Naitik unke rang mein rang jayega

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musenartist

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Posted: 16 years ago

#61

If both mummies are soooo possessive about their respective kiddies then why did they ever get them married.......They shud have rather hid them under their pallus and kept them away from the world for the rest of their lives.......So, if they had decided to get them married to each other, then they shud just be happy that they have become each others now.......No third party shud interfere in their life now......It's unfair......Just leave them to live their life......I think Naitik shud now live independently with his wife.......Else, it's gonna create more problems in both families............
No, if Gayathri decides to leave behinh her home, husband and daughter and move in with Naksh if they decide to live independently then it is a different matter...........Then, she shud be called a psycho.....She seriously needs to consult a psychiatrist...........

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simran85

@simran85

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Posted: 16 years ago

#62

I didn't like Gayatri's behaviour either but I think from her point of view it is not baseless. I agree that till now she has been doing everything for her munna and she still think that she is the one who can take the best care of her son. But she requires some time to understand the truth that now someone else has come in munna's life and she can also take a very good care of her son.

And the insecurity about 'munna unke rang mein rang jayega' has all startred from Rajashri's phone. The way she informed Rashmi that Naksh will get ready at Maheswari house and that too without seeking permission from Bhabima or Gayatri has done all the damage. It's Singhanias who are hosting the reception party so it is quite obvious that the bride and groom will get ready at singhania house only. I think due to Rajashri's this idiotic phone-call Gayatri started thinking that may be they'll start controlling her son and DIL's life from now on and that's why she commented like this.

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LiveLoveLaugh5

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Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: _charu_

I've seen moms behaving that way with her children...one of my husband's cousins, her saas doesn't allow her to step out of the house..she and her husband hardly go for any outings..be it dinners or family functions or holidays..it must be so suffocating for her...but tht's bec. her husband isn't supportive enuf ..he doesn't raise his voice his front of his mom..and trust me, 90% of saas make faces when her bahu has to go to her maayka and the problem aggravates when her son goes with her bahu...i face this problem everyday 😕 now toh i don't feel like going to my parents house, nor i like them to visit me...

yeah same here...i have seen so many of hubby's cousin wife who are so intimidated by their mother in law....it sucks whenever this kind of things happen in our society......i feel sorry for the girl who has to go through all this carp...ekto u leave everything behind for them (hubby and inlaws) top of that ur life becomes hell.......one of my bhabhi....hasnt been to her maayka for 8 years now....can u imagine???.they dont let her drive or go out with her friends...never been out alone with her hubby...bas nothing....i have seen so much in our society that i was afraid to get married initially even though it was a love marriage and when i met my hubby i told him clearly that i too have some responsibility towards my parents and he will have to adjust equally...as much as i have too.......he agreed and made everything clear to my in laws...and they did not have a problem with that.....touch wood....

but yaar marriage can either make ur life hell or beautiful......and they say marriages are made in heaven...but whenever u get mother in laws like ur hubby cousin's wife or my hubby's cousin wife in the package....the word heaven doesnt apply anymore

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LiveLoveLaugh5

@LiveLoveLaugh5

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: _charu_

why is that every hubby loves going to their sasural......perhaps bcoz their are given the most attention and treated so well by our parents.....😆.........

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LiveLoveLaugh5

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Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: simran85
I didn't like Gayatri's behaviour either but I think from her point of view it is not baseless. I agree that till now she has been doing everything for her munna and she still think that she is the one who can take the best care of her son. But she requires some time to understand the truth that now someone else has come in munna's life and she can also take a very good care of her son.

And the insecurity about 'munna unke rang mein rang jayega' has all startred from Rajashri's phone. The way she informed Rashmi that Naksh will get ready at Maheswari house and that too without seeking permission from Bhabima or Gayatri has done all the damage. It's Singhanias who are hosting the reception party so it is quite obvious that the bride and groom will get ready at singhania house only. I think due to Rajashri's this idiotic phone-call Gayatri started thinking that may be they'll start controlling her son and DIL's life from now on and that's why she commented like this.

yes thats a good point too....these mothers na have to start thinking with their brain and not with their heart......