Love-Hate circle

This has nothing to do with my life or anything. But, I never understood the logic how a guy teases a girl, and yet likes her. I'm sure you are familiar with the whole kindergarten concept, where when a guy comes and hits a girl he likes her or something. lol. I never exactly understood it ever. And, somehow I always thought when a guy was rude, mean, or teasing a girl; he had a problem with her or something. A few days back me and a friend of mine got into a discussion about this, and she informed me that the logic holds true, and she had an experience with it. I had a pretty similar experience in Grade 8, where this guy bugged me nonstop, and said things to me that I took rudely, and I said rude things back. Later on one fine day all the girls in the class decided to confront him on why he always kept a watch on me, and his reaction was pretty surprising. I also watched the movie, "He's not that into you" and mostly it shows how girls tend to think guys are into them, when they are really not. I could perfectly understand that. So I'm confused, which approach is the best. If a guy really likes a girl, shouldn't he impress her, and try to be nice to her? Why would he tease her?

i think by that they get attention .. you get more attention froma girl when u fight coz when girls come to confronting they are best at it 😉.

and if a guy tries to impress her , well she might have tens of othe guys trying to impress her .so the attention gets diverted .

key thing : enjoy the attention you get , and dont read too much into it ..if he really likes you ..one day he will tell u .....

Originally posted by: KehanT

i think by that they get attention .. you get more attention froma girl when u fight coz when girls come to confronting they are best at it 😉.

and if a guy tries to impress her , well she might have tens of othe guys trying to impress her .so the attention gets diverted .

key thing : enjoy the attention you get , and dont read too much into it ..if he really likes you ..one day he will tell u .....

Originally posted by: KehanT

i think by that they get attention .. you get more attention froma girl when u fight coz when girls come to confronting they are best at it 😉.

and if a guy tries to impress her , well she might have tens of othe guys trying to impress her .so the attention gets diverted .

key thing : enjoy the attention you get , and dont read too much into it ..if he really likes you ..one day he will tell u .....

That's a very interesting concept, I never quite figured that out myself. But then again guys are really hard to understand.😛

Personally, I would try and stay a few feet away from a guy who constantly teases me or says rude things to me.

-Mahi

Originally posted by: -Mystery-

That's a very interesting concept, I never quite figured that out myself. But then again guys are really hard to understand.😛

Personally, I would try and stay a few feet away from a guy who constantly teases me or says rude things to me.

-Mahi

guys think that way they can get more attention from girls. plus as a girl u will also wonder why isnt he teasing u today(eg. if he didnt tease u for a day) so i guess it might be cuz of that.