Totally agree Ajju. đđź
Raja is a man with flaws. He made mistakes. He has admitted on the show that he was in rehab bc of his alcohol problems. He has anger management issues. We can all see that. What we can also see is that Sam used all of the weaknesses she knew he had to get him nominated. I see people on the forum here asking how we as women can support Raja who abused and shouted gaalis at a fellow naari.
I don't support any of Raja's anger issues or his gaalis. It's plainly wrong. He needs help. But let's not be blind. The woman in question here is not a woman, she's more like a man. She has a potty mouth and spouts gaalis at the drop of a hat. Usmein ek bhi harkat aurton jaisi nahin hai. She thinks she can spew shit and get away with it but if a man does the same, she plays the 'I'm a woman' card. Arrey, even the worst gaali galoch wale men will not use words that she herself used with Rahul. That "Gadhe ki ... mein" and stuff. Why is she excused for using such filthy language?? After all, what's good for the goose is good for the gander too. Why spare her?? Sure she didn't aggressively shout and have murderous eyes while saying the same but abuse is an abuse. It's like some women abusing the dowry act. They scream murder when hubby reacts to what they had started. Women want equal rights but are so reluctant to part away with certain priviliges that come from being a woman. Feminism chalaya hai, equality maangi hai toh equal ho ke chalo. Yeh special reservations, yeh bus mein seats...yeh sab kya hai?? Yeh sab chahiye???? Toh phir equality mat maango.
We don't know what happened with his wife. She's the successsful one. He's the failure. It's easier to judge him than her. Maybe she taunted him. Maybe she didn't. Maybe he hit her. maybe he didn't.
Edited by MithiBani - 16 years ago