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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hi Deefan,
Thank you and per your request, here is my post... Radhika is truly an Angel. Only an angel can put up with all the injustices that were leveled upon her and still remain respectful to everyone.
Radhika is not a "Patthar Ke Sanam". Radhika is only trying to protect her heart from breaking again.

Yes, her mother is trying to repent her sins and therefore would like to see Radhika married to Dev, but let us not forget that this is the same mother who turned "villian" while they were at Phool Bangla. This is the same mother who did not hesitate to favor her daughter, Vishaka, when presented with a situation wherein she had to choose, even after she had given Radhika permission to confess the truth to Dev and had even went down on her knees seeking forgiveness from Radhika for her sins. Do you think that she would hesitate again to remove Radhika from Dev's life when Vishaka decide to return home? I think not.

Yes, Vaishali, Dadi, Vivek and Birju would be very happy for Dev at the moment. What were these same people doing while Radhika was being wrongfully accused by Mrinalini and Cha-Cha? What were they doing when she was being "dragged" out of the house? No one stepped in to save her honor, even though it was clearly written in her eyes and actions that she was innocent. Vaishali, Dadi and Vivek are only happy now because they don't want to see their precious Dev in pain, sorrow and being insulted by Mrinalini. Do you think that they would show Radhika the same love and respect they showed to Vishaka? Do you think that they would lavish her with the same praises they poured onto Vishaka, even though they knew that Radhika was the one doing almost everything while they were in Delhi? No, they would not.

This is the same Vivek, whom has heard from Dev how much he and Radhika loves each other. What did he choose to do... instead of being happy for his brother that he finally found his true love, he lectured Dev as to the responsibility of being a Raj Purohit and saving the family's honor. What would be stopping him from sending Radhika away after Vishaka's return? Nothing.
Kudos to Radhika for trying to safeguard her heart. It has been broken too many times. Like she says, if she accepts this relationship, then there is no turning back. She will not be able to give away her relationship once it is blessed by her family.
Maybe if these same people would actually appreciate Radhika for whom she really is (a simple loving girl), then they would most likely absorb some of the true love that flows through her being.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree with you...I was glad to see that she was protecting herself from heartbreak...when she got married, she allowed herself to dream and then was stripped from all of it by amma, devki for vishaka...
so this time, she is leaving no stone unturned in terms of making sure that when she marries dev this time, she will go home with him...
and she even explained it to dev in a simple example about vishaka and her in their childhood...she finally opened up to him...I'm just loving this, because I'm hoping it all leads to their remarriage..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Music: Your post is musical, just like your id..........Agree with you totally........very nice post.........
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Thank you so much music! I loved your post and here is why...

you know your post brought me back to my senses because I couldn't understand radhika's actions...your post made me see the whole picture, just like radhika is seeing the whole picture.

we as viewers tend to want things quic, soon, here, now this second...but her character is a thinking one, a woman so burnt in love, she has been emotionally stripped of dev's identity. It took so long for him to reach this point and she is finally opening up to him.

I doubt she would open to anyone under a normal situation, other than her father and now Dev, noone has ever asked what she thinks or what she wants. Her asthitva/identity of being a bride-Dev's bride was taken away from her in the most brutal of ways- by people she loved..

How would that feel? Can you sense, touch or feel after that? I don't blame her for turning stone hearted if she did. BUT there is very much a beating heart in her and it beats for Dev, his long arduous journey discovering Radhika has not been easy and now he almost has her.

Radhika will be enveloped in the cocoon of love that is Dev once she is his wife, she has suffered enough. I think for once,if we choose to see a perspective of someone not so independent or open about what they feel, we hear those silent cries and Dev has heard her, let's hope this ends well.

I as a viewer would really love to see it!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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today's episode redeemed rads in the eyes of the viewers unlike any other episode- her recounting of the doll story simply hit home. we need to thank the new creative team that has quietly taken over from the originals.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Nice post music! Very clear. Now I am remembering how Rads wanted to leave after she confesses her love to Dev. But Vivek would not let her leave as it would be bad for Dev. He never thought of her feelings and later said nothing (actually was happy) when she got kicked out.

You are so right. Rads knows everyone. Keep posting Music!

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