Why is this Salman fan messaging me personally? :S

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peace_786

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Posted: 16 years ago

ok, so I just got a PM from a Salman fan, phototazmania, calling me a loser 😕 why r u guys being so cowards, say whatever u wanna say in public. if u don't have the guts to call me a loser in public then Y THE HELL R U MESSAGING ME 🤬 🤬 afraid of mods? 😆

ps. I'm not checking any of ur messages phototazmania, so no point waiting for a reply from me with nasty words 😊

Edited by Andy* - 16 years ago

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Posted: 16 years ago

Ohhh, he/she really said you loser??

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ekumeed

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Posted: 16 years ago

I do think the Forum should refrain from name-calling. But at the same time, it is not right for you to post a private message on the boards. This Forum is supposed to be about the show DID, not personal issues which you could have resolved by messaging back or ignoring the comment. Just because someone says something negative about you doesn't make it true--keep that in mind.

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peace_786

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: ekumeed
I do think the Forum should refrain from name-calling. But at the same time, it is right for you to post a private message on the boards. This Forum is supposed to be about the show DID, not personal issues which you could have resolved by messaging back or ignoring the comment. Just because someone says something negative about you doesn't make it true--keep that in mind.

amm I'm being called a loser bcz of my views on a particular contestant OF DID, so it is related to DID...this person is attacking me abt my views, just privately, so does that make it any better? 😕

and this person has sent me more than 1 messages, but I have deleted them without reading them, so in a way, I am ignoring this person to stop an argument.

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Andy*

amm I'm being called a loser bcz of my views on a particular contestant OF DID, so it is related to DID...this person is attacking me abt my views, just privately, so does that make it any better? 😕

and this person has sent me more than 1 messages, but I have deleted them without reading them, so in a way, I am ignoring this person to stop an argument.

Yes, you have right to open millions of post regarding the PM you are getting. Thanks for sharing your private message.

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ekumeed

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Posted: 16 years ago

I understand that you might be hurt or feel it is unfair for a fellow member to personally criticize you. But you are airing your difference in front of other members who have no stake in the personal issue between you and the other member. Like the other person said above you, if you feel offended, you should PM a moderator. And making a topic about the PM is something I personally believe you should refrain from doing because by nature PMs are supposed to guarantee a margin of privacy in messages exchanged. I hope you understand what I'm saying.

And besides, like I said, if someone says something negative about you, you should realize that does not make it true and think of how the person taking the time and effort to say this is giving you importance. Also, I'm sure the other contestant probably does not mean to offend you, just is probably saying things in the heat of the moment. Forget it and keep happy and smile.

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peace_786

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: ChupkeChupke

Yes, you have right to open millions of post regarding the PM you are getting. Thanks for sharing your private message.

np! 😃 as long as there are ppl like phototazmania on this forum, I rlly don't mind sharing my PMs 😉😆

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Posted: 16 years ago

Did you get message from other Salman fans too? Title of topic saying "Salman fans" but you mentioned about just one person, he/she may be Siddhesh fan too. Please share the original message.

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peace_786

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: ekumeed
I understand that you might be hurt or feel it is unfair for a fellow member to personally criticize you. But you are airing your difference in front of other members who have no stake in the personal issue between you and the other member. Like the other person said above you, if you feel offended, you should PM a moderator. And making a topic about the PM is something I personally believe you should refrain from doing because by nature PMs are supposed to guarantee a margin of privacy in messages exchanged. I hope you understand what I'm saying.

And besides, like I said, if someone says something negative about you, you should realize that does not make it true and think of how the person taking the time and effort to say this is giving you importance. Also, I'm sure the other contestant probably does not mean to offend you, just is probably saying things in the heat of the moment. Forget it and keep happy and smile.

😊

it is my privacy and if I wanna make a topic on something, then I don't think u can stop me from doing that 😕 It's my account, let me take care of it myself 😊

and don't worry I don't get offended by kids like phototazmania, they probably are just in school right now learning their ABCD... kids these days u see 😆

but I think I have communicated my point, so I will stop now 😊