What decides where we go and what we become after death?
When we die, our course in the after-life is decided by a number of factors. These factors include:
The number and type of impressions that are created in the sub-conscious mind depending on how we have lived our lives
The type of deeds done during our life-time.
The extent and the type of spiritual practice we had undertaken during our lifetime.
Our Destiny
The type of death – natural and peaceful, violent or accidental.
The type of funeral. In Ayesha's case...they didn't scatter her ashes in the holy river
The rituals as per Spiritual science done by our descendants after our death to help us in our after life.
People are likely to become ghosts after their death when
They have many unfulfilled desires.
Many personality defects, such as anger, fear, greed, etc.
A lot of negative impressions in the mind.
A high amount of ego.
They have harmed others and have the basic nature of harming others.
They lack spiritual practice consisting of progressive level of surrender of mind body and intellect, done with the intention of God-realisation.
Why would my departed loved ones and my other ancestors want to give me pain?
This is a question that is very commonly asked. People think of their near and dear ones who have passed away and find it unimaginable that they would deliberately cause them problems in life. The following are the two main reasons as to why ancestors trouble their descendants.
Anger directed at descendants who do not use their inheritance in accordance with the ancestors' wishes.
Ancestors who have an attachment to the family and still want things to be done their way.
Ancestors who are addicted to some physical desire such as cigarettes, drugs, sex, (Ayesha fits the bill perfectly here...😆😆😆) food, etc. They take advantage of the remaining give-and-take account between them and their descendants to possess their descendants and fulfill their desires. Departed ancestors trouble their descendants instead of others with whom they may possibly have a give-and-take account with; this is because the bond between blood relations is the strongest.
Ghosts are known to possess individuals who are known to be mentally weaker than them. They will not bother with individuals who are mentally and/or spiritually stronger than them and who are able to repel their possession. 🤢🤢