Whos fault is it? pls help me.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hi... My name is Vaish...
well the same basic story....
This girl i use to be friends with last year (whom im not cos v broke up) lets jus say her name is Angeli. She has been saying that i spread rumors about her cheating on her boyfriend who is in my class.... Well i kinda did say that cos once we were in our class and we were jus tlking in genrally about Angeli me and my other friend said that we heard bout Angeli two timing someone, we dnt know if it is true or not.... Then Angeli's boyfriend's friend turned around... He said wat?? where did u hear this??? And we both were like oh its jus a rumor that has been going around... If we go tell Clinton (angelis Boyfriend) he'll get pissed at us and soo its best tht we jus stay quiet and not to tlk about it... but Yazdan(clintons friend) said tht if he would go tell Clinton he wouldnt get mad... But we told him to shut his mouth and not to got tell Clinton... But Yazdan didnt listen he went and told Clinton about angeli... And Clinton and Angeli had an arguement.... Later Clinton said to angeli tht I (vaish) said tht she was two timing someone. She got soo pissed that she came up to me and we both had an arguement about the topic...
So waht i wanted to ask is that was it my fault tht i commented on angelis perosnal life... Or is it Yazdans fault who went and told Clinton.. When me and my friend told Yazdan soo not to tell Clinton...
Pls help whos fault is it?? I know its none of my business to comment on someones life but i told Yazdan not to tell clinton but now who is fault is it.???

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Posted: 16 years ago
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anybody will be angry on knowing that people are talking behind their back
so i think its both urs and yazdan's fault..
but knowing who's fault is bigger doesnt solve the problem..
now that she knows about it...i think you should say sorry to her...for talking about her without knowing the entire truth..
imagine urself in her place..and you will know how bad she must have felt...
saying sorry wont do you any harm..and even if she doesnt forgive you..you will be relieved that you have apologised for your mistake..
Posted: 16 years ago
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I think a sincere apology from maybe you and Yazdan should help. I dont think friends should break up for some minor he-say-she-say rumors..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Thank u... I did apoligise to her and it got all sorted out but now she telling everyone again that i said some other Sh*t about her.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: AsliiGuy

I think a sincere apology from maybe you and Yazdan should help. I dont think friends should break up for some minor he-say-she-say rumors..

we didnt break up for that reason.... She was jus using me and she ditched me one day went bak to her old friends. when i asked her wat the problem is she jus said she felt sad cos i didnt have any friendss
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Well, it's true that people get mad when they hear that others are saying something on their back. So her anger is justified but not when you've apologized. If you apologized and set everything right then she's overreacting by not letting it go.

If you haven't said anything after that and she's still believing that you talk behind her back, then go talk to her straight. Let her know that you are not saying anything and give it a last chance but if she still doesn't agree then let it be. Live your life and learn to avoid and ignore.

-Mahi

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Mystery-

Well, it's true that people get mad when they hear that others are saying something on their back. So her anger is justified but not when you've apologized. If you apologized and set everything right then she's overreacting by not letting it go.

If you haven't said anything after that and she's still believing that you talk behind her back, then go talk to her straight. Let her know that you are not saying anything and give it a last chance but if she still doesn't agree then let it be. Live your life and learn to avoid and ignore.

-Mahi

Thank you... I guess she is overeacting. I guess i shud jus ignore it.. But whenever i go past her i feel really scared cos shes with her whole gang and im like the only one..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Akki & Bir*

Thank you... I guess she is overeacting. I guess i shud jus ignore it.. But whenever i go past her i feel really scared cos shes with her whole gang and im like the only one..



You're welcome, but why are you scared? It's not like she's going to beat you up or something 😳 Don't be, if you didn't do anything wrong, then be confident!

-Mahi

Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Mystery-



You're welcome, but why are you scared? It's not like she's going to beat you up or something 😳 Don't be, if you didn't do anything wrong, then be confident!

-Mahi

True that Mahii Mahii, good advice, always be confident and true, friends like friends for who they are...

Also girls cant fight............
(jk..my sister use to hit me 😭)...........
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Posted: 16 years ago
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you shud talk to her its just a misunderstanding.
She is probabily upset so give her some space and ignore the situation.

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