Originally posted by: kavya_luvseizy
Kya analyse kiya hai Dina, I must really praise you for your effort đź‘Źđź‘Ź! I agree with some points of yours and I pointed them out earlier too in my posts in other threads! That is I expect a case of history repeating itself with Ragini and Sadhna, when I say history repeating itself I do not mean it wrt to the relation the sisters share but wrt the rights and duties of the sisters who are now co-sisters. This will surely test the strength of their bond but I am positive that the bond is so strong that it can never be broken! As for Choti Maa being the person responsible for Aalekh's condition, once again, I am positive that is not the case! In Bidaai, all the characters are simple and straight forward even Naveen-Avni, though they are negative it is not like they pretend to be the nicest people on earth all the time and hide their persona completely, they show their true colors every now and then because it is only human! Choti Maa is not pretending to be good at heart, she is actually very good at heart and if they show her as a negative character in the future then I will be disappointed because then there would be no difference between Bidaai and a K-Soap! If they intended to show choti maa as a negative character they would have given us situations where in we begin to doubt Choti Maa's sincerity of feelings for Aalekh and Ranvir. However, I have never seen even one situation where Choti Maa has made me feel that she is faking her love for Aalekh or Ranvir! Also, Aalekh does not like people straight away (I believe he has a strong gut feeling and can sense easily when somebody is faking their emotions for him) and if he adores Choti Maa it is not because she 'manipulated' him from childhood or something, it is because he knows from the bottom of his heart that his Choti Maa loves him unconditionally. If what you are saying is true about Choti Maa, she would have tried to 'manipulate' Sadhna too, played dirty games with Vasu and made her life hell since everybody shares a difficult relationship with Vasu. Choti Maa had ample scope to take the advantage of "hatred"Aalekh used to nurse for Vasu but she never did that, instead she always tried explaining Aalekh to accept his mom. So my point is, nobody can fake their true self so convincingly and that too for such a long time without making the other person feel that he/she is not completely sincere in their feelings or emotions! One is bound to understand at some point that from inside the other is not what he/she looks like outside!
Thank you Kavya_luvseizy. Thank you so much for your positive and analytic post. I was saddened on reading Dina's post. Your post kept my spirits up.
If ever something like what Dina had posted happened, I will immediately stop watching Bidaai.
I watch the soap for its realistic portrayal of characters and life. Bidaai is one serial which is dramatic without being melodramatic and characters that reflect real-life characters. I have encountered noble-hearted personalities in life like Choti Ma who think of the ultimate good of their family rather than their own petty issues.
Choti Ma is a person who is graceful, wise, and good. A lot is to be learned from her way of understanding and dealing with life. She had started off in social life on an impediment of being dark but inspite of that she has made a success out of herself as a human being, as a wife and mother, and also as a social person.
And though Vasu had everything to make herself a success has turned out to be a failure. First and foremost, Vasu as a human being has failed to evolve. Her understanding and values is stunted which in their turn stopped her from making a 100% success out of herself. Being popular and talked about for status and beauty in society circles is fine but a person with normal intelligence and understanding should know that the wellbeing of one's family is just as important. Vasu had neglected too long her duties as a wife and mother. These duties come naturally if one loves one's family. And I doubt if Vasu truly feels love for anybody. She goes by instinct alone. She does not love Inderjeet too much. Nor does she love her sister or Satyen too much. She does love her children but that is rather an animal instinct than a human one. All animals love their children.
Sorry! Said too much on Vasu though I had intended to speak much on Ambika.
Edited by katypink - 16 years ago
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