My thoughts on Trish and Rajdeep

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Fatima

@Rhimjhimsawan

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Posted: 16 years ago

For Rajdeep::

I would love to call the guy a lunatic and maybe he is. But the truth is he is a decent guy. He loves his wife with his life, he has blind faith in his brother/best friend, he loves his mom. Everything about him is good. he even cares for trishna's family. Lies irk him. Everyone has something they can't stand. For him it's lies. he believes in trust. He expects it from everybody. Even strangers. remeber when he saw the couple fighting? he got really serious because he expected the lady to trust the guy. Whatever his past is, it's serious. It is obviously not just a case of bad breakup. He doesn't want it to affect his life with trishna the way trish doesn't want her past to affect him. He was doing just fine till the memory came back to him. he still tries to push it away and acts just normal. he is the sweet loving husband, he only loses control when trish reminds him of the past.

For trishna::

I understand. If my husband had a juicy past I would like to know too. But you have a past too. You don't want Rajdeep to know your past just like he doesn't want you to know his. I would expect her to understand.You went after the album fine! You shouldn't have snooped through his belongings, but I will let that go. The box on the other hand crossed limits. The box wasn't infront of her it was covered. She had no reason to get it out. Fine! she got it out it fell and had burnt pictures. But what difference does that make? you burnt your pictures with Raj! It's not like Rajdeep is sleeping with those, you found it tucked away in a store room that no one has been to for quite sometime. If the past is really affecting your husband that badly let it go. How can you say " I realized I was delving into the past and making everything worse" then come back and keep the pics in your cupborad. TRUST is trust. Either you trust your husband and respect his wishes or you don't. There is not much of a middle ground here. The middle ground went away a long time ago. The 1st few days were acceptable when you thought his memories were hurting him. But now you know you brining up the memories and hiding things from him is hurting him.

Edited by Perfangel5655 - 16 years ago