i don't understand yug at all

really guys i don't understand yug at all....i know as a son knowing about his father that the girl he loves the most more than his life vrinda father killed his father he was in shock and anger but calm and heartbroken but then when he was talking to vikramaditya about vrinda he tells himself that he takes deciosn my heart then he will hurt his family.....then why in the first place he took all the hardship of winning vrinda's heart and her family heart when he very well knows that his grandfather and vrinda's grandfather are dead enemies.....even his this step would hurt his family as he have broke their reputation(thats what yug's family think because for them parampara and promises given are bigger than anything else)then why now he think this way that if he listen to his heart than his family will be hurt just because he knew that his father was killed by vrinda's father.....even before he knew his father's killer he knows that dadaveer and vikramaditya are sworn enemies.....then why didn't he use his brain then why now he thinks this way just because he knew his father's killer.....i really can't understand him all i can say when he realise the whole truth and wants back vrinda in his life then it will be too late as vrinda is very self-respecting girl and when he comes back to her permanently she will do the same what githika is doing to sharad.....

just now i can only blame Yug for not telling the reason to vrinda, why he want to brk their relationship.

i guess, when he went to Vrinda's house, he only knew two frnz bcame enemy but he was still hving hope to reunite them again as he noticed how VA was missing his old frnd. as soon as he knew his father was killed and none other but vrinda's father is the killer, he is not only in shock , he also figured it out, this is the way big reason to forgive & forget vrinda's father for his family , specially his Grandpa & mom. i dont think he's on revenge just now, i think he's in the state where he has lost all his hope to remove enimity between two families.

if we think, vrinda is always the girl who sacrifice her love for her family, and still she's self-respecting in this way, then we must agree tht Yug also can sacrifice his love for his family.

this is the situation where both shud not blame on each other and sort out the problem , best thing they shud do is find out the whole truth and also protest against all odds. i hope, GK or radhika or Yug's mom, either of them give some hope to fight back and not to give up on their love coz Yug already lost his hope & if even vrinda will know the reason why yug has left her, she'll also gonna loose her hope.
its very depressing, just hoping for some miracle to happen.......

why cant Ekta mai do some miracle early before lovebirds saperate, why she always late , i guess she believes in big miracles only like give life to the character after his/her death only. this time she shud wake up early for the miracle.........