Help NEEDED

A friend of mine recently confessed to me that she had a crush on a guy... Alright I was not surprised as lots of my classmates come to me to talk about such things... but this girl is a special case... Her parents are divorced and she lives here with her sister and she nurses a sort of grudge aganist her mom. Well the guy in question is not from this city and he has clearly said no to her. But she is well infatuated with him... She started crying when he refused to meet her even once and she also started crying when i asked her to not to meet him... But sheis not over him yet even though it has been a month. I cannot offer any advice as its a very sensitive case and not like the rest of my classmates who ask for advice frankly So can anybody help me with this?

Well I guess you should try to talk to her and explain her nicely that she'll get someone alot better than him one day.........

Hmm... I know sensitive people are hard to handle, especially when they don't want to have to do anything with reasoning.

I guess right now she needs support of her friends so let all of her friends know to be always with her and support her.

Tell her that if a guy has already said no, there's not much that can be done and in a relationship it's really important that two people respect each other. If he doesn't want to meet her, then she shouldn't force him. Relationships can't be forced on others.

She has a life in front of her which she should live to the fullest! Think about her talents and interests and focus on that for now.

-Mahi

I agree with Mahi, but you can also remind her of all the other beautiful things in life, and that he isn't her world. Her friends, family, memories, just the world in general. Tell her to engage herself in other activites such as reading, writing a book, listening to music...

Originally posted by: Jihu

A friend of mine recently confessed to me that she had a crush on a guy... Alright I was not surprised as lots of my classmates come to me to talk about such things... but this girl is a special case... Her parents are divorced and she lives here with her sister and she nurses a sort of grudge aganist her mom. Well the guy in question is not from this city and he has clearly said no to her. But she is well infatuated with him... She started crying when he refused to meet her even once and she also started crying when i asked her to not to meet him... But sheis not over him yet even though it has been a month. I cannot offer any advice as its a very sensitive case and not like the rest of my classmates who ask for advice frankly So can anybody help me with this?