hi guys.....we all know that naitik has a very big ego in him and think he is always right but then this attitute will be with him when he is in his bachelor's life all thanks to his ladies at home for spoiling him and make him into a egoistic person even though he is a sweet human being.....he is now a kiddish boy he transform into a matured man once he is married with akshara....even in real life all those guys before marriage have a different lifetstyle with ego in them but then after marriage they are changed man who only thinks about their wives and children and those egos they had before marriage vanish in thin air....even naitik will go through the same way....the ladies in home spoiled him but his wife akshara will help him to get rid the ego in him and make him understand that sometimes other person opinions and views are must be accepted too.....she will change naitik into a new person whom he himself never knew before his marriage....marriage will totally change naitik's life....sometimes i feel that naitik has all the love from his family but then his heart desire something more that changes himself into a new person and wants a person who brings the hidden naitik out from him who totally think he is not special but normal person...sometimes i feel that naitik wants to be normal but his loveable family is not giving the space only akshara can break out the shell and gives him the space
I don't know why but i'm not ready to accept that Naitik is that egoistic n self obsessed....yes the boy and girl do change after marriage..these changes will come automatically when they'll share their lives with each other.....that slight negative streak in him scared me too but then in one meeting only it's difficult to know about a person.....he must be having a lot of positive qualities too which Akshara will know only after her marriage....it's sad that she cud not know him well at this time but that's her fault only..she got 2 chances but she wasted both of them....
I don't know why but i'm not ready to accept that Naitik is that egoistic n self obsessed....yes the boy and girl do change after marriage..these changes will come automatically when they'll share their lives with each other.....that slight negative streak in him scared me too but then in one meeting only it's difficult to know about a person.....he must be having a lot of positive qualities too which Akshara will know only after her marriage....it's sad that she cud not know him well at this time but that's her fault only..she got 2 chances but she wasted both of them....
Akshara is not matured than Naitik....they r of the same mental level :D but as a girl, initially she'll have to adjust more bec. that's what is shown in yeh rishta....that girls must give in.....it's a fact.....girls must do it bec. she has the ability to transform herself, to adjust well while boys don't have it.....n it's not a huge burden bec. when ur husband and family love you then you want to do more for them.......not only the girl, the family and the boy has to do a lot of adjustments as well.....but it all depends on how one takes it...if u bring in your ego then nobody can help....I think what they r showing in yeh rishta is that Naitik is not Akshara's man of dreams...Every girl and boy dream about their life partners n may be Naitik is not the guy she wanted to be with.......she must be thinking it'll be very difficult for her to live with him.....n after marriage too when she'll find the atmophere completely different from her house, she'll obviously feel scared....not her fault..all girls do......What is important is that she must not think that everything is gonna be perfect from day 1.....Akshara and Naitik will have to work it out....that's what marriage is all about....
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i partially agree vd u charu.... u said dat in yeh rishta they r shown dat naitik is not akshara's man of dreams dats true it is being said dat her mom will convince her 2 marry naitik... i agree vd d mages dat naitik has ego problem which is created by the ladies of his family... n akshara is lil more matured the him.. even akshara is pamperd as she is d only girl afta 3 generations but she doesnt have ego problem... even i feel dat akshara will change naitik into better man after marraige n love will blossom after marraige n it wont be based only on adjustments....
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