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After Rakhi Sawant selected her groom on television's most dramatic reality show Rakhi Ka Swayamvar, Bollywood's iconic item girl is now singing
a different tune.
She believes Canadian fianc Elesh Parujanwala and she are not made for each other. In a shockingly candid interview, Rakhi revealed to Indiatimes Movies that it's not just the obvious communication issues with Elesh, but her thinking and illiteracy that are clashing with her polished beau.
"I have met Elesh just twice after the show. Once we went out for a coffee and next when he came over to my house on Sunday for a party I had thrown for friends. I hardly know him well enough. How can I say he is the one for me?", wonders Rakhi who has recently converted into Christianity.
"He's a great human being but it doesn't mean he'll be good for me. Sometime, two good people may not make for a great couple. I am increasingly finding it difficult to take the plunge...," she says unsure.
There are several issues, feels Rakhi for this mismatch. "I think in Hindi and he in English. I am yet to know what exactly is on his mind or why did he come to the show?," she wondered aloud. Not that she is doubting his intentions totally, but there are some grey areas that have been bothering Rakhi.
"Elesh had a string of affairs, and none of them lasted more than a year. He also said he loses interest in women very quickly. It's scary for me, especially after I have gone through a broken relationship. I don't want to be heart broken again," Rakhi says carefully. "Though Elesh says he loves me, I need my time to decide".
It's not that Rakhi isn't making an attempt to bring in the romance. These days she's only conversing in English so that she can chat with her English beau and his Canadian friends. This aside, the couple will be going on another reality show soon wherein Rakhi gets yet another opportunity to test her beau, this time locked inside a house for more than a month. However, Rakhi seems to be too nervous to sing 'hum tum ek kaamre mein bandh hon' with Elesh in the house.
"Frankly I've never been alone with Elesh so far," she avers. So what's scaring her is the unknown. We haven't gone beyond holding hands. He is controlling himself. I have made it clear, whatever happens will be after marriage only. I may have a screen image, but I am very traditional at heart. Fair enough isn't?" asks the bindaas babe in her quintessential style.
Meanwhile, it's work that's keeping her busy these days. She'll be seen in Dil Bole Hadippa with Shahid Kapoor and Rani Mukherjee. Other than that, Meghna Gulzar's 36-26-36 is Rakhi's next film along with Jaya Bachchan. Moving up a notch higher in the filmy rung, it's no wonder that Rakhi doesn't want to give up everything at this point.
"My work is getting bigger in India. I cannot move out of here. If Elesh marries me, he has to buy a house here. I'll not move to Canada", she stands clear on this. There are also reports that Rakhi backed out of marriage in Swayamvar at the last minute, because she hasn't gotten over her past flame Abhishek Awasthi! "I am still carrying a huge amount of my past with me. He didn't love me, but I did. I was left heart broken, so naturally I'll take my time to bring back the trust factor in a relationship. Moreover, the contestant who came for my show were such cheapsters, hungry for publicity that it left me disillusioned about love and men," admits Rakhi who extended her Swayamvar invitation to Abhishek who failed to turn up.
Is she in touch with any of her suitors from the show? "Kshitij, Raman and Maanas. But it's Maanas that I chat with everyday. We get along very well. I quite liked him, and could have chosen him, but there was a huge age difference between us," she reveals.
Never mind Rakhi, que sera sera, whatever will happen will happen...
source : http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/tv-/I-havent-got-over-Abhishek-Rakhi/articleshow/4884368.cms
She believes Canadian fianc Elesh Parujanwala and she are not made for each other. In a shockingly candid interview, Rakhi revealed to Indiatimes Movies that it's not just the obvious communication issues with Elesh, but her thinking and illiteracy that are clashing with her polished beau.
"I have met Elesh just twice after the show. Once we went out for a coffee and next when he came over to my house on Sunday for a party I had thrown for friends. I hardly know him well enough. How can I say he is the one for me?", wonders Rakhi who has recently converted into Christianity.
"He's a great human being but it doesn't mean he'll be good for me. Sometime, two good people may not make for a great couple. I am increasingly finding it difficult to take the plunge...," she says unsure.
There are several issues, feels Rakhi for this mismatch. "I think in Hindi and he in English. I am yet to know what exactly is on his mind or why did he come to the show?," she wondered aloud. Not that she is doubting his intentions totally, but there are some grey areas that have been bothering Rakhi.
"Elesh had a string of affairs, and none of them lasted more than a year. He also said he loses interest in women very quickly. It's scary for me, especially after I have gone through a broken relationship. I don't want to be heart broken again," Rakhi says carefully. "Though Elesh says he loves me, I need my time to decide".
It's not that Rakhi isn't making an attempt to bring in the romance. These days she's only conversing in English so that she can chat with her English beau and his Canadian friends. This aside, the couple will be going on another reality show soon wherein Rakhi gets yet another opportunity to test her beau, this time locked inside a house for more than a month. However, Rakhi seems to be too nervous to sing 'hum tum ek kaamre mein bandh hon' with Elesh in the house.
"Frankly I've never been alone with Elesh so far," she avers. So what's scaring her is the unknown. We haven't gone beyond holding hands. He is controlling himself. I have made it clear, whatever happens will be after marriage only. I may have a screen image, but I am very traditional at heart. Fair enough isn't?" asks the bindaas babe in her quintessential style.
Meanwhile, it's work that's keeping her busy these days. She'll be seen in Dil Bole Hadippa with Shahid Kapoor and Rani Mukherjee. Other than that, Meghna Gulzar's 36-26-36 is Rakhi's next film along with Jaya Bachchan. Moving up a notch higher in the filmy rung, it's no wonder that Rakhi doesn't want to give up everything at this point.
"My work is getting bigger in India. I cannot move out of here. If Elesh marries me, he has to buy a house here. I'll not move to Canada", she stands clear on this. There are also reports that Rakhi backed out of marriage in Swayamvar at the last minute, because she hasn't gotten over her past flame Abhishek Awasthi! "I am still carrying a huge amount of my past with me. He didn't love me, but I did. I was left heart broken, so naturally I'll take my time to bring back the trust factor in a relationship. Moreover, the contestant who came for my show were such cheapsters, hungry for publicity that it left me disillusioned about love and men," admits Rakhi who extended her Swayamvar invitation to Abhishek who failed to turn up.
Is she in touch with any of her suitors from the show? "Kshitij, Raman and Maanas. But it's Maanas that I chat with everyday. We get along very well. I quite liked him, and could have chosen him, but there was a huge age difference between us," she reveals.
Never mind Rakhi, que sera sera, whatever will happen will happen...
source : http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/tv-/I-havent-got-over-Abhishek-Rakhi/articleshow/4884368.cms
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