They Are Just .... BOYS

I Live in UK so i haven't reached the Episode of Salil and Purvis wedding but from what i read in the Update i can tell it was quite Sad and Upsetting .. and from all this i came up to this conclusion that Both Salil and Arjun are Mere BOYS ... only true MEN know true love ...

They Both say that they love Purvi and Arohi respectively so much, but in just split second their trust in them faltered, what kind of love is that, if they truly loved them, they would have talked to them privately, try to know the reason, atleast hear them out .. But Arjun openly humiliated Arohi and her family, and Salil just walked out leaving Purvi so Heartbroken .. was that their Love ..

ek pal ke liye Zindagi de di isn't that what Arjun had said in the Salsa Dance scene at that time i had thought Arjun would be a True Lover, but he proved me Wrong with this act of his .. he just proved out the be a weak soul.

And Salil, if he had just looked into Purvi's eyes he would have seen the honesty, but no he just walked out on her ...

That's why i say they are just BOYS.

But in all this i feel Pity on them aswell, because they have no idea what they have lost, they have just ruined their own lives with their own hands ..

what do you guy say err they have hit an axe on theit foot actually no they have stood on a axe ..

in the days to come when they see their families true colour .. i will laugh at their face, and say "What Goes Around Comes Around"

wow thats a wonderful way of putting it
I am actually in the states so i watch these episodes online. And you are totally right? these guys are acting like boys..If they had though of it logically or had the maturity to understand and process all the information that they have been bombarded with. Had they even thought of it logically rather then emotionally..THey would have seen the truth in these girls..
You know i was looking for a way to describe the change in Arjun from the past to like the present when he is in jail and i guess that is it.
He has matured, he has become a man and realized what love is and what the loss of love has cost him but instead of becoming an alcoholic or just living his life in misery. He has just submitted himself in living in jail, being calm and serene and almost spiritual..
He has loved and lost and is glad to have jsut experienced that feeling..

sorry if this became too boring..but i totally understand what u are saying...

That is indeed a wonderful way of putting it. We thought of AP as a guy that saw nothing but pure hatred for women, and then he changed and started to love Arohi. Come on, you start to love Arohi, doesn't that make you responsible enough to go and talk to Arohi PRIVATELY and sort it all out? But as you said, at the end of the day, every Man IS a boy!

yah...but this is their first loves. remember? for both the girls and the boys. they are working out some complex stuff.

if you watched the episode, you would see that Salil does not actually walk out on Purvi - she walks out of the mandap herself - and then Salil is pulled out of the room by his mom. He was simply shell shocked. He didnt know how to react.

Arjun wanted to believe in Arohi..he still loves her intensely...and will cling to any glimmer of hope...but DK has convinced him otherwise. And Savita's actions are HIGHLY suspicious. Why is she absent - as their BadiMa - from the weddings?? Besides, even Arjun didn't want to leave them when HariPrasad was on the floor..he was also wanting to linger ... but Arohi told him to leave.

dunno guys. i think they were fine. and girls wouldnt react any better (on a serial at least!)

I understand what ur saying.....but in the case of Salil i think he was just too shocked to react...I think thats why he goes back later on...maybe to clear the air???....I mean think about it the guy didn't even have an inkling of her previous marriage....when he's hit with the truth between the eyes so to speak...he obviously goes into a state of shock....I mean he jus stood there unable to react and seeing him in this state his mom just dragged him away not even giving him a chance to say anything....

As for Arjun i can understand his misgivings to a certain extent....his trust in women is still very fragile as evidenced with his first reaction to seeing Arohi with his mom and finding out that she is none other than her Badi Ma....to him this all seems highly suspicious.....especially when he hears Arohi utter those damning words....even then however he was willing to clear the air with her regarding all that he had seen and heard....for a man unable to trust women I'd say this was quite a leap for him to take....
his problem is that the serpent is in his very own garden...he trusts his dad and his judgement far too much.....that trust which is clearly misplaced....has him holding back from confronting Arohi because he clearly believes due to his dad poisoning his mind...... that Arohi and his mum are cut from the same cloth and are out to ruin both him and his dad....this is going to be his biggest downfall....because Arjun is capable of trusting and his trust does run quite deep....his folly is placing that sacred trust in the wrong people

guys the way i see it is that arjun did what he had for his mate sallil and for arohi she mentioned that she did recived his call 2 times that wasnt shown in the drama but so he tried to contact her its just like the movie taal when arjun finds out he will go leaving all to jail like the way that guy in the movie did he whent leaving all to the guest house with ekta she cant get ideas so she sending arjun to jail and arohi to become a singer than we go to the present day

Okay i Understand Salil is Shocked, and got dragged away sorry i didn't know that ... as i said in UK we haven't got to that part, so from what i read i thought he walked out ..

Anyways coming to Arjun i Understand he's angered and feels betrayed .. but really is this the way to behave. to openly insult her family .. that's highly disgusting, and like Himanshi said, he could think logically .. i mean that's why ones got a brain, to use it ... why is he always so dependent on his Father, why can't he for a change do what his heart tells him to do ...

to be honest i'm really angered at Arjun than Salil, because what Salil did is forgivable, but What Arjun did is not ..

I cenrtainly wouldn't forgive the man who insults my family to this extent ..

@iqbal-pallavi....As I said about Arjun I understand his actions to a certain extent but that is only where Arohi herself is concerned....but i agree the mud slinging was unforgivable coz it was directed at her family...even i wudnt tolerate that kind of abuse.....no outsider has that right and for all intents and purposes Arjun is just that...an outsider

btw is the UK behind on the episodes???....I'm frm UK too but I didn't realise we were behind coz i download and watch the epis online

In UK we have just finished watching the Salsa Episode .. good thing about being behind we could just ready ourselves for this Jhatka Lolz ....