Who's responsible for anandi's plight?

but i will blame anandi's mom for anandi's current plight...i know its harsh but my point is its bad enough that girls r married off at such an young age and den sent off to deir in-laws place after the gauna but in anandi's case she was sent off few years before her gauna only cos her mother panicked after seeing wat happened to anandi's friends chameli and pulli and insisted on it

i mean if anandi was sent 4 years later..atleast she would have been bit more prepared for her new life and a bit more matured than she is now at d age of 12..also by then she would have atleast understood wat marriage meant ..and wat her relationship with jagdish actually is....i mean look at sugna...she is dying to go to her in-laws and begin a life with pratap...dat is cos she's old enough to harbour such feelings for pratap

even though dadisa is quite mean but even anandi is too innocent to understand the meaning of all those rituals a wife or a daughter-in-law is excpected to follow...

atleast anandi is lucky enough to have such loving in-laws...who insisited on keeping anandi and jagya separate until they reach the proper age or else anandi could have gone to the same grind of early childbirth which basant's wife went through..if it had happened ..it would also have been anandi's mom's fault..though she loves anandi ..but i feel she kinda contributed in destroying anandi's childhood