Falling apart please help me

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Babi_angel

@Babi_angel

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Posted: 17 years ago

I got two best mates n we ave been proper close but all of a sudden the pair of them dont get along much.We always argue now we hardly do anything together not just that they both started to do there own thing and hang out with new mates.I dont no wat to do all the ova girls rnt as trustworthy.PLease help!!!

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Posted: 17 years ago

i think u should talk to them..because frnds mean everything to us.i think u should call them both together somewhr u all like to hang out n then discuss the matter...u may even go fr an outing too...dnt let ur frds go away coz its really tough to get true frnds...

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Mahi

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Posted: 17 years ago

Oh, I have seen this happen all the times.. sometimes differences grow so much in a short span of time that you're left confused.

The best thing to do as mentioned above is to talk to both of them up front. Set up a meeting to discuss it with both of them. Ask them what the problem is and then see if you guys can together sort it out. Kind of remind them the old beautiful days (sometimes emotional blackmailing works 😳)

But sometimes hanging around with new mates is good too. I am not saying that you should forget the old friends but getting new ones is good too.

After chatting with both of them about the problem if you think you can solve it then do that but if you think that their problem is not solvable then leave them to their separate paths. After all it's a better to not meet than meet and fight. You can always be friends with both of them and meet them as you can but sometimes it's impossible to patch up the broken or forgotten relationships no matter how hard you try.

-Mahi

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Babi_angel

@Babi_angel

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Posted: 17 years ago

The problem is one of them is always following dis ova girl and cums bak 2 me wen da ova girl leaves her i feel so used.I dont no wat to do, we used to get along and ave so much fun now she only talks to me sometimes.Im so lost without them

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Mahi

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Posted: 17 years ago

^^ Well, I would feel used too.. Let her know how you feel. And let her know that if she truly is your friend then she should realize that she should treat you equally and should be how you girls used to be.

Just talk it out with each other.... That's all what's needed.

-Mahi