Kalyanam Updates and Discussions Jun 29 - Jul 3

Thanks in advance for the updates Nithya, maha and RP. Will not be able to watch serials much anymore, but will be depending on your updates. Thanks again....

Olgnes, good joke about liking the blank post for Monday 😉

Thanks Nithya for an excellent update.

Varadharajan's home.. Postman comes with a letter for Gaya.. Gaya is not around.. So Suja collects it.. She coolly open the letter and starts reading it.......My goodness. This suja's meddling habit has surpassed all limits.. Lacks basic etiquette...not to open others letters.

Am waiting for the day when Anandhi comes to know abt. parthi's character & gives him a nice verbal lash.

Yes nithya you are right. Sivagami Kalyanamandapam is not auspicious for V's family.

Thanks Nithya - I have always believed that such notices
are to be delivered only in to the hands of the addressee !!!
Sari vangitta, athai pirichi padippalaa??? EnnamO pOngappa
And, I am also waiting for Aanadhi to catch this two timer - and I
wish that happens on the day when I have to update - annikki thaan
Diwali, Pongal, Christmas, Id - ellam rolled in to a single celebration
😉 Roja has that maniacal mad gleam .......

Thanks Nithya ...


Agreed .. Hope Ananthi soon finds out abt Parthi ... Suja kku enna thaan nenappo ... Eshwara 🤢 ...

Thanks, Nithya. I agree that etiquette is totally lacking here. How can Suja read a lawyer's notice or any letter intended for someone else? Parthi's behaviour also shows utter lack of decorum and, incidentally, there should be decorum between spouses too. Parthi cannot stomach Anandhi questioning him about his movements and yet he can ask her intrusive questions about her family (Gaya, Elango, etc). Such behaviour is shocking in a man who claims to have lived "in foreign".

thanks Nithya!
Who does Suja think she is, to open other people's mail?? I really can't stand this woman's meddling nature!

I think Suja made that decision so she can hold off her wedding.

Originally posted by: Bonheur

Thanks, Nithya. I agree that etiquette is totally lacking here. How can Suja read a lawyer's notice or any letter intended for someone else? Parthi's behaviour also shows utter lack of decorum and, incidentally, there should be decorum between spouses too. Parthi cannot stomach Anandhi questioning him about his movements and yet he can ask her intrusive questions about her family (Gaya, Elango, etc). Such behaviour is shocking in a man who claims to have lived "in foreign".

Btw, when will our scriptwriters learn that "foreign" is an adjective and not a noun. It is always a "in a foreign country/s" or "in a foreign land/s", never "in foreign".

thanks nitya...
well i agree wid u bon..didnt like the way parthi behaved wid anandhi...y cant he show the same irritation wid hema in tat case..😡

guess suja wants to postpone the marriage for the time being..suja is mad..how can u read someone's letter..🤢

Originally posted by: Bonheur

Thanks, Nithya. I agree that etiquette is totally lacking here. How can Suja read a lawyer's notice or any letter intended for someone else? Parthi's behaviour also shows utter lack of decorum and, incidentally, there should be decorum between spouses too. Parthi cannot stomach Anandhi questioning him about his movements and yet he can ask her intrusive questions about her family (Gaya, Elango, etc). Such behaviour is shocking in a man who claims to have lived "in foreign".

Btw, when will our scriptwriters learn that "foreign" is an adjective and not a noun. It is always a "in a foreign country/s" or "in a foreign land/s", never "in foreign".

I agree with Bon about the lack of etiquette in our TV characters, and I am afraid our older and younger generations are absorbing all this after watching these shows. I have been lamenting about this for quite some time now, esp when you see the lead characters happily going through other people's stuff and eavesdropping shamelessly. As far as Parthi is concerned, I do not wish to talk about philandering husbands. I have absolutely no sympathy for such characters, and this is one reason why I am not watching this show, just reading the updates.

Incidentally, using "foreign" as a noun is common in India! The usual remark is "Avar foreignkku poga poraar or ponaar and so on" or "foreignle irundhu vangi vandhaar", as if there is a place called "foreign". But this is a little better than in the North, where it is called "phoren"! In three years of watching SunTV serials, I have come to the conclusion that many words are multi-purpose in nature, they are nouns, verbs, adjectives, whatever, e.g., conscious (conscious vandhaachu!), tension (romba tension aagadhe!), so the only thing to do is to safely forget all the rules of English grammar while watching. Better yet, you can do what I do sometimes, mute the TV and just watch their saris and jewelry! Sometimes, even that seems like a punishment esp when they make the men wear embroidered shirts in pink, or the women wear some atrocious saris and hairdos.