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Human relationships are very complex. Does a formula for a perfect relationship exist? How essential are love, lust, aggression, jealousy and passion in a relationship?
Acclaimed Television actor Varun Badola bares his heart.


Love is an undefined feeling. It just happens and when it happens it's the most beautiful. Love is to understand the mental balance of your partner and adjusting to it. In short it is a two way process of understanding and adjusting.

Physical attraction is always present, but people tend to hide it. What we fail to understand is that many times it's the physical attraction that develops into love. Physical love strengthens a man-woman relation.

Pride of a man is supreme when he knows that he is the provider. The day he feels that his partner is better than him, his love paves way to jealousy. Jealousy erupts when his ego is crushed because he feels that he was born to be superior and when his superiority is demolished by his own beloved, he gets aggressive and jealous.

Aggression is a very subjective emotion. Man becomes aggressive when there is a sense of insecurity in him and to hide that insecurity he becomes aggressive and destructive. Aggression and jealousy are the two worst emotions in a relationship, and when out of control can even break the same.

Being passionate about your mate, is a wonderful feeling of being 'desired'. The feeling of being desired by someone you love is wonderful. But being passionate does not mean being physical, it's more of an emotional bonding. Passion always blossoms a relationship.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Human relationships are very complex. Does a formula for a perfect relationship exist? How essential are love, lust, aggression, jealousy and passion in a relationship?


Actress and singer Rajeshwari Sachdev holds forth.




Love is a feeling that is very difficult to describe. I believe in love, because it makes you grow in a relationship. Life becomes very difficult without the presence of that someone in your life.



Lust is an attraction towards someone. It is the initial stage of love but not love. It is a temporary feeling. It disappears with time.



Jealousy is a part of love. But it should be in a positive form of love. It should not be such as if there is a competition with your partner that makes it unhealthy and creates rifts. Jealousy diminishes as and when trust grows, it's a part of growing up in love and relationship.



It is a complete put off. There is no future in a relation when the partner is aggressive because it means that he does not have any tolerance or patience in himself. It is a scary feeling.



No passion, no fire in a relationship. Passion is something that creates a lively atmosphere in a relation. It is fun with closeness. Basically, a relationship should have a combination of love, lust, passion, jealousy.


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