Finally, we are standing on the edge of 2008 with 2009 beckoning us. Another year of our lives settles down for good in the memory lanes. Now it is certified that even if we wish we cant undo/change anything about the year gone by.
I read somewhere "twenty years from now, we will be disappointed by all the things we didn't do then by the things we did'. How true it sounds when you look back even ten years. Only if their was 'undo' 'edit' 'cut and paste' options available in our lives!!!! I guess the only option available to us is 'refresh'. Lets click on it right away and take a fresh stock of our lives from where we are standing. Lets not lament about what has gone, lets welcome what is waiting to come. And lets filter what is to come with our strength and dedication. Lets celebrate what we achieved and not crib about what we couldn't. We are human beings and not God. If we win some we will lose few. It is important to fail in order to understand what success means. The biggest failure is nothing but the failure to even try, to dream to dare.
Well, most of what i am saying is meant for me because i guess we all have our own ways of dealing with challenges thrown by life. I am just sharing with you how i look at my life and how i keep motivating myself. Whatever i say is not gospel, so just read and ignore. Actually, i want all of you to be happy in life and face challenges as challenges. I would hate to know that any one of us is suffering from 'victimitus infinitus'( check its meaning, those who do not. I bumped into this word recently).
PGKS is going on the floor finally on the 15th feb. There are two more films after that. One is an action and the other is a romantic film. Because of the delay in PGKS the other dates had to be readjusted. I know its been a long wait for you but i just couldnt help it. I was getting frustrated myself but am at peace now. Just had to change my perspective slightly and saw all the good things that came with the delay. I guess, when we are faced with challenges and we see no way out we just need to change our perspective a lil bit. Because its all about conquering and not conceding defeat.
I sincerely hope that 2009 brings in a lot of happiness in your lives. And we as a family, grow further with love and affection. Remember that we are not competing with ourselves. So hatred, jealousy and envy should not be allowed in this family. Lets weed out anything which has a negative influence. Their is enough negativity around us to let it to enter this family. Lets love each other and spread love. I would consider myself fortunate if i could bring in any positive difference even in one life. Do not hesitate in reaching me ever.
Love life is still barren......someday, somewhere, someone! I am an optimist! But wait, do i see an oasis at a distance. Maybe, time will tell.
Love and best wishes
Rajeev Khandelwal
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