Vishambhar & family too conservative

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I was shocked to hear the reason Vish gave for not getting Shaurya and Varsha married! According to him, if people would know that Shaurya had an affair and he had love marriage, nobody would marry Akshara ...thinking if brother is like this, sister might be the same! this is the limit....this doesn't make any sense!! i'm not saying this bec. I'm a Shaurya Varsha fan but this sounds so illogical...and it's not that the story is set in the pre independence era!!
the family is shown to be too much conservative......and the irony is that daadi who is the eldest of them all has a free mind about all these issues..from the beginning, she helped Akshara in Alok's case, she helped her in postponing her marriage and now she's alright with Shaurya Varsha couple!! and the rest of the family, specially Akshara's parents act like 15th century people !! something is seriously wrong with the story these days...i earlier posted that they are advocating ideas such as girls must not be sent to colleges, they don't have the right to say no for a boy, and whatever Shankari tayi says in the serial is just too much....
I hope what happened in Bidai doesn't happen in this serial..In Bidai they are going too far with the "color" thing and in this serial i hope they don't go on and on about how bad love and love marriage is!!
Plz friends i'm not criticizing these serials..i love them both ....but i feel that if they show too much of this then people who advocate similar ideas will get more strength..in today's age, therez a need to be more liberal...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Oh God he is too much....How does such things even come to his mind....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I found d reason very stupid...is there any rule that a man cannot marry his sister's friend??If vish is so worried abt love marriage he can make it a arranged one ...no body outside the house will come to know..it's a small issue but the family have blown it out of all proportion.😡
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Posted: 16 years ago
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the reason is now stupid...if u guyz put urself in their places u will understand...that even if a bro/sis are in love the society thinks that other will be the same. My mom is like that too..she believe if my elder bros/sis will do something wrong it will affect me...and it happens...loving someone is not bad...but u guyz have to think with parents' point of view...guy can get married even if he has 1000 affairs but if girl has a friendship with a guy no one mill marry her...and society will only point on to girl and her up bringing ...this does not goes for guyz...No offence...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree that vish and his family is too conservative but i think in some families that type of thinking still goes on. I like the dadi - she speaks her mind without worrying about anyone. i haven't watched the epi yet so i am not sure what the dialogues are but from the preview that i saw i m making my comments.
dadi is the eldest so shouldn't they listen to her?? i dont get why akshara's parents are making big deal about it specially her mom, when she thinks that versha is like her daughter....
i too don't want to see the love marriage issue being dragged like the color thing in bidaai..no offense to you guys or the shows cuz i adore the shows =)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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waisay this is true.and also jitni bhi smal city ho ya jagah. her jagah yeh thori hota hai jo bhi pehla rishta dekhnay aya wahan haan ho jaya. they are showing too much keh agar eik larkay nay varsha ko pasand nahin kia tu woh saray shaher main badnam ho gayi hai. her jagah 2 4 rishtay atay hain kai aap ko na kartay hain kisi ko aap na kartay ho phir shadi hoti hai.
i am shocked to hear the reason given bhy Vish
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Posted: 16 years ago
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yea.. its ridiculous. indians r not THAT conservative now... they are just exaggerating it.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i was thinking.. if varshas mom had come with a rishta for askharas bro.. then they wouldn't have said no right cuz then it wud be 'arranged'.. so whats the difference?? seriously.. which world do they live in?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: luv_khwaish

I was shocked to hear the reason Vish gave for not getting Shaurya and Varsha married! According to him, if people would know that Shaurya had an affair and he had love marriage, nobody would marry Akshara ...thinking if brother is like this, sister might be the same! this is the limit....this doesn't make any sense!! i'm not saying this bec. I'm a Shaurya Varsha fan but this sounds so illogical...and it's not that the story is set in the pre independence era!!

the family is shown to be too much conservative......and the irony is that daadi who is the eldest of them all has a free mind about all these issues..from the beginning, she helped Akshara in Alok's case, she helped her in postponing her marriage and now she's alright with Shaurya Varsha couple!! and the rest of the family, specially Akshara's parents act like 15th century people !! something is seriously wrong with the story these days...i earlier posted that they are advocating ideas such as girls must not be sent to colleges, they don't have the right to say no for a boy, and whatever Shankari tayi says in the serial is just too much....
I hope what happened in Bidai doesn't happen in this serial..In Bidai they are going too far with the "color" thing and in this serial i hope they don't go on and on about how bad love and love marriage is!!
Plz friends i'm not criticizing these serials..i love them both ....but i feel that if they show too much of this then people who advocate similar ideas will get more strength..in today's age, therez a need to be more liberal...
Charu





oh!! u just said my word, i was saying my mom all this today..... now a days things are not like this in a family like Vishambhar & family as they showed in the serial.... even girls in amall town get chance to studay, and if any rishta broke it doesn't matther that much, they start scerching someone new...... the way they are showing things i think that may have negative impact in some families..... no offence, i didn't like this things about the serial ..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I don't know about this show, but they are definitely not taking the color issue 'too far' in Bidaai.....that is a very real issue....a prejudice that sadly still largely exists in society....all one has to do is read any matrimonial advertisement asking for a 'fair' girl and it is immediately obvious how narrow minded society thinking still is largely.

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