake up and smell the roses and stop being so harsh on men and women.

Originally posted by: souro

Here comes another male bashing session.

**Ahem, ahem.**

Time to start masculinism movement.😆

Originally posted by: MRS BANI WALIA

Is a woman created only for her husband?

In our society when a girl child is born we all say that she is actually an outsider.Her husband's home is her real home.If the child is black the elders in the family become sad because they think she will not get a good husband.But if she is fair then everybody thank god and have a sigh of releiif since they can find a good husband for her.

Mothers taught their girls to cook,pint,sew.Because all this things are key to get a goood husband.

Even whena girl gets high marks,people praise her and say she will get a good guy.

Is the life of a girl only for her husband.Why can't she study,cook,paint only for her bright future.Why everything in a girls life is related to her husband?

Ayesha

i don't mean to be rude when i say this but whats with all the negatively towards men and women?

coming to your point, times have changed now where girls can study and have more freedoms they are not held down by society any longer.

yes they should still learn all the things u mentioned but not neccessarily to get a husband but to learn life skills and be independant, the husband can come later and just so i'm not being biased i feel that guys should learn the things u mentioned above also because of the same reasons and when it comes to finding a life partner there will be a better understanding and the workload can be shared. Having said that there are some women that will happily be a housewife and look after kids and expect the husband only to be bread winner

just my pov 😊

hai ram meri mummy ne mujhe yeh sab baatie nahi batayi ...ki im created for my husband ☺️😍...let me ask her