Why The Fuss Over Intimate Scenes ?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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firstly i dont mean to offend anyone with this topic

but reading post after post criticizing the kisses shown between the lead couples of the show which haven't even gone down the way that the latest auditions done by Balaji required the newcomers to do as we all are aware just made me wanna put up this topic

if we look at the 2 scenes OK the zooming in on the lips made MayUr's shot look a bit sleazy had that not been done it would have came off just fine while in SaJan's shot rather than being sloppy somehow it seemed that Mohit was uncomfortable rather than Sanaya in the scene after all the way he tilted his head it all somehow looked eerie as if he' a vampire getting ready to suck his next victim' blood šŸ˜•

just look at the pic




OK but coming to the point why so much fuss over a kiss scene ? just cause it's on TV or because they showed it in MJHT out of the blue?

after all in the age of internet today clips even more controversial than these in the truest term of the word are available at the click of a button & even if we neglect these things shown on TV are already getting more & more explicit wherein even in an men' deo ad we see a skimpily clad woman going ga-ga over him just cause he has applied a particular brand of deo that's making him a rage , right as if just a deo can get u any girl 🤢

or even more news channels who stupidly air clips at times which are even disturbing content wise as it's only meant to titillate are aired

we even have clips of India's very first serial kisser Emraan Hashmi whose songs are an instant hit having scenes even truly vulgar sometimes not to mention 24 hr TV has foreign shows & Hollywood movies with far more provocative content than these shots

then why the ruckus over a kiss between a couple caught in the moment like MayUr were or a fantasy that made samrat feel that gunjan has now became someone who he sees as more than a friend as now beyond holding her hand or hugging her he' attracted to her as a man is to a woman he loves

clearly these kisses weren't vulgar just meant to show a new stage of a couple's relationship as love also lies beyond holding hands or gazing at each other when passion & intimacy come into the picture that' bound to happen 1 day or another
Edited by aahana86 - 15 years ago

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ahana...hats off to u!šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘....very well said and the complete truth...even i was not able to understand y this big controversy over kiss btwn mayur or sajan??I think u said it and am with u man!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i swear i thought every1 would be happy...ppl themselves say sum gud scenes sum gud scenes and then wen it cums they say it wasnt f9 or watever...i luved both the scenes it was gud..theres no doubt that it was oe of the gud scenes shown in mjht
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Aahaana: Your topics are alway to the point and pretty much awesome, šŸ˜‰ seriosuly I was wondering the same thing, I really didn't understand the fuss over it either, it's stupid tbh, I was happy for both Sajan and Mayur that they were finally moving up a level in their relationships because if your stuck in the same place forever then what the hell?? It gets too boring! Well for Sajan it was different as Samrat was realising but still it was amazing and for Mayur I was more than happy because it showed alot of passion which Mayur share šŸ˜‰

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Actually, no one has a problem with intimate scenes. But the timing and location isn't right. For Mayur, it was the library, but its okay, since no one was around, and they are already in a relationship, and to top it all, it was a cheek peck, so that was fine with me.

But SG aren't in any relationship, they're just best friends, and Samrat hadn't even realized that he was in love with Gunjan, and he dreamt of kissing her, on the neck? I'd have still understood if he kissed her on the forehead, but first of all, dreaming of kissing a girl even before you know you're in love is disgusting. That's what i feel.

So, bottom line, no one is complaining about intimate scenes. They're complaining about the location and timing at which it was shown. And certainly, the location and timing was wrong for SG sequence.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree wit u
U knw as Mayank said We r Broad Minded but not
So I Say
We shuld becom Broad Minded
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: utfracks

Actually, no one has a problem with intimate scenes. But the timing and location isn't right. For Mayur, it was the library, but its okay, since no one was around, and they are already in a relationship, and to top it all, it was a cheek peck, so that was fine with me.

But SG aren't in any relationship, they're just best friends, and Samrat hadn't even realized that he was in love with Gunjan, and he dreamt of kissing her, on the neck? I'd have still understood if he kissed her on the forehead, but first of all, dreaming of kissing a girl even before you know you're in love is disgusting. That's what i feel.

So, bottom line, no one is complaining about intimate scenes. They're complaining about the location and timing at which it was shown. And certainly, the location and timing was wrong for SG sequence.



Lol, you think???

Tell that to all the adolescent college boys!!! šŸ˜†

In todays age....I think even teenagers go beyond thinking of just kissing people they have a crush on. And yes, I know it coz I have seen it in college. And you may feel it is disgusting...but it is after all...part of the process of growing up...and it is a physiological process in fact.....something called as "hormones"... :P

So the issue is not that.....I felt there was nothing in those kisses.....star one should grow up a lil bit!
My problem is that they make those scenes way too slowwww.....it takes an eternity for one frame to slide over to the next!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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^^ You do have a point. But we need to take the situation into consideration and then speak. Samrat had NOT, and I repeat, NOT realized that he loves Gunjan or is attracted to her. Had that been the case, I wouldn't have had any issues with it. You yourself mentioned that people fantasize way beyond kissing their crush, but Samrat never even thought of Gunjan more than a best friend. And tell me, do you fantasize kissing your best friend? Especially if you still haven't realized you're in love with them or infactuated by them for that matter.
That's how i would put it.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well, i can see reason for this topic...
as i was the one who opened the other topic,, lemme clarify u my point

i dont have any problem with intimate
i'm ready 2 blush watching those scenes if they r aired with proper timing
if this same kiss scene would have been aftr realization (not even aftr confession...) i would not have had any problem
aftr i'm a more a monaya fanatic than sajan, y would have a problem with kiss

but the way i saw the scene was different frm many ppl here
n there r few ppl who thought like me

n we were not creating any sort of fuss... we were discussing very cleanly n peacefully
u can check out the topic as well, u wont find any arguement ... u find only agreements n disagreements

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ummm.....who created the "fuss" over intimate scenes???

As Rachna said, TIMING and the WAY it was being shown was what was being discussed....everyone has their own opinion on those topics but I hardly see the reason for why it's being called a 'fuss'...LOL...oh well, to each their own.

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